These bios don’t dig nearly as deep as one might think. And, frankly, the headline does not match the content, but you don’t have to read that deeply.
Susan:
She last got laid when “Windows 98” was a big deal, AOL was how we got to websites and “Dot Com” was a still a buzz phrase.
And why not ? She was only 38, and we will assume was attractive enough. There where plenty of men, especially younger men, who would have given her sex and companionship.
No, Susan, if I am to make a few reasonably generous assumptions about you (and ask the IT guy for a little research help), I am not buying the claim that, somehow, it is “men’s fault” that you haven’t been laid since fax machines where still popular.
Simply put, you wanted it on your terms. Like any reasonable effort in life, compromise is required. Be it politics of any kind, designing the next airliner or even balancing the household budget- you have to compromise in life to get anything to happen.
“….They seem left with an impossible choice: meaningless, soul-sapping casual encounters or decades of celibacy…..”
Poppyc~~~ !
You could have enjoyed the performance and company of a youthful (but very adult) lover. I know because, frankly, I was that younger lover for a few older women growing up.
“….There must be plenty out there who would like a no-strings relationship, but I’d end up returning to my flat feeling lonely and rejected, so that’s not the answer….”
You where the one who left strings attached, not the men. No, instead of meeting a man with a reasonable compromise, you tried to get it all, and got nothing.
Shirley:
Marriage One: “….married her first husband aged 16 believing she had found the perfect escape from an unhappy home-life….that marriage, to a man who was ten years her senior, lasted just 18 months.”
So you used and older man to move away. Some would think I was mean to guess that, but I wonder if your birthday, and the timing of certain other events would match up with using him to move out early. If I was consulting on an investigation, I would be neglecting my job if I didn’t at least consider it and research it.
Marriage Two: “Aged 32, Shirley married her second husband, who owned an engineering company, at a big church wedding in Knightsbridge, followed by a month-long honeymoon in Africa…..the stress of trying for a baby, discovering that Shirley was infertile and then two rounds of IVF put enormous strain on the marriage, which ended after three years”
So, after waiting at least 14 years to marry a rich man, you blew it by thinking with your womb, rather than being sensible and adopting or just skipping children. My guess is you stressed the poor man out.
In short, you p~~~ed away the efforts of years to find the most “eligible man” possible, you flush it all down the drain in the rage of “baby rabies”
Marriage Three: “…Ever hopeful of finding lasting love, she married her third husband within days of meeting him at a wedding in Los Angeles….realising that she barely knew her husband, divorced him within a year of their wedding….”
Holy smokes ! A track record like this demonstrates a total inability to make a stable marriage, even by today’s craptacular standards ! Anyone who has you as a “Life Coach” needs to listen very closely to what you say, and do the exact opposite.
I suspect you might have been the one who thought the word “cow” belongs in any clothing line for women. Here’s a news flash- most women don’t like to be associated with the word “cow”, at least here in the US ! No man implied your product was for “cows”- you did !
With a half-clever name, it might be doing better. http://venuscow.co.uk/
“…sex should be a reward for men who put them on a pedestal…”
And did you put your men “on a pedestal” ? No, you just used sex with strings attached to play them like a puppet.
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Please, don’t “blame” men for being smart enough to look at your record. You make it obvious at this point.
Suzie:
Oh what the hell ! This one I really need to let the others savor, but I will leave with this:
If a MGTOW lives sexless or as a “monk”, he is ridiculed and others try to shame him instead of respecting his freedom to chose.
But when you promote sexless relationships at https://www.platonicpartners.org/ , it’s just dandy !
Enjoying that passionate affair with double standards ?
Frank V.
Least I forget : Good call OldBill. You got a good eye for this stuff.
Prefer Peace to Piece 4 years, 3 months ago.
