Mgtow is the way.

[XenomorphicParticipant 59]

This is my story…of the unicorn who finally broke my dreams and my spirit. In was in my early 20’s she was in her ate teens. She was as beautiful as they come a solid 8/9. She was unlike all the others and wise beyond her years. So I told myself anyway. We had so much in common on the surface. we had a lot of fun in the 3 months we dated and fell in love. What did I know about love? But hey she was hot and I was a player. But she was different a virgin even. So what’s not to love right? She gave me her virginity. And I gladly accepted the gift of the unicorn.

Our relationship ended abruptly when life took a turn and we’re separated. We stayed in touch through letters and our bond deepend but it was only a fantasy. It wasn’t until 5 years later we would meet again by chance no. She kept a distant eye on me through friends and her sister. Within those years I was a heavy drug user and a bad boy. But that didn’t stop her from locating me and trap me with this notion of true love. So we went out had some drinks and well we had sex. That night she asked me to cum inside of her. And I did. (Slap in the head) yes she got pregnant. I remember distinctly her saying just after I did “I knew it would be you or my husband who would cum inside of me the first time”. After she left the next morning and said our Goodbyes I didn’t see her again for another 2 years. We did have a serious conversation about how unworthy I was to father her new child much less see the child. You know because I was a bad boy and she was a good Christian girl. So in was to never have access to my child. Until…well as you know she kept a close eye on me from a distance until she had no real Suiter and after all in was an alpha. Bad boy types usually are in guess.

Now that I was off of the drugs and going to school two years mind you a total of 7 with only one sexual encounter. She deemed me worthy to be the man and take care of her and our 1 year old daughter.

I was in no position to be instant daddy but guess what? She found me again. Or should I say I found her literally on my doorstep waiting child in hand.

So there we were and I was faced with a decision. So what did I do? Hell what any respectable man would do. The right thing. We moved in together to play mommy and daddy. I didn’t know this chick from the next whore I was about to tag from the bar. But there we were a newly common law married couple.

Oh yes the unicorn grew real horns and began all the disfunctional s~~~ women do to the men they love.

Over the period of 12 years to date I stayed and we even had a real burial I mean ceremony. It was final the leash was on and she took total control of my life. It was a living hell. I’ll admit we had some decent good times but overall the issues grew to huge marital problems at my expense.

I felt as if I lost it all, my dignity my manhood and my sanity. I lost every friend I had due to her problems with them she isolated me I’m not sure it was conscious or not but it happened. To this day 12 years I was never able to know who I am other than the man slave who takes care of her and our children.

I’ve struggled through depression because I could not financialy support my family like a real man could. I never graduated by the way. I had new obligations to work and hear her bitch about how much I didn’t make enough to pay our bills.

This sort of s~~~ takes a toll on a man’s spirit. The degradation of self worth and anxiety because I was doing everything wrong.

The paterns never changed and the fights became bitter battles until I snapped. I broke down inside feeling like as she called me a worm. Yes from the one who loved me.

When the time came where I had to finally take back control of my self and my own well being. I took the stance against her will and s~~~ got worse until I hated her and wanted to just f~~~ someone anyone but her. But I didn’t. I sought out women online but couldn’t actually bring myself to the act. So now I am a betrayer and adulterer. I’ve done all I know kwow to do to please her even to the point of counseling. But hell I’m still wrong for all I do and don’t do whats the point anymore. So now my brothers I’ve called her bluff and told her I want a divorce. It’s silent now and that is scary. I know I’m on the chopping block and will almost certainly lose my kids and the business I built single handedly. This is why I AM MGTOW.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Believe me when I tell you, I feel you man. Sorry it took you going through all of that in order to find your own way. But I assure you, I of all people understand. It get’s better with time, albeit slowly for some, quickly with others. It all depends on your character I suppose. Thanks for taking the time to write. Hearing your story just serves as re-confirmation as to why the hell we are all here.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[The DocParticipant 35]

Welcome to Sanity, Brother!

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome. You have the ears of over 15,000 men who understand your pain. Once you get past the divorce – things will clear up and begin to make sense again. Like many of us, you got stabbed by your Unicorn. But those wounds are temporary – MGTOW is forever.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Eleloh!

Thank you for your story. I can relate. These women are evil crazies. You see, with them, Its all about what you can do for them, not about who you are as a person. They only love what you can do for them!

“The paterns never changed and the fights became bitter battles until I snapped. I broke down inside feeling like as she called me a worm. Yes from the one who loved me.”

On several occasions, the love of my life of 8 years told me that I was a POS and despicable loser. After she left me for a her white knight, she came back and cried for me back after I went full MGTOW. Too late bitch. When a woman reverts to insults during an argument, it is time to leave.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

What an ungrateful bitch. She isn’t worth the s~~~ it takes to raise a good family. You tried your best and broke your back. You’ve done everything that was ASKED of you. Now you have to do what is BEST for you.

