MGTOW – this is a man you have created!

[treznik87Participant 570]

I’m here now for more than a year. My transformation as far as social conditioning and SELF respect (self because in the past it was depending way too much on girls and their attention to me) has changed so much that I can say I’m a different guy now. I feel like I’m more prepared, almost like I’m armored with cheating codes (video games association).

I’m not one of those monk types and I’m not intending to be one yet. I’m still young at 28, and I still want to date and have a good time (sex I mean). It’s been more than a year since my heart was.. what they say… broken. Completely… I even cried in front of my mother. It hasn’t happened since I was a child…I just broke… I m proud that I took all my depression, anger and above all disappointment in the GYM and not in some self destructive path like alcohol or gambling. Since then I have been working out 4 time a week consistently for 14 months. Results are great and to be honest sometimes I get sick of all the compliments and attention I get for my body (guys – not even gays and some women who are hiding it but checking me out secretly).

As far as my ex goes… I have realized I was manipulated to the point I thought everything is my fault and I’m not good enough. For several months. Tnx to MGTOW I have step by step realized how far from the truth this has been.

I feel like I’m ready to date again – yes, I know some of you are against that, but hookers just don’t do it for me. I went only once (half a year ago) with friends and it felt strange – she was hot and she tried her best – really made an effort but I wasn’t really enjoying myself. I don’t know why because I see all women one way or another as hookers, so thats not an issue. Just a price is different.

Now that I’m ready to go back in I know it will be a lot of fun because I have a wisdom. If relationship happens it will be on my terms, I’ll be selfish (a complete opposite as I used to be) put myself and my needs FIRST… and if she is not putting out, neither am I. When things will go downhill (and they will, its just a matter of time), there will be no long talks and trying to save a relationship. Because as far as I know, when you try to do that you are already done and most of the time you are the ONLY ONE trying to do that anyway. Just my experience.

And as far as I’m concerned, there is no BC pills anymore… they don’t exist anymore for me. You have a problem with that? Fine, bye… I read/heard enough about trusting a woman who ‘love’ you. The only protection I know are condoms, if she insist on BC pills thats just a bonus.

And the thing I’m looking forward the most is… I just want to see myself not taking any BS and s~~~ tests any more. The tolerance for that will be small – close to zero. The thing is I have always been good at seeing all their red flags and s~~~ tests but very bad at acting upon them. The same can be said for my gut feeling. Its there for a f~~~ing reason. I can honestly say I will never put another woman on a pedastal again.

I had only one serious relationship that lasted a year and a half but sometimes I have a feeling I have experiences of many guys – tnx to you guys and the knowledge you share.
Its like buying a new car and cant wait to try it. Thats how I feel about myself right now.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

I’m glad you’re doing so well. As for “dating”… it seems you have you heart set on it, who am I to tell you no. Your mindset may make this problematic for you. You are not going to want to tolerate all the s~~~ you have to go through for the average woman. This is not even factoring in the really hot women, which are a whole other level of neurotic. The arrogance, and entitlement of women makes them hard to be around. But do what you got to do brother, it’s your way you’re going, not mine.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[Anonymous 42]

A sports car going four wheelin, what a shame…

[AFTParticipant 2722]

Why not? It’s your life, you’re going in with your eyes open, you know the deal, and that’s what going your own way is all about. Good luck.

You know it’s temporary, and you set the limit on the squeeze your prepared to pay for that juice. Just a warning not to let emotions f~~~ with your rational logic, it’s easier observing AWALT from the outside but those nice feelings can overcome and betray you.

My prediction is that over time you realize that the juice is simply not wort the squeeze and become indifferent if not repulsed by the drama.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[Greg SilveradoParticipant 172]

Everybody has to see for themselves. I took the red pills my eyes were opened and dating just didn’t seem that much fun anymore. I can’t even watch my old favorite shows like Naked and Afraid because I get so f~~~ing p~~~ed off how accepted these little entitled princesses are and how they just feel as though they can say anything or do anything they want. It is such a step out of the norm I’m like 30 years older than you dude. Women today are so f~~~ed in the head I don’t know how you’re going to be able to date and keep yourself sane. I was thinking about it earlier I always paid to get laid sometimes you have to listen which is f~~~ing torture sometimes you have to do s~~~ for them like buy them dinner and then you have to listen to them on top of that. There really isn’t anything interesting that can come out of a woman’s mouth that I want to hear. I can think of a few things to put in her though.

Anyway I hope it works out for you but I think you’re in for a huge disappointment. I’ll never look at women the same way again and for good reason

Always expect the unexpected and gird your loins appropriately. It's a no-fault jungle out there.

[Anonymous 11]

I can understand you wanting to date as it’s natural. My sex hormones have had 20 more years than yours to decay plus I’ve taken a quite few more bats to the head than you have. I want zero to do with them now, period. I tried to date some as a red piller, but I can’t stomach their s~~~ anymore. I look at them as vipers. Women, other than my sister, stress the living f~~~ out of me. My sister and I have personalities that are highly compatible plus she’s a great resource for me almost red pill level.

Just remember, AWALT is the rule. You will find women are vastly superior to you in manipulation skills so be very, very careful.

To echo Smitty, you will experience s~~~ by choosing this path. You will be stressed. However, who am I to tell a man not to go his own way. I’m going mine. Just do not allow one to trigger the latent blue pill within you.

[IAmManParticipant 228]

I wish you the best. Just be careful. I would suggest to refrain from calling it dating. In my experience that immediately handed a lot of power to the woman. When I refused to label it that (when I was blue pilling) they usually exhibited better behavior thinking I had still not been fully hooked. Now a days there are few women I can stand to be around. So many have the crazy eyes… Ciao.

