MIGTOW FALLOUT first 100 days

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Found this site about 3 months ago. Holy S~~~ has my life changed! Thought maybe a few of the lurkers (I was one) would like to know a few of the things that may happen soon after the first red pill. Also has anyone else had a similar first 100 days?

Before MIGTOW I was the typical trained male. If I wanted to do something, I asked. If it was something fun with my friends, I was made to feel guilty. Usually the “you have more important things that need to be done” bulls~~~. We lived together. She was great at playing me to get “things” done. I was beat. I had an army of blue pill friends helping to beat me further. “Just marry her and make it official” blaw blaw blaw. I felt pressure from every damn direction. Nowhere to turn for a second opinion. She waited on her ring, I just waited.

DISCOVERED MIGTOW

She pushed marriage, I left. Since then….

1- “shock and shame” by blue pill friends. Some actually seemed mad about it

2- I did at times have self doubt. First 3 weeks were tough. Read a few of steaths camping stories. Went hell yeah, I want to do that s~~~! Doubts evaporated.

3- work got better. I work remote, very remote. Weeks at a time. High risk, high reward is our motto. Made my ability to focus much better. No woman, no worries.

4- it’s quiet. The silence was almost deafening at first. It felt wrong! Doesn’t take long before you start to love it.

5- freedom. This one is still setting in. I was busting ass on a house project and thought, I just want to go do some fishing. Dismissed the thought and kept working. Then it hit me. WHY THE HELL AM I NOT FISHING? Grabbed my gear and went. No one was keeping me there but me.

6- land whales. I wish I didn’t have to mention them but be ready. They can smell you out like a bloodhound chasing a fugitive.

7- mental health. Things just seem clearer. Priorities take shape in a whole different manner. I’ve also noticed I’m more willing to openly call bulls~~~ on bulls~~~. I also see other guys more as fellow victims than competitors.

8- blue pill truthers. Recently many of my friends admitted to me how miserable they really are. They are jealous as hell. One said “I hate that you figured it out and I didn’t. My wife hates you more though”

Anyway things keep getting better and better. I could go on for days but this is already pretty long.

How were your first days after slamming down the red pill?

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

Not sure why my phone keeps putting a damn i in mgtow. It’s p~~~ing me off!

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Trapper wrote:

My wife hates you more though”

Heard this one a few times as well.

My favorite was being told, “everytime I get my wife to think you’re a decent person, you do/say something to f~~~ it up”

You struck gold.

The key is peace and serenity. Catch it. Hold it.

Love your outline. Very well put.

Peace brothers

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Trapper wrote:

She pushed marriage, I left. Since then….

1- “shock and shame” by blue pill friends. Some actually seemed mad about it

2- I did at times have self doubt. First 3 weeks were tough. Read a few of steaths camping stories. Went hell yeah, I want to do that s~~~! Doubts evaporated.

3- work got better. I work remote, very remote. Weeks at a time. High risk, high reward is our motto. Made my ability to focus much better. No woman, no worries.

4- it’s quiet. The silence was almost deafening at first. It felt wrong! Doesn’t take long before you start to love it.

5- freedom. This one is still setting in. I was busting ass on a house project and thought, I just want to go do some fishing. Dismissed the thought and kept working. Then it hit me. WHY THE HELL AM I NOT FISHING? Grabbed my gear and went. No one was keeping me there but me.

6- land whales. I wish I didn’t have to mention them but be ready. They can smell you out like a bloodhound chasing a fugitive.

7- mental health. Things just seem clearer. Priorities take shape in a whole different manner. I’ve also noticed I’m more willing to openly call bulls~~~ on bulls~~~. I also see other guys more as fellow victims than competitors.

8- blue pill truthers. Recently many of my friends admitted to me how miserable they really are. They are jealous as hell. One said “I hate that you figured it out and I didn’t. My wife hates you more though”

This is strong work, Trapper. If you can get an honest answer out of the rest of your friends, they will admit to misery, as well. No need to join their company.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[JVBParticipant]

Way to go Trapper !!! I got lucky(43) and never wanted kids so never saw the point of marriage. Women hated me for that. Only came across this site a month ago and what a revelation. It’s not just me I yelled!!! Great post and I share a lot of your red pill observations. ” my wife hates you more though”. That’s outstanding lmfao.