Welcome home, MGHOW.

Brother, we need to stick together.

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Welcome to the forums. You sure took a big hit the day you got her pregnant. But, hey, that is how we learn in life; by making mistakes.

You are not alone in this situation. There are millions like you; in fact, thousands just in THIS place; who’ve gone through the same situation that you have.

Time will be your best friend and the red pill will be your saviour. Best of luck to you.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[darreljamesonParticipant 57]

So big warning signs: why hadn’t she f~~~ed the man she was supposedly with instead of waiting, then sneaking around to f~~~ you? Are you totally sure the kid was even yours? Why did her man/husband/whatever leave her? Was she still leading him on, friendzoning him, taking his money and shacking up without f~~~ing him? Is it because he finally figured out the kid wasn’t his?

Why would she treat you, her backup f~~~, any better? You realized you were her man on the side when her she was bored with her husband that she supposedly wasn’t even intimate with. Either she was a c~~~tease or she was lying to you, and neither is ok.

I know she messed with your better judgment, played the victim card, shamed you for getting her pregnant (if the kid was even yours), seduced you with her body, and turned your biological needs on you. This was all to weave a powerful spell to keep you on the backburner to use at her beck and call. You did not make her cheat on her ex, and if she hadn’t f~~~ed you, she would have f~~~ed someone else.

It was not your fault she f~~~ed up her life. You must stop feeling indebted to her.

Before you say NAWALT, condemn those women publicly; it's like a signal flare to the good men you can't find. But. first...stop being THAT girl.

[RennieParticipant]

Haha. You are right.

I was just at an obligatory family wedding and got quite a reminder of why me and t~~~’s can never reconcile. Lots of little red pill moments scattered around.

From wayward t~~~s with an odd interest in men other than their husbands, to the utter retardation of t~~~s my age, to the stupid shadow wars they wage against each other, to stupid condescending behavior (like I have a problem with you, but instead of being direct, I’ll complain to someone else affiliated with you, even though you’re 5 feet away) and everything in between.

The wedding vows even had a part where the guy, bestowed his worldy goods to the girl he was marrying!

#mgtowlivethelife

[darreljamesonParticipant 57]

Going to weddings can be very dangerous. It’s like a baby-rabies outbreak in a cage full of rhesus monkeys. Good thing you were observant enough to notice their backbiting and desire to trade-up, not to mention the contract by which a man surrenders everything he owns to a woman who can kick him out of his own house on a whim.

On the other hand, since you can see it clearly, weddings can be a good opportunity to bed suddenly desperate women. Just make sure to tape it in case her boyfriend finds out and she cries rape. The laws for taping someone without their knowledge vary from state to state, and often it is fine as long as one participant knows. In other words, you can often tape conversations someone has with you. In either case, I would rather prove myself innocent of rape the ONLY way possible and be charged with taping someone without consent than to be assumed guilty of rape with no recourse. If she ever threatens to charge you with rape because her baby-rabies got the best of her, post that vid of red-tube or whatever and email links to everyone, then bring it up in court as public knowledge/record/domain/whatever.

Before you say NAWALT, condemn those women publicly; it's like a signal flare to the good men you can't find. But. first...stop being THAT girl.

[RennieParticipant]

darreljameson wrote:

Going to weddings can be very dangerous. It’s like a baby-rabies outbreak in a cage full of rhesus monkeys. Good thing you were observant enough to notice their backbiting and desire to trade-up, not to mention the contract by which a man surrenders everything he owns to a woman who can kick him out of his own house on a whim.

Well since this was a family wedding for a member of the immediate family, I was required to attend. I was able to keep the questionable t~~~ at arms length and another one who may been fishing and hoping for a bite.

I have the MGTOWER belt. They are powerless! The wearer of this belt shall possess all the powers of MGTOW guru – MGTower.

But anyway.

Taping someone without consent is usually only illegal, if:

A: it’s on private property and the owner or his deputies tell you to stop and you don’t, in which case you would be guilty of trespassing.

B: In a place where privacy is expected.

C: Military base/defense installation. Is illegal in Canada, don’t know if it’s illegal in USA.

In any normal public place it’s completely legal, despite what any morons, or security bullies may try to tell you.

[NeroParticipant 1466]

@Eleloh: First off, welcome my friend. Second, I have also recently asked for a divorce. It would be easier if I hated my wife like you. I think I felt more like that a year ago. Since I asked for a divorce, I was immediately liberated and retrieved my independence back. I can’t guarantee how she will respond, but my wife is acting the way I wanted her to for a great many years. I’m afraid it’s not real, but just an attempt to keep me hooked. I’m filing for divorce, anyway, as I need some insurance. Good luck!

[globemasterParticipant 443]

Xenomorphic wrote:

she was a good Christian girl

I think these are the most dangerous ones.

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