Hello Gentlemen,
I first found MGTOW three months ago when a long term relationship(4 years) ended with a live in girlfriend. I’ve since been reading the posts on reddit and here almost daily to keep reminding myself about the perils of modern women. There is so much gold and wisdom in the forums. As for me, I am 34 years old, never married, no kids, grear career as an engineer, above average incomes, and recently took the entrepreneur route. I have a business who’s progress I’m pleased with and that I’m aggressively growing.
I think I’ve always had a MGTOW mentality and since I was young have had conservative views on how women should be. At least the ones that I want to be with. To see what modern culture and feminism has done to the majority of western women is so sad. The reason I found MGTOW was after googling about how my ex-girlfriend could move on so quickly. I found that it isn’t that uncommon. And many guys have had to deal with much worse. Within a month of moving out, I found out my ex had been with 3 other guys, including one she kept in touch with and told me was just her childhood friend. And I believed it like a dummy. For me, it was much harder to move on. It took months but I have now fully moved on and don’t want her anymore. But it was a hard process for me to adjust to her not being in my life anymore. It seems she had checked out of the relationship mentally much earlier in the relationship. Truth is the relationship shouldn’t have lasted that long since I didn’t see marriage in the future, but I really enjoyed her company, it was easy living with her, she didn’t nag me at all and was supportive of everything I wanted to do.
Fast forward to me being ready to date again and holy s~~~, are the options depressing. Tinder and POF are filled with single moms and rough looking 30+ women. No way in hell would I even consider a woman over 30 years old because of the miles of schlong that have probably been in her that only she knows about. I’m pretty confident in myself and have had surprisingly good luck attracting women and even one throwing herself at me for sex, but these aren’t the quality of women that I would want a LTR with. I’ve met two women with boyfriends who flirt with me on social media DMs. One of them invited me to sneak meet her in Vegas for her bachelorette party! I think I’ve had a bit of a Chad experience with the way some of these women went after me. I am no Chad though. I’m 5’8″ with decent looks, but I dress well, been working out, kinda funny, and drive a nice vehicle.
Since breaking up with my ex, I still had a glimmer of hope that NAWALT and that I could find a “unicorn”. I did meet one girl that had some potential that I ended up really liking. Probably because of the sex. She’s 25 and said she’s only been with one guy, her ex of 5 years. Her and I had a few awesome nights together, mind blowing sex. I’ve never had a girl get as wet as she did and cum as much as she did. It was nonstop v contractions and she super soaked the furniture we were on. Definite ego boost. And I thought we had great chemistry on our conversations as well as the physical part. Then after all this, she tells me that she feels bad because she really cares for someone else and that she doesn’t think we’re a match. It’s stupid of me to let her know I was getting interested in more than a sexual relationship, but I do have something in me barely alive that says there’s still a chance I can find a good one. And there’s something about that one that I thought was different. She said she hadn’t had sex with anyone in a year before that. But the fact that she cares about someone else and her flakiness have turned me off. She doesn’t know what she wants. Too many options. I guess she told one of her friends about me too, because that friend came on to me very aggressively kissing me out of nowhere. I’m not sure if she knows her friend did that, but I would not be surprised at all if these women are knowingly and happily sharing me and talking about it with each other. Sign of the times.
What’s crazy is the mentality these women have. They want to get married, but they also want to do whatever they want in their 20s, drink like men, sleep around and then find some schmuck to marry them and support them. They clearly don’t think about the consequences of their actions. It’s like whatever popular culture tells them to do is OK and they aren’t looking ahead to see the implications. They think it’s women empowerment. But it will lead our society down a dark path. Women no longer shame each other for slutty behavior but encourage it. Successful societies are based on families and successful families are becoming rarer and rare.
Well I’ll end with saying that I won’t be that schmuck to save any of these women who make poor choices. I don’t think it will be long before I realize AWALT. I still enjoy the sex and company of women, so I’m going to get as many as I can for sex and then let them go without catching feelings. I’m slowly resigning to the fact that marriage won’t be in the cards for me. I will probably be one of those men that give up on marriage. I’m allowing myself to see the true nature of women. So much wisdom is on the MGTOW boards about their nature and things that they can’t even help if they wanted to. Since I was young I had a desire to find a wife, have some kids and live happily ever after. But that will be incredibly hard in our modern culture.
Thanks for reading and please feel free to share your thoughts and wisdom. Anywhere you think I can benefit from a change in mentality would be appreciated too.
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