Bros, I wrote a short introduction, however, I was a little strapped for time so please allow me to give a more in depth narrative(sorry for the length).
I dated my ex for about 5 years, at first things were great and I thought possibly, just maybe she was the one, I know, I know, a foolish premonition with modern women but she did wait for me through my last deployment (army)(which in retrospect I’m almost positive she cheated on me) and she gave birth to my beautiful daughter. But dealing with my daughters mom through her first year of life was a nightmare, why do women turn into giant c~~~s after the baby is born??, as if they weren’t big enough c~~~s already. Its like we become their coping mechanism for all their emo s~~~, I noticed this also with my sister and her husband as well. Any fathers please answer this question as it still perplexes me thanks.
Anyway with my daughter being born that opened the floodgates to all of her family members particularly her MOTHER, whom which I kept a sharp eye as she was always pushing me towards marriage as if she had every say in the matter and acted as if my daughter belonged more to her than me, I s~~~ you not. Needless to say, the mother was some bra burning feminist with serious resentment towards men, her own husband was some dude that walked around with his head down and never said a word almost as if she’d broken him in like a wild horse, her son was around 30 and did not date, ironically he had went his own way, we smoked a joint together once during Xmas and when he spoke of his lifestyle, honestly I truly envied him.
In an instance I saw the husband as a glimpse of my future self, I said hold up ” gotta keep an eye on these women”. They were the type who expected to wear the pants in the house (whiny & bossy). I had no problem with this except I payed all the bills and neither of them contributed, it’s my house goddammit!!.
Here’s where things go awry, her mother practically moves herself in without my permission and never leaves except flying home to see her husband for a couple days then flies right back, all this happens between mother & daughter and not once did they ever discussed the s~~~ with me. One day I said sarcastically to my ex gfs bitch mother, “hey you know it would be really nice to have some privacy around here for a change”, bitch mother says “only married people need privacy”. I was inches from grabbing that bitch’s suitcase and throwing it out in the street but I held back which I regretted later BTW.
As my daughter approached two, my ex was supposed to go back to work but her mom was still hanging around all day and practically living there, I let it slide for a while as she did help with watching my daughter. As I came home from work each day I noticed that they were both increasingly drunk everyday and there’d be no dinner for me or my daughter while they both sat by the pool drinking wine too weight conscious to eat and too damned self absorbed to consider that I may me hungry from a long days work, I would then usually give my baby girl a bath then put her to sleep.
One day I said in front of her mom how’s the job search going?, she goes apes~~~ and says I’m embarrassing her and that she needs to enroll my daughter into daycare (that i payed for)so she can find a job, I said what about your mom let her watch her that’s why she’s here right? Wrong her mom was only there to alienate and commiserate my ex into marriage or leaving me.
Once they realized, that I wasn’t going to committ to marriage they LITERALLY upped and left back to Illinois leaving me all alone with nothing except the dog Sal who’s my boy till the end and an empty house, which was bigger than anything I’d ever need(I think she was cheating on me btw), its funny how that little marriage certificate is like a contract for women to screw you over and if they can’t get it (marriage/leverage) they’ll pout like a child and just up and leave you, its a lose lose bros, the baby was a last ditch effort to get me to committ but failed.
When I finally got to speak to the bitch after like a week without seeing my baby, where I almost reverted to my army training out of rage. Over the phone they (ex & ex mom) said they’ll come back if I agreed to get married and buy an engagement ring. I said calmly no way after what you just put me through, you’d just do it again, I won’t put up with that ever again, I felt a change in her voice as she realized she blew it and that was enough retribution for me, knowing that I hurt her the same spiteful way she hurt me. Its a shame that an innocent child had to be caught in the middle of her selfish plan to emasculate me.
Been separated from her ever since, almost five years now. Now I know why the mom was there in the first place to help her plan a way to screw me over through marriage and use my daughter as leverage while portraying my lack of commitment as the reason for the split and escape back to Illinois, either way I’m glad I dodged that bullet even though I really do miss my daughter, those bitches taking her from me almost killed me.
I’m working hard on getting full custody as I only see her during Xmas, summertime and other holidays. But with the way the court systems are wired and the fact that my ex’s mother is a feminist therapist and my ex will cry crocodile tears at every hearing I’m optimistic. My friend, a lawyer has told me to build a case against her and record her while drinking or smoking(kinda impossible because we no longer cohabitate), which she seems to be doing a lot of since its on her parents dime, typical entitled,spoiled brat bitch.
Last xmas I had to go to subzero ass Illinois to visit my daughter for Xmas, I got sick from freezing my bollocks off being as I’m from Miami. Also another thing, men beware, when you date a woman you’re practically dating her mother too.
I got into another relations~~~ as well after this (I know I shuda learned) one that ultimately led me to MGTOW but I’ll save that for part two. Thx for reading bros.
"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"
BlackEagle 4 years, 8 months ago.
