Mgtow relationship rules

[prmai49Participant 52]

Hey everyone, so after exiting from a 7 month relationship and discovering mgtow about a month ago, I decided to put together relationship rules for when and if I do decide to try it again. One could make the obvious rule number one being not getting into a relationship, but lets say you break rule one and find yourself back into it. Some of these might be obvious and may have been heard before. Also, if you have any other good rules to add, that’d be great.

– MGTOW rules for relationship –
1.Keep text messages light, serious conversations in person or over phone only. Texts will be misinterpreted and cannot convey emotion.
2.Do not meet family until 4-6 months in, so as not to get attached before the relationship goes downhill or shows its true colors.
3.Enjoy your partner’s animals/pets, but do not become attached to them.
4.Keep women at an arm distance, give them love and affection, but do not become attached and desire their love for your happiness. This is a disaster waiting to happen.
5.Maintain maintain maintain your brotherhood and keep them as a healthy reliable source to talk to about the relationship as well as to do guy stuff. Once fallen in love, men will separate themselves from their buddies and put the woman on a pedestal. Doing so will give all of the power to the woman. A mans love chemicals are powerful, strong enough to make a man sacrifice himself for his woman. Think of the Trojan War.
6.Allow for some drama, but don’t get sucked into manipulations. Keep your head and mind cool during conflict. Women are far better manipulators and win at mind games more often, because that’s their agenda. If you don’t get emotionally involved in the game, they cannot win. Keep it light, enjoy the drama and then wait for the makeup sex to pound your frustrations out.
7.Have fun and really enjoy it while it lasts. Once signs of deterioration display and are not remedied, be ready to cut the ties. When you see the signs, push to get the most out of it. Whether that is more sex or entertainment, because once that girl walks out the door, SIGN OUT. The longer you dwell on it, the more you enter her playing ground where you have no power and she holds everything.
a.Do not think that increasing commitment will improve the relationship. A female might pressure you to increase the commitment. Understand that she’s not doing this for you. It is out of selfishness. Many women have a set time period where they NEED to be married by. They want you to check that box for them and then afterwards, when the relationship gets rocky, they can cash out, leaving you in ruin.
8.Keep an eye out for equal give/take in a relationship. Once the scale leans too far, it falls over. Women will see their presence and sexual companionship as “giving” to you, all while taking resources, sex, time and happiness from you. This is not a fair trade. To believe it is to delude yourself and obstruct your chances of going MGTOW and/or finding a NAWALT unicorn.
a.In a relationship, some women will use sex as a tool. As soon as this is done, cut off the resources and start masturbating. Sex is supposed to pleasure both mutually, so if she uses it as a chess piece for control, start questioning what else she has to offer in the relationship.
9.Maintain space and alone time. Always allow time for friends, hobbies and self-enhancement. Not all, but many women will consciously or subconsciously demand your time. Do not give all of your time to them. Give them good quality time and leave them wanting more. This will ensure the relationship lasts longer and keeps the power in your hands.
10.Do NOT spend a lot of money on materialistic objects/gifts for your partner. When the relationship ends, you will eat the costs.
a.Spend money/time on experiences, like concerts and vacations. These are both mutually enjoyed and can be looked back on as fun experiences.
11.Understand that women are naturally hypergamous and biologically seek out a provider, resource, utility to supply them for their needs. They do not need male companionship when they can get it from any blue pill in their harem and when they have a strong sisterhood of women whom they WILL be open with. It is not their desire to be open with you.
a.Be weary of the blue pill harem. Out of respect for you and the COMMITMENT to the relationship, she should taper them off a little bit and be open with them about her seriousness to commit to her new man. Just as you should taper off your females a little bit out of respect for your new partner (if you have any). The blue pill harem is usually exes or men that if given a crack at your girlfriend’s pussy, WILL take it. You do not want your girlfriend to run into the arms of her blue pill harem after you have a conflict. She needs to talk to you about the conflict after you both cool off because otherwise she’ll let her negative thoughts fester and you’ll hear about it again later.
