MGTOW: The Greatest Discovery

[SpaceCowboyMGTOWParticipant 8]

HI All,

My story starts as a child son of a White Father and a Black Mother in Europe, concretely Spain. English is not my native language, so apologies for the occasionally grammar fault. My parents divorced when I was 13, so I had to suffer being raised up by a narcissistic and violent mother who always put my father down for abandoning her. Since I witnessed her making scenes in front of my father (even a suicide attempt) and my father was a Physicist whom I had a great relationship with, I never took her seriously, and at 17 I fully understood my father’s decision of walking out. I respect him even more now, since he knew he planted the seeds for me to become a decent human being.

My father walking out was a hard blow for me. The months before, I knew he was having trouble with my mother. One day she reunited all her friends in a room with my father and started accussing him (mainly because he was a successful and independent guy) to the point he left the room in tears.. I will never forget that day, and I started hating my mother for it.

My father wanted me to become an ESA (European Space Agency) Astronaut because that was my dream. He instructed me on Math, Physics, Philosophy and got me outdoors climbing mountains and doing survival training in the woods, in summer and winter. I will never forget the long marches over snowy mountains. He trained me hard from an early age, and for this I’m immensely grateful with him. We had a great relationship, so the BS my mother talked about him was summarily dismissed.

After my father left, I started to suffer without a male presence balancing her acts. She emotionally blackmailed me and had to suffer sudden outbursts of narcissist rage and violent beatings, while my sister was treated like a princess with all privileges. She beated the s~~~ out of me for the more insignificant of reasons, undermined my self steem, never respected my privacy, she always raided my room in order to find something to accuse me, and as a consequence I got not so great degrees.  I became a nerdy boy who had to learn the hard way. Like other boys, hard life, being involved in fights and other events started to harden me. My mother then became even more violent towards me because of my ‘don’t give a f~~~’ attitude, she always said “she shouted in one of my ears and it exited the other”. Things escalated and as a reaction I almost crushed her neck. That was a good lesson, since she started to treat me better since (these days I would be jailed and medicated)

But things would last little, and she would start again putting me down, beating me and being  an asshole. So I decided to escape home at 17. And it was the best decision I have ever done since.

I started as an IT guy working for an architect, helping him with home automation projects and Autocad design. I was doing little money, but the skills were invaluable. I started dating girls and was fairly successful. I considered most girls little children and sluts so I went for older women (25-27)at first, and this is where I started to learn seriously about women. S~~~ tests, bipolarity, narcissism… No matter how much I gave to the relationship, it was never enough..

But the icing on the cake was in 2012, when I met an innocent looking and pretty girl. I invited her the next day to a homemade lunch in my house and I banged her afterwards. We started a relationship, and apparently all was going fine until one day she appeared with a baby trolley with a little girl inside. I said what!? And her words were: You are my “Papi” now!. And dumb of me, I started to take care of her and her daughter. Fortunately, she never moved the baby to my home.

MGTOWers say that no matter what, in a relationship with a single mother, the thug father always appears soon or later. And who was this guy? it was a drug dealer, who wanted my head. So you cannot imagine what scenes follow afterwards, escaping the mafia of this guy. I even was drugged when taking some drinks in a local pub and had to knock down and escape the illegally armed thugs with all my will and persistence. I moved from that city leaving no trace, and after some years I learned the guy died at hands of some Colombian guys.

Single mothers never again, ever!

Meanwhile, my mother and sister tried to get back to me, and fool I am I accept their Christmas invitation. By this time I’m starting an IT business with a pair of associates, and things are taking off. I arrive my mother’s home, only to be criticized, ridiculed, humilliated for my dreams and aspirations. Not a single ounce of support from them.

So I left and afterward I send to both of them emails telling them what I think of them both: that they are a pair of dumb, narcissistic, entitled witches and I will never associate with them or their pathetic loser social circle.

This has been a reflection time and in this time I discovered that gems that are Auberon Herbert and Ayn Rand writings, like Atlas Shrugged, OPAR (by Leonard Peikoff), I start to dabble in Objectivist Philosophy and discover the real nature of the Degenerate Socialist and Conservative Ideologies and Society, with their lies, double speak, their moochers and looters, like the feminists, who oppose enterprising, independent and masculine men like myself. I awaken then from the Matrix, and start to search related issues in Google. I learn the traps of marriage and rape laws. This is how I discovered then the Red Pill, PUA and MGTOW.

Now at 36 I look back and see myself as a successful man who escaped a tragic destiny. Since I never got pregnant any of my girlfriends, I can’t believe how lucky I am, compared to my former High School friends, who all married ex-carousel riders hitting the wall, got milked for a pair of kids,and now live in miserable and sexless marriages. My business has taken off with lots of struggles but now I can laugh at my own past suffering. All histories I read here resonate with my own experiences, especially the sons of narcissistic mothers. I salute you and wish all the best in your new founded Freedom.