Peace is > piece.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Trapper wrote:

My wife hates you more though

my brother’s wife begged me to tell my brother that marriage is great. she’s afraid he’ll see how happy i am and how much better my life is after divorce. so i told my brother marriage is great…. but divorce is way better. his wife was there and we had a good laugh but we all silently knew it was true.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Trapper wrote:

“My wife hates you more though”

That’s not hate. They simply want to keep you away from their locked down walking wallet husbands lest their husbands learn from your example. And for all that their wives may “hate” you, don’t be surprised if a large percentage of their wives also want to f~~~ you. You can expect some strange signals coming from them in the future.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Welcome back, Trapper. You appear to making the adjustment to freedom well after those first few weeks. Your finances also will improve if you are disciplined about them. The way you handled that ultimatum was a classic. I don’t think there are too many men who would tell a woman “marry me, or leave!”

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Welcome to the good life, Trapper (cool name)

Trapper wrote:

How were your first days after slamming down the red pill?

They were filled with anger. I felt like someone who has been duped all his life.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Trapper wrote:

“Just marry her and make it official” blaw blaw blaw. I felt pressure from every damn direction. Nowhere to turn for a second opinion. She waited on her ring, I just waited.

DISCOVERED MIGTOW

This website is a life saver.

Enjoy your freedom!

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome Trapper
Excellent post you articulate well and I look forward to more posts by you.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Welcome.

You picked a great time to show up, because we’re at the highlighted part of this quote:

First they ignore you,
then they laugh at you,
then they fight you,
then you win.

Granted, I don’t know how long the fight will be, but be sure to have your popcorn and beer while they bitch about us for simply doing nothing. However, with the biggest ‘f~~~ you’ in election history, interesting times are ahead.

As a senior MGTOW, I command you to buy yourself a Christmas present this year and the subsequent years.

Ol’ Uncle Cap has his eye on this:

Freedom is good.

Fuck this planet.

[HappyParticipant 55]

I discovered MGTOW about two weeks ago myself, and I’ve been through pretty much the same s~~~ you described — minus having to kick a bitch out because of marriage talk. My big dilemma was that I used to assume marriage = happiness, but luckily for me, all the girlfriends Ive ever had would either dump me because of my lack of commitment, or I would push them away and move on because of their over-commitment (all of this was subconscious at the time of course). I began to start thinking something was wrong with me, and everybody else had life figured out; boy was I wrong. Being that I’m only 26, I am so relieved to have discovered this community before I let my societal panic do the thinking for me and get myself into a financial and emotional nightmare. If there is a cool girl out there that wants to chill and cook and f~~~ and talk and snowboard and not nag, sign me up! But it seems there is always an underlying motif with the majority of women, I see it everyday and its only confirmed by all the MGTOW stories Ive read including my own.. This site truly is a breath of fresh air. I too am thinking more clearly than ever. Thanks amigos.

[Anonymous 43]

I got married at 27. I would totally go back in time and kidnap my stupid self to keep me from getting married, no wait, Christmas of 1997, I was 26. S~~~. Christmas sex, and the c~~~ was taking a job in California in January. OMG I WAS SO F~~~ING STUPID!!!!!!! She poked holes in the condoms I stored at her place and she “forgot” her f~~~ pill. stupid stupid stupid

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

enjoy your freedom dude.

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Arriving at this kind of clarity within 100 days is as monumental as the Trump win – or the Clinton loss – however you want to look at it. It was epic.

Trapper wrote:

Also has anyone else had a similar first 100 days?

It took me 20 years to go from saying stupid s~~~ like: “Wanna have dinner sometime?”…..
to feeling great about saying: “I’m not your husband, I don’t have to listen to you’.

^^ @cap285 was one of the very first MGTOW blokes I ever read (on an old forum). For the first time ever, it all made sense instantly. Before that, I knew the score, but it took YEARS to un-f~~~ myself from s~~~ty social programming.