b.Also do not open up completely to a woman. Anything can and will be used against you in a court of feminism. Do not for a second think that these women truly care about you, just because they say they do, they care about what you represent. Think about why they are with you and what they have to gain/lose. Also as related to the above, if the give/take balance is off, you will see they are giving you “love” for access to your resources. Unequal and unfair trade.
12.Understand that you need your dose of daily red pill. Women are masters of manipulation and as men, we are biologically (chemically) programmed to cater and give in to it. If you do not take your daily dose of red pill, you will be sucked into being a mangina blue pill bitch white knight riding into the harem of a female who will string you along, playing off of your emotions for her own ego forever. Or at least until she finds a wealthier sucker to manipulate and throws you to the birds.
a.This is related to 11a. By telling your woman to commit to you and to taper off the blue pill harem, you will be doing these gentlemen a favor. This will hopefully allow them to see themselves for what they are, a strung on emotional tampon that receives very little out of their friendship with her, in the hopes that they will be scooted to the front of her line after putting so many years harem time.
b.If you have a desire for one of your female friends and it actually gets in the way of your thoughts and life, let this female go, she is not special. You have already been deposited to the s~~~ basket. She may use you as a backup marriage plan, but that marriage will not be a happy one because she’ll expect you to grovel at her feet and you were not what she had wanted. Also, obviously avoid marriage.
13.Upon a break-up, write down all of the signs and situations that had you like “wtf” and become excited to move on and be free of her. Researching MGTOW will help you come to grips that you are not alone in this and what you experienced was the collective female nature. This might make you take it less personally and be less bitter about it. Do not be friends and do not pursue communication with your ex. She will likely try and add you to her harem of men for which she uses as an emotional dumping ground and a potential source of resource for her in the future.
a.This one is obviously circumstantial. If you had a smooth break up and ended for respectful reasons. You can still be friends if you both mutually agreed it wasn’t going to work out. Also if you both actually shared in similar hobbies and had mutual friends. Still, I would not suggest being an emotional tampon for her as well as being too close to her. You need to move on, look past, focus on yourself and potentially date again or go mgtow. Be weary of being in the blue pill harem.
14.DO NOT MARRY. The institution has been destroyed. Even if you believe this female is the one, it is not worth the risk. When 70-90% of marriages are initiated by the female and 50% end in divorce, what sane individual would take those odds. If I handed you a parachute and said the main only opens 20% of the time and the reserve only 50%, would you jump out of the plane? Women have nothing to lose but everything to gain through marriage, whereas men have little to gain and everything to lose. Upon research, I found that men find meaning in what they do, that they attach themselves to their actions and in what their hard labor brings. So if a man has spent a number of years as a committed husband, and then a number of years as a committed father, a man will be utterly crushed (potentially biting the bullet) when the female divorces him and uses his children as blackmail, all while taking him to the bank and confiscating half of his wealth which he spent years laboring for. Men are naturally givers/servers, which is our kryptonite. This leads to some interesting statistics. Men are 97% combat deaths, 93% industrial deaths, 80% suicides and 16% winners of custody. Serve YOURSELF in a time period where you are free to do so. There have been ENOUGH of our male forefathers who have suffered and died to get us to this point in time. You OWE it to them.
a.On a side note. If you find a NAWALT, she will respect that you do not want to marry, given the potential risks to you and might even understand that relationship power like that which is given to her through marriage is too risky for even her to hold, as she is fallible and people change. Offer this NAWALT a ceremonial wedding and maintain your relationship in a healthy manner. Ensure that this NAWALT has a selfless quality and has potential to make a good mother if you decide to have a child. But even if this ceremonial marriage gets rocky, you more easily separate and maintain civility enough to develop a plan on how best to raise your child.
b.Be extremely careful in your 30’s. There will be many women portraying as NAWALTs as a last ditch effort. They have spent their 20’s riding the c~~~ carousel and finely tuning their manipulation skills. They will look appealing to an unfortunate suitor. Once she sinks her teeth in, GG. She is the wolf in sheep’s clothing.

