MGTOW saved my life, and many other young men's lives

[Kareem BenjaminParticipant 28]

Growing up as a teen, I always had an inclination that relationships with girls were toxic and non-beneficial, but I still pursued them. It wasn’t until my early 20’s when I had been through a few relationships with girls I “thought I couldn’t live without” that I really woke up and realized the amount of bullets I dodged and how lucky I was to be free without any baggage.

I was lucky not get anyone pregnant, and slave paying child support for 18 years, while never seeing the child,

I was lucky not to be married and have the relationship end and go through divorce and lose my lifetime earnings and assets.

I was lucky not to have to worry about if she really “loves” or if she might decide to leave tomorrow.

I was lucky not to be another marriage slave, in debt and miserable, wasting years of my life being unhappy.

I’m 24, I have NO girlfriend, I have NO debt, I have NO kids, I have NO liabilities, I invest a substantial amount of my income every other week and my stock portfolio continues to grow. I have a stable job I perform well at with amazing benefits and pension. I have an older Honda civic manual which drives perfect, insurance is cheap as hell and very economical. I see no point in owning some luxury car to make others think I have status.

I look ahead into my future, and I continue to invest in myself in learning new skills and have new experiences. I take care of my body, dress well, and I have plenty of me time to brainstorm on my goals. Pleasing some female in a relationship who might leave tomorrow doesn’t even cross my mind.

THANK YOU for this site and to people like Barbarossa and Messenger Rising on YouTube for the guidance and truth and helping lead a happy, prosperous life. I’m sure you’ve saved thousands of young men’s lives, mine included.

K, Benjamin

[Anonymous 42]

It’s nice to see another brother stay among the living! Feminism is a cult of death! Let them die with their cats, ALONE. Welcome to the club of prosperity!
We gain in every way imaginable while feminists tout their doom and gloom, allegedly all the fault of men!
We’re gone, now who’s to blame???

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

good to see that younger men are catching on faster than I did.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Very smart young man. Good for you for realizing so early in life that MGTOW is the only way to go!

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[Kareem BenjaminParticipant 28]

There aren’t many young men in society who are really MGTOW, so it can be kind of isloating. Everyone seems to have a girlfriend they obsess about or are out there just chasing after these females.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Kareem Benjamin wrote:

There aren’t many young men in society who are really MGTOW, so it can be kind of isloating. Everyone seems to have a girlfriend they obsess about or are out there just chasing after these females.

You are absolutely right. I always felt like the third wheel when I was a young man hanging out with my friends with their girlfriends. Don’t worry though, you will win in the long haul. When you see your friends living miserable lives, you can take pleasure in knowing that you did not make the same mistakes as they did. Stay strong. Don’t ever give in.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Happiness is fickle when you depend on others for it.

They have a habit of taking it back from you.

Rather give some of your own if you have a surplus.

Do not put your happiness in anothers hands …. especially if those hand are female.

Us old farts are here as the rotting corpses on the crucifix so the younger guys take heed.

It’s a joy when they do.

[Kareem BenjaminParticipant 28]

I wish more younger men woke up to realizing their lives are being flushed down the drain catering to a woman. There would be a strong brotherhood in society.

Instead many guys wake up too late once they’ve already been married and divorced and financially and emotionally destroyed.

But I guess its never too late to build yourself back up and start a new life with a higher level of wisdom.

[WallyParticipant]

Awesome post, you are so far ahead in life, keep doing what you have done. I’m sure you can teach us old guys a thing or two.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

The awesome beauty of this website!!!

[OldBillParticipant]

Kareem Benjamin wrote:

I look ahead into my future, and I continue to invest in myself in learning new skills and have new experiences. I take care of my body, dress well, and I have plenty of me time to brainstorm on my goals. Pleasing some female in a relationship who might leave tomorrow doesn’t even cross my mind.

Preach it, Brother! You’re a shining example to us all and here’s hoping more young men follow in your footsteps.

ILiveAgain wrote:

Happiness is fickle when you depend on others for it.

That’s definitely the quote of the month, if not the quarter.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[LowKeyParticipant 702]

Kareem Benjamin wrote:

There aren’t many young men in society who are really MGTOW, so it can be kind of isloating. Everyone seems to have a girlfriend they obsess about or are out there just chasing after these females.

