monk mode .. the mindset

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

things i’ve learned during my brief life existence .. is that i don’t ever give advice, i have none to give

and i never speak for anyone else .. we each design our own, isn’t that what it’s all about? ..your own way

the other thing i’ve learned is that monk mode, in my own world .. and add ghosting, it is totally enough,

my red pill is not a hinderance, not a punishment or limiting factor in any way .. never producing melancholy

to the contrary, it opens an entire world of choices, freedoms, benefits .. possibilities, nothing else can match

the world is still out there, it always will be .. everything available, everything .. this, i will never, ever forget

[Gravel PitParticipant]

“At this time, the United Nations will give the floor to “MGTOW” to explain themselves.”

“Excuse me, Mr. MGHOW, would you please explain your position, and respectfully acknowledge your inquirers.”

[meanwhile, lets see what’s going on through the lens of a ‘Man Going His Own Way’]

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3759]

Awesome post and reply.

[AutoliteParticipant]

I’ve been monk mode for several years now. But my desire for sex has effectively been eradicated by the liabilities that go along with it. I wouldn’t enjoy having sex today. There’s no longer any pleasure to be had by it. I can’t seem to get past the feeling of ‘what’s this one going to do to me if I have sex with her’. Now, I just see all potential sexual partners as a liability with titts.

Does anyone else feel like that???

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

I can’t seem to get past the feeling of ‘what’s this one going to do to me if I have sex with her’.

yup, same here

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

Autolite wrote:

Does anyone else feel like that???

Yeah and I figure she’s probably a bitch anyway behind the disguise. I don’t look twice at them anymore.

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[Daryll55Participant 2950]

Excellent thread and replies.

Monk Mode means solitude and an affinity against having sex. That may sound horrible to some(esp young men) but it has great possibilities for those who care to endevour.
I was blue pill, “found love,” and did the family thing. It was fulfilling as I was enriching everyone elses’s lives……EXCEPT MY OWN. Now that may sound selfish, but when NOONE appreciates the SACRIFICE you make in order to make their lives better;you begin to feel un-appreciated.
And it only gets worse:
Your kids want more and more while acknowledging you less and less.
The wife now EXPECTS whatever she needs from you and the sex dissappears.
The family keeps pressure on you to advance your career so you can wear a bigger ball and chain by both you family AND your employer.
Soon enough the only FREEDOM you will have is eating,sleeping and in the bathroom.

If you buck your responsibilities after already making the commitment,(marriage/cohabitating,kids)you will be divorce raped until you are practically homeless as the courts will make sure you uphold your “Commitment” to others.

in that light “Monk mode” and ghosting may not sound too bad.

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[MonkParticipant 16985]

Avoiding sexual encounters and lessening desire is easier when you (a) consider the appalling consequences of entanglement, and (b) look dispassionately at the mechanics of it.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

It only takes one call remember?

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[AutoliteParticipant]

The Batman 2020 wrote:

It only takes one call remember?

Have sex once with some female and you spend the next forty years with a false rape accusation dangling over your head. That just doesn’t appeal to me for some reason…

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Gentleman, don’t give up sex. Just do it while traveling. FAR FAR AWAY from where YOU live and WORK and where YOUR life is.

But I hate to break it to you, Everything you are looking for sucks with most women. Sorry broskey. What you want, you are not getting. It’s just for the night gents.

Look, I like to DO THINGS. That does not give with women. They want to DO YOU. Understand? Very few love the thrills in life you do. Many less are there looking for you.

So sell them s~~~ just like they want. There is a reason why Pilots are Pilots. And why some people LOVE traveling jobs.

WOmen get tired of it when they get older. MEN never do. That is why I loved doing my GIg that I did installing stuff for Samsung etc. Its fun. New city every other day, and its a great time. They fly or you drive where you need to be and its great.

If ONLY I was single at the time. JOLLY the Motel PUSSY is FANTASTIC I am sure! LOL!

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Daryll55 wrote:

I was blue pill, “found love,” and did the family thing. It was fulfilling as I was enriching everyone elses’s lives……EXCEPT MY OWN. Now that may sound selfish, but when NOONE appreciates the SACRIFICE you make in order to make their lives better;you begin to feel un-appreciated. And it only gets worse: Your kids want more and more while acknowledging you less and less. The wife now EXPECTS whatever she needs from you and the sex dissappears.

THIS is what modern marriage becomes.

There is NO YOU ONLY THEM.

You become the utility item to fulfill THEIR needs and wants.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Gravel PitParticipant]

Monk wrote:

(a) consider the appalling consequences of entanglement, and (b) look dispassionately at the mechanics of it.

Love the way you put that bro

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Lots of good stuff here from everyone.

I hope young guys and lurkers are taking this message to heart.

You are a resource.

Any thoughts you might have of being that “special someone” in a woman’s life will be revealed immediately after it’s too late to avoid the trap.

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