[Anonymous 1]

Holy s~~~! These are a lot of rules!

I have 1 rule about relationships:

1- Don’t go into relationships

Simple, Easy and Efficient.

Cheers.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Anonymous wrote:

1- Don’t go into relationships

Simple, Easy and Efficient.

And that’s all i can say about this.

[Symmetric MGTOWParticipant 570]

Too many rules man…

Simply put: learn to MGTOW; exercise common sense.

🙂

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

No marriage.
No cohabitation.
No procreation.

If it’s not 100% fun, it’s 100% done. Over. Goodbye. Next.

Simple.

Two of the most important things you can tell a woman are: “This is not a date.” And: “This is not a relationship.”

[GrumpyParticipant]

Rule 1. Enjoy your life.
Rule 2. Do what needs to be done to ensure rule 1 is met.
Rule 3. No poofta’s (Monty Python supports rule #1) 🙂

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

sidecar wrote:

If it’s not 100% fun, it’s 100% done. Over. Goodbye. Next.

Well-said Sidecar: simple & effective.

Also, one of the cardinal rules of living a happy life primarily for yourself: ‘No’ is a complete sentence.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Personally, I wouldn’t do the ceremonial marriage if I wanted to have my complete independence after the relationship is over. I think it’s better to have this understanding: you’re DATING your woman. She has her own place, her own money, and her own life. That way, your life isn’t compromised by her mental issues. If you want to be monogamous, tell her you want that kind of relationship with the stipulation that you will NEVER marry her. If she can’t agree to that, she should have a relationship with a man who wants to go all the way. If you don’t want to share your property with a woman, just date her until she gets sick of you or you get sick of her. Then move on to the next one.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Must have missed this in that wall of text.

prmai49 wrote:

Offer this NAWALT a ceremonial wedding

And watch how fast that “ceremonial” wedding becomes a REAL marriage, at least for the purposes of taking your stuff, faster than you can say “implied contract” the moment she cries her sad little eyes out in front of a judge. And if she has an “oops!” pregnancy, with or without your participation, you’re utterly f~~~ed.

NO MARRIAGE. Not traditional, Not ceremonial. Not hypothetical, experimental, virtual, conditional, NONE.

You have nothing to gain from marriage of any sort, and everything to lose. A woman who promises you supposed “rewards” from marriage is a woman attempting to bargain with you for her attention. Avoid such women at all cost.

If she actually loves you, and not just your stuff, she won’t give a f~~~ about marrying you. She’ll be content just having you.

[Chuck WowParticipant 141]

Follow Leykis 101:

1. keep a bullpen of multiple c~~~s
2. don’t meet her family/friends and vice versa
3. don’t let her know where you live
4. don’t sleep over at her place….pump and dump
5. $40 max on a date
6. if she doesn’t f~~~ by date 3….dump that bitch
7. always always always wear a condom

[AngularParticipant 114]

actutally read the whole thing.

also her mother is a good indicator of her future self

[DrexelScottParticipant 30]

100% agree. I will add two more of my own, which I have used for the last decade:

1. Never see her more than once a week, at least not until it becomes more “serious” if it does at all (and her reaction to seeing you once a week will often determine how far she makes it), and

2. No dates or dinner until AFTER she puts out.

These have served me quite well.

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[RusskyParticipant 13503]

DrexelScott wrote:

100% agree. I will add two more of my own, which I have used for the last decade:
1. Never see her more than once a week, at least not until it becomes more “serious” if it does at all (and her reaction to seeing you once a week will often determine how far she makes it), and
2. No dates or dinner until AFTER she puts out.
These have served me quite well.

Rules to live by. Well said

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

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