[Anonymous 42]

Guess who’s gonna be the car?

[treznik87Participant 570]

Anonymous wrote:

Guess who’s gonna be the car?

Looks like you dont trust me. Well…funny but I think the car in the picture should be blue. Im not.

[Anonymous 11]

@treznik: I thought my red pill would be of aid too. It was not. Still the same old c~~~s.

I did find it sped up recovery time though as I did not give a f~~~ anymore. You’ll learn things.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

treznik87 wrote:

And the thing I’m looking forward the most is… I just want to see myself not taking any BS and s~~~ tests any more. The tolerance for that will be small – close to zero. The thing is I have always been good at seeing all their red flags and s~~~ tests but very bad at acting upon them. The same can be said for my gut feeling. Its there for a f~~~ing reason. I can honestly say I will never put another woman on a pedastal again.

Hey man, best of luck to you. If you get any hilarious stories I hope you bring em back to share.

& I’m glad you realize your tolerance is close to zero. I dated a bit post-divorce – realized it was a tsunami of bulls~~~. The cost-benefit wasn’t there for me, but maybe you’ll get what you’re after.

[Symmetric MGTOWParticipant 570]

If it works for you, go ahead.

Just remember that you are always in control. Never give up your independence and freedom for pussy. It’s NEVER worth it.

[Anonymous 42]

treznik87 wrote:

Looks like you dont trust me

Trust has nothing to do with it when you’ve watched countless women drive men deep into the legal quagmire (mud).

It’s not you I don’t trust, it’s the law backing these women and rewarding them for driving men into the mud. It’s become a junkyard with a foundation of cars sunken 10 deep on top of each other…

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Best wishes on your journey. Should be interesting. Be careful and if things head South, don’t hang around. Your close to zero tolerance will help.
I tried to date after becoming MGTOW, but I ended up leaving within minutes most of the time. Good luck.

[Anonymous 3]

It’s a different price indeed. Hookers are both cheaper and less time consuming, and most importantly, they actually go away. You can’t beat that really.

I don’t know though, somehow I get this vibe from your writing. I’m willing to go out on a limb and say the real reason behind you wanting to pursue dating again is out of spite. I mean, the fact that you were willing to endure the “long talks” and the steps to try to repair a relationship, and you having an emotional catharsis from the heartbreak and the extent of it, tells me your character. I don’t think you are truly over “her”. I think your motivation is instead to feed your ego, and to get back at this person, by having your revenge on other women because they are guilty by proxy.

Maybe I’m wrong, I don’t know. Whatever you end up doing, just make sure it comes from you and is for you.

[HereticParticipant 151]

Every time I had the chance to have sex growing up, I turned it down.

I grew up with a very f~~~ing high paranoia of getting women pregnant. It almost grew into a phobia for me. Which has kept me away from having sex at all.

I’m in my twenties now, and I’ve learned to cope with my high sex drive through porn. So far, I prefer sex toys such as fleshlights over the real thing.

The first time I had a chance to have sex with this one girl, I got so much anxiety about getting her pregnant that I didn’t even pursue her and turned her the f~~~ down.

For me, dating isn’t worth it. And no, I’m not willing to get a f~~~ing vasectomy either. I went this long staying celibate/a virgin and I’ll remain one all my life. Especially after finding out about MGTOW.

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

I can understand you wanting to date as it’s natural. My sex hormones have had 20 more years than yours to decay plus I’ve taken a quite few more bats to the head than you have. I want zero to do with them now, period. I tried to date some as a red piller, but I can’t stomach their s~~~ anymore. I look at them as vipers. Women, other than my sister, stress the living f~~~ out of me. My sister and I have personalities that are highly compatible plus she’s a great resource for me almost red pill level.

Great stuff CP. For me , it is the only woman who has ever shown me unconditional love in this life , my mother. I’m lucky that she had me when she was 19 , and I plan to have her around awhile longer…hell , I may check out before she does. F~~~ dating , that is waste of money…porn is free , and I can use the money I save to take trips to France.

I don’t know though, somehow I get this vibe from your writing. I’m willing to go out on a limb and say the real reason behind you wanting to pursue dating again is out of spite. I mean, the fact that you were willing to endure the “long talks” and the steps to try to repair a relationship, and you having an emotional catharsis from the heartbreak and the extent of it, tells me your character. I don’t think you are truly over “her”. I think your motivation is instead to feed your ego, and to get back at this person, by having your revenge on other women because they are guilty by proxy.

Man Tungus , I went through all that s~~~ too and the VERY first thing I did was start dating a smoking hot Phillipina singer. Hell , she looked better than Laura but it didn’t work BECAUSE I was still not over Laura…..I’m not sure I will ever be able to absolve myself completely of feelings for that c~~~…God knows she didn’t deserve them. OP must live his life , and learn…he is 28. I wish I could have been red pill aware at that age.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Anonymous wrote:

treznik87 wrote:

Looks like you dont trust me

Trust has nothing to do with it when you’ve watched countless women drive men deep into the legal quagmire (mud).

It’s not you I don’t trust, it’s the law backing these women and rewarding them for driving men into the mud. It’s become a junkyard with a foundation of cars sunken 10 deep on top of each other…

You sir are awesome! Couldnt have said it better myself.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[AttonParticipant]

Another good form of protection is a vasectomy.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Dating???you do realises that princess will wanted you to pay for everything?and even if you pay for everything sex is not gonna happen unless she want to?you still a blue pill man you are playing theirs games

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