It was great to read this ®Trapper. We remember when you joined and thank you for the update.
This one’s going in Top Gun eventually.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Welcome to freedom, Trapper

your short learning period and success is great.

Everything about MGTOW is common sense and deletes all social progamming very fast.

The blue pill programing is so tricky and “well thought out” by the female propaganda and lies that it leads to a man’s death if he follows it. It is only there to get you on the plantation. Women are ONLY after your resources. And I mean “ONLY”. They don’t give a s~~~ about you.

After marriage, a man’s soul and spirit dies first and then the psychosomatic illnesses get the rest of him, putting him in his early grave.

Women have no sense of humor and are constantly unhappy about everything. And by getting married to one of them you also marry their negative spirit.

Here is a repost of something I wrote in another thread just hours ago that also fits here:

Javierzul wrote:

I still was able to evaluate my own reactions. Typical self questions, “How much money, time, energy would f~~~ing that require? I instantly lost my boner, better than a cold shower. Red Pill at work. I am so proud to have taken it. I got my power back.

You perfectly describe the MGTOW learning success.

Women never expected this day to come when we men wake up and think before we get our “followup Mommy” that causes us pain 24/7.

We now think before we blindly adopt “somebody elses’ spoiled daughter” that doesn’t even give a s~~~ about us. And give her all of our hard-earned resources.

Stephen Covey, a success trainer writes in one of his books: “Begin with the end in mind” and that rule applies to everything in life.

It was the “active part” of my MGTOW mindset.

The passive parts are our previous real life experiences with women. That also includes things we were just the witnesses of. And the resulting fear of abusive creatures is also part of the “passive avoidance” men have developed to stay away from the “entitled nagging bitch” of today.

But the active part is what makes you the king of your emotions and gives you control over “the mistakes you are willing to make” or the risks you are willing to take.

And that is now the game changer:

MGTOW is management and self-development mindset “hitting the streets”.

It can be compared: The “game” of a good manager is to steer his company-ship around riffs without going into bankruptcy and still develop it and even make some money after all.

For all men, women have turned out to be the greatest underwater riff that rips apart even unsinkable ships.

MGTOW is the seamap and compass for all men to avoid these collisions.

We now go one step further: We guide us and our brothers with Sonar, WAAS, GPS and GLONASS precicion.

And Keymaster is the Captain of this ship.

And if you ever run out of red pills, read my story. The link is in my profile. I was a MGTOW since my earliest childhood and I describe my experiences with abusive c~~~s from day 1 after my birth.

Women hating for what I am is the air that I breathe. There are hundreds of women hating the guts out of me for being free and living well.

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

[Anonymous 0]

amen man. Glad you are free.
Feels good dont it? I love camping and i have bug out gear everywhere. I spend time doing what i like and such now. I could’nt care less about anything or any c~~~. Stay true to yourself and keep moving forward.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

This is simply amazing. I’m reminded of that scene in Shawshank Redemption where the guy crawls through the sewer pipe and once he gets out raises his arms enjoying the rain and the freedom. Simply brilliant.

[SolidusXParticipant 854]

Congrats @Trapper and welcome to the better life you deserve! I almost fell into the marriage trap when I was young as well, what a disaster that would have been. I can see the disdain on some of my male friends voices when their woman tells them they can not go out for whatever reason. I can see the anger on their faces when they have no money or time to hang out because it all goes to the woman/kid.

I was even scolded by one of my friends woman and told I was selfish because I did not want children or even marriage. My response to her face was that I love being able to do what I want, go where I want, be with who I want, buy what I want, work when I want, and work on things that matter to me whenever I want. Her response was that I will always be alone and people will think I am un-datable because I am selfish blah blah blah. All I could see and think about was the dude’s head hang in shame as he knew his b~~~~ were locked to this fat land whale and he wish he could have the life of a free man.

Woman will always try the blame and shame game to try to entrap men, most men will fall for it because they are pussy whipped and worship it like it’s god, are a white knight, or an all around mangina. I remember my first day finally saying NO to a woman and going on my own, it was the best experience and life changing moment I have ever had!

Knowledge is power..... Don't waste your brain on bullshit

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