MGTOW is the father you never had.

[The Skank SpankerParticipant 1372]

Our generation was raised with the notion that true love exists. Our parents raised us with the ideals that one day we would find unconditional love. That there would be a unicorn for every single one of us. We watched Disney and had our teenage brains manipulated with Little Mermaid, Aladdin and whatever other princess that needed saving.

As a result we were taught to treat girls with respect, to treat them as if they are worth their weight in gold.

Under this notion I got my first girlfriend at 21 and thought to myself, God, how lucky am I to stick my penis in this vagina. I’m such a lucky guy for having a woman beside me. Suffice to say I was in heaven, because I was “able” to -actually- get a woman. I defined my succes and value to “having a woman”. I felt better of myself because I had the ability to live up to societies standard. If only I had known what an ultimate farce I was living back then.

Up to this day, when I am reaching my thirties, I see Blue-Pill (BP)-friends chasing the dream from which I had already awoken. Urges to awake my BP-friends have been in vain, I have been unable to save them from whatever misery is to come. Most of them will need to be divorce-raped and see their wealth vanish before their eyes before they will start to question right from wrong.

For many years I tried to make this “dream” work, to live up to the expectation of my family, parents and surroundings only to fail again and again. To be “heartbroken” after getting dumped by women more than once. I am a damaged good now. For example when I lost my job, I would lose the woman almost simultaneously. I was providing her with less value than I used to, thus I had to go. She could do better or “fell out of love”, thanks female hypergamous nature.

Slowly it got to me that society was based on the feminine imperative. Women have created this elusion, a manipulated world in which everything is about – women -. Men want to be successful for women. They go to clubs to get women. They marry for women. They white knight for women. Even die for women.

Men are expendable. That’s the way nature was meant to be. Women are the selector and men are the selectee. Our whole culture, education and raising is based on this. Throw in third wave feminism, some Cultural Marxism and “yolo swag – welcome to 2016”.The saddest thing of all is that I had to find this out on my own. For me, swallowing the red pill is gained freedom but also accepting a depressing, alternate reality than the one I grew up with.

Realization –> Anger –> Bitterness –> Depression –> Acceptance. This is how I see the process of swallowing a reality that is not in my favor. Anger will subside and return every once in a while. Bitterness, thats something that remains until acceptance will take its place. Acceptance comes with wisdom and understanding.

You are here because you dared to criticize common beliefs, because you choose to look beyond what information and views has been given to you. Because you have gained the ability to look at the world and define right from wrong. To see cause and effect and learn. Basically you are the 0,01 percent of men that actually realize the way s~~~ works. Did the red-pill choose you or did you choose it?

Either way, I think men live life on HARD mode and women, well they just have society and white knights to soften up their fleece diapers for them. Truth is, men are forced to develop themselves into something greater, we need to develop character, values to be successful. We gain wisdom because we are forced to learn in order to survive and not die, become homeless, depressed or commit suicide. Women? They have backups everywhere. They don’t have to develop themselves, they have their “beauty” and pussy-pass their way through life without having to take responsibility for s~~~. And if they ever had to face consequences the “rationalization hamster” spins the wheel and tells them they “did nothing wrong”. Most of them don’t even notice The Wall. They are oblivious and cannot self-reflect.

Right now, my “friends” are in a club somewhere, orbiting some HB-8, hoping to get a piece of ass while giving away their value by showering them with attention. I used to be like them, now I look at them and my past self in disgust. I’m done transferring my value to women. F~~~ being a provider, f~~~ being a beta-chump slave, f~~~ the plantation. I will live as a opportunist and thrive for myself instead.

Goodnight MGTOW and thanks for saving lives.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

WOW! That is really well said and hits the issues of the male situation perfectly! That should be read or given to every male at about age 12. It might save those young men a lot of misery if they would heed it.

My avatar is “freedom” in Chinese.