Nah Bro, they’re there just stealthy

Im also on the same age bracket as you are but I’d rather not go around and advertise that Im MGTOW

As I always tell myself “No Target, No Shoot Down”

They (c~~~s) can only shoot you down if you give them a target

You are NOT ALONE !

Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.

[mesohuntParticipant 65]

Don’t worry K Benjamin, you are on the right track.

I remember how tough being in your early/mid 20s was with all those shiny happy couples up in your face. But, in the next 5-15 years you will get to watch a whole lot of those same couples break up by choice of the little girl (yeah, they’ll be going on 35, but only chronologically). At the same time that you will be putting the finishing touches on preparing to retire, those buddies of yours will be financially starting over, saddled with a huge payment to some useless bitch he no longer loves.

[Kareem BenjaminParticipant 28]

Thanks for the wisdom brother.

Im about 200% sure all you said will come to pass.

I guess it all takes patience and focus.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

I raise my beer to you, and drink in your name!.

Cheers, Bud!.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Everything is all we’ve gotParticipant 233]

Well done man, I find life stressful as it is at 21… Majorly glad I found MGTOW, you guys don’t know how lucky I am.

It’s good you’re also good on the career side of things, I still can’t work out what I want to do with my life; I’m sure I’ll get there eventually, just have to get through this rough patch

Also, I keep the fact I’m MGTOW secret to people around me, there’s too much shaming to say otherwise. Keep at it brother 🙂

"You can suffer from a life experience, or you can learn, move on and thrive."

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Everything is all we’ve got wrote:

I still can’t work out what I want to do with my life; I’m sure I’ll get there eventually

Hey EverythingIsAllWeveGot – just my $0.02:

Most people don’t know what the hell they want to do with their lives. I have a great career, but i sort of stumbled in to it post-college.

In my life & career of meeting a boatload of people, the only ones who have it “figured out” are the ones who went to college for, say, accounting, then became an accountant, then woke up in their mid-40s when they realized they have zero passion or happiness. But hey, someone told them accounting’s a good job, so they did it, then got married, then had kids – apparently they never got around to exploring for, or pursuing their own passions or anything meaningful to themselves.

That scenario – sleeping in a bed w/a wife you don’t give a f~~~ about, kids that drain your time/energy/resources/freedom, slaving at a job you *have* to keep – some people would call that success. I call it a f~~~ing prison sentence…did i mention i’m going to Brazil in a couple weeks to volunteer & practice my Portuguese & go samba dancing & hang-glide off a mountain? MGTOW motherf~~~ers!

[Kareem BenjaminParticipant 28]

MattNYC wrote:

In my life & career of meeting a boatload of people, the only ones who have it “figured out” are the ones who went to college for, say, accounting, then became an accountant, then woke up in their mid-40s when they realized they have zero passion or happiness. But hey, someone told them accounting’s a good job, so they did it, then got married, then had kids – apparently they never got around to exploring for, or pursuing their own passions or anything meaningful to themselves.

Couldn’t imagine living a life like that. All the regrets one might have living day in and day out knowing he’s stuck in a life of bulls~~~ that doesn’t care for him.

P.S. I’ve always wanted to travel to Brazil. Definitely gotta make it happen within a year or two!

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

MattNYC wrote:

That scenario – sleeping in a bed w/a wife you don’t give a f~~~ about, kids that drain your time/energy/resources/freedom, slaving at a job you *have* to keep – some people would call that success. I call it a f~~~ing prison sentence…

That is exactly what it is.
Some people call it “The American Dream”. It’s bulls~~~, they just changed the definition, like everything else.
The real “American Dream” was to start from noting, and achieve in life whatever YOU wanted to achieve. Be whatever YOU wanted to be and live YOUR life FREE.

Good for you Benjamin that you chose to live the Dream and not the Nightmare.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Anonymous 11]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Us old farts are here as the rotting corpses on the crucifix so the younger guys take heed.

I’ve never thought of myself that way ILA, but it’s true.

@KB – You are wise to recognize and act on the threat we all face at such a young age. I had to waste years of my life before recognizing the truth. Your “happy” friends will pay 1000 fold for their fun in the Sun. I’m an old fart and can say I am truly happier being wenchless. MGTOW applies to everything in our lives not just women too.

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