[…Spectator 1165]

SpaceCowboyMGTOW: welcome brother. love that story! one thing i learned from living through some things similar to your life is that women are based around the concept of punishing men. this is wiring problem and you had to suffer from it at the hands of your mom who turned you into the target for her rage while being nice to your sister. yup, that was in my house sometimes as well. you see, women never accept blame for anything. it is always the man’s fault. if there is a success, the woman take the credit for it and believe they have done something all by themselves. if there is a failure, it is always the man’s fault.

that confrontation where your mom went off on your dad was something she planned with the help of other women for many many hours, possibly years. they lay in wait like wolves waiting for the moment of the man’s weakness and they they start reading through their punishment points. all men should be ready for this because they attack at the following times: 01 in a public situation to get the most humans allied against you 02 when you are really tired and just get home from work   03 at family gatherings 04 as soon as they sense you are finally falling asleep next to them at night in bed.

women failing to accept responsibility for their actions is a CONSTANT liability to all men. i’ve had that same thing happen where a woman shows up with a baby trying to lure me in when the reality is that some bad boy knocked her up and left so now she’s got to find a provider. glad you were able to outsmart her and escape without getting killed or beaten by the drug dealer. honesty, it simply isn’t possible to keep women busy enough and satisfied for very long without them spinning out of control and setting up dramatic situations. salute back at you brother! welcome to mgtow.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Terriffic intro , SpaceMGTOW.

MGTOWers say that no matter what, in a relationship with a single mother, the thug father always appears soon or later.

I’ve counted 7 single Moms I have had the opportunity to get involved with to some degree over the years, and in every case it smelled wrong. That point is bang on because even if you go to a movie with her and it’s innocent, she’s gonna be taking texts during bathroom breaks – or worse – right in front of you. Aint happening. (unbelievable about the guy getting killed though! whoah!)

I won’t get into it now, but I understand my father much better after his death than I ever did when he was alive. The times s~~~ was his fault (and somehow EVERYTHING was) he remained stoic & silent even when he shouldn’t have been. Before he checked out, though, I let him know I got it and I understood his pain. We had some private moments and he knew I was on his side. It was unspoken but it was clearly understood. I’m really glad about that.

Welcome to discovering MGTOW man. Hope to hear more from you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SpaceCowboyMGTOWParticipant 8]

Hi Guys,

writing this from a tablet, so it may appear disjointed.

@ListenUP:

Certainly the day they all went off on my father was a planned and premeditated scheme.. One thing I learned later from that episode is that women want you to succeed, (so they can reap the benefits) but don’t want you to succeed so much they “lose” control over you.
My Father went from being a Physics Professor to Regional Director of Operations at a local company some years after my sister was born.Now I realize all the husbands of these women were all long term unemployed beta males. Note: I don’t mean to put down unemployed individuals, specially these days when employment is s~~~ for most men, but in the 80’s, when we had “economic bonanza” and a single income could sustain a family of four? come on, man. These women all had “appetite for the loser” so they can control and emasculate them. They sawmy father was not an individual to be under their control, so they unleashed the hell on him.

@keymaster:

I’m so glad you made your thoughts known to your father before passing away, it seems your father was a very Stoic individual, and this is worthy of admiration. Unfortunately, despite trying to locate my father through my uncle, it seems he has completely dissapeared. I hope he is Going His Own Way and is doing what he wants with his life.

So glad to have found this site, I have lost all of my near family, since my mother is a toxic narcissist and my sister is a Socialist, New Age, entitled bitch. I have relatives in
Africa but my mother has talked down to them about me, and they don’t contact me. It is a personal observation of myself (and other intelligent individuals) the power Matriarchy have in African countries, most men there are to suck up to their wives and grandmothers and become total blue-pillers. These women are all “Dream Destroyers”. Also all economic benefits and loans goes all to the women. With this situation don’t expect things to get better there.. so I don’t plan to visit the country anytime soon. In fact, years ago I was planning to move to the U.S. but later learned the Land of the Free has become the Land of Alimony and Rape checkpoints.. But I’m politically active with my US friends in Facebook and Social Media so we can restore common sense and Objectivism in the land as the Founding Fathers intended. If America falls, the World will fall. This is why the philosophical battle for asserting the high moral ground rooted in Objectivist Principles, Limited Government and Capitalism must be fought first in the US, and the rest of the countries will follow.

If only could lead my business associate to this site.. he was lately pursuing a single mother of 2 children from different fathers, I tried to dissuade him but finally he acted so beta with her she is using him as a “Pullman Porter” and emotional tampon while she dates the worst of the worst. My business associate was sad one day and he told me she wants to move to the US, so she can “improve her life”. We all know what this means, probably she found a rich beta male in PlentyOfS~~~ and is travelling to the best country for milking him.. Lol, Providence must exist, he dodged the bullet by little..

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