Thank you mgtow members. I stumbled upon this website a few weeks ago. You guys produce some really great work here. A lot of maturity, wisdom and clarity are found within the posts at mgtow.com.
I am a physician who is your basic nice guy. I spent my younger years as a human doormat to the various psycho-feminist gold digging ladies I encountered. It was my fault for being delusional and I now laugh at some of the idiotic things I used to put up with.
Don’t laugh, but in an effort to “find a nice girl” I married a Sunday School teacher. I spent a small fortune on the wedding, not to mention the big house and the fancy cars that she just had to have. She never cooked one meal the whole time we were married. She never cleaned either. Despite working 60 hours per week, I also had to do all of the cooking, cleaning, and yard work. One day I came home to find she had cleaned out the house and my bank account and moved in with the pastor of the church she attended. I was considered evil because I played golf on Sunday’s to relax.
I had to laugh- she was too emotionally upset by her adultery to work for a while. Thank God I didn’t have any kids with this beast. The loneliest I have ever been was when I was with this cold-hearted shrew of a woman. I didn’t care about the money I lost. Sweet freedom.
For years now I have been mgtow. I found out that life was much more peaceful avoiding the stress and drama and entitlement that inexorably are associated with the modern American female. Most men know enough to avoid the feminists and the obvious gold diggers. Unfortunately, it’s the “nice” ones that can really put your life through hell. “Nice” females have a nasty habit of spending you into oblivion and disturbing your peace with constant nagging and complaining. Luckily, I learned that I had a good pair of walking shoes, as well as a door.
As someone said- it’s not hatred of women, but rather a detachment from them.
While I don’t look for them, I do have a few lady friends I haven’t gotten rid of yet. I’ve adopted a “zero tolerance” policy. I don’t care if they hang around, but I don’t put up with any rudeness, manipulation or complaining. I don’t have sex as often as I would like. On those rare occasions when I do have sex I ALWAYS use a condom. It’s not just to prevent pregnancy. I have seen hundreds of nice guys who were given STD’s by their “faithful” wives/ girlfriends. I never have join accounts. I never co-sign a loan. I always make sure ladies have their own place. No way do I want to get trapped into a “common law marriage” or any marriage for that matter. I never tell ladies what I do for a living or disclose my income. Outside of work I drive an old car and dress very casually. I am comfortable and don’t care what people think. Flashing money and success will attract gold diggers like flies to honey. (In my experience there is nothing worse than a female gold digging bitch. They want what you have. They love your wallet and not you. They feel they are entitled to everything you currently own or will own.) Life shouldn’t be like this, but it is. Mgtow is a better choice. Thanks gentlemen and God bless all you.
Sagaciously Single 4 years, 3 months ago.