[Anonymous 42]

Once you turn MGTOW there’s no going back! Sorry ladies, the real men are vanishing forever, ghosting by the millions.
Have fun with Chad, he’s more than willing to satisfy your sexual desires, but never your lonely hearts needs.
Oh, and ladies, share him “equally”, there’s not enough Chads to go around.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

I can agree with this 100%.

I grew up in a feminized hive. If it weren’t for the NAWALT argument, I’d of been MGTOW all of my life. My dad is a mangina and he’s letting my mom control his every actions.

The only reason I held onto the NAWALT argument until I found this website is because I thought only western women were vile and disgusting. Turns out, ALL women will screw you over and become Anita Sarkeesians if given the chance.

MGTOW has given me the best gifts of all. The first one is stoicism. The second one, is confidence.

The third, is that it taught me to be thankful to have been born a man.

Men build themselves up from the ground. We don’t have to worry about backups like women do. We build our own safety nets.

Women, on the other hand, get everything handed to them when they’re children and adults.

Men can live without society and women. Society and women need men to run and build it.

mgtow.com has taught me very valuable lessons in life I would’ve otherwise, never have gotten. It’s truly a great resource for men of all ages.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Slowly it got to me that society was based on the feminine imperative. Women have created this elusion, a manipulated world in which everything is about – women –

This is spot on.
And you are right- MGTOW is the father you never had.
We are done transferring our value to women.

Thanks for the great post.

[Anonymous 42]

[HitmanParticipant]

MGTOW is the place where SANITY is found.
i believed all the lies and did all the same blue-pill behaviors.
wish i knew back then what i know now.
Dad never told me because HE was raised to have a wife and kids..
so, MGTOW is like the dad we never had..

[mp357Participant 531]

good post man, well said.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

this is the best post i’ve read in a while
well done skank spanker!!

i added this thread to my Favorites

The Skank Spanker wrote:

For example when I lost my job, I would lose the woman almost simultaneously.

and this never happens the other way around….women value men only for the resources they provide. True, loyal love does not come from women.

The Skank Spanker wrote:

I think men live life on HARD mode and women, well they just have society and white knight to soften up they fleece diapers for them. We gain wisdom because we are forced to learn in order to survive and not die, become homeless, depressed or commit suicide.

Life is tough, but i’m tougher. Most men live in HARD mode. Just look at the stats for suicides….80% men….Workplace injury is even higher

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Women have created this elusion, a manipulated world in which everything is about – women -. Men want to be successful for women. They go to clubs to get women. They marry for women. They white knight for women. Even die for women.

our society worships women like they are some sort of god. After going my own way, i started pursuing the things that i want. NOT the things that i think women want.

The Skank Spanker wrote:

F~~~ being a provider, f~~~ being a beta-chump slave, f~~~ the plantation.

Freedom never tasted so good………

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

The Skank Spanker wrote:

Realization –> Anger –> Bitterness –> Depression –> Acceptance

You are bang-on my brother. I went through these stages when I was divorce-raped but am sharp enough to learn from experience and never make the same mistake twice. To this day I still can’t compute men who entertain a second, third, fourth marriage. I mean as kids when we put our hand on the iron or stove-top and burn it, we learn from the pain and NEVER do it again! What then makes most men less intelligent than a four-year-old child? At least some of us get it.

#ManOut

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Oz-Bloke wrote:

we learn from the pain and NEVER do it again! What then makes most men less intelligent than a four-year-old child?

good question.
i think its a lack of discipline and a sense of false hope.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

To the posts about wrenches.

Archimedes: “Give me a lever long enough and a fulcrum on which to place it, and I shall move the world.”

[KeymasterKeymaster]

What women, your moms, sisters, girlfriends, TV, commercials, film, marketing, wife and society at large will teach you

What MGTOW will teach you

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

How mad is she? That’s a question I’ll never have to worry about! I wouldn’t invest in any MGTOW florist shops! That’s how mad we are! Flowers are for goats, and diamonds are for cutting.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

How mad is she? That’s a question I’ll never have to worry about!

same here……..that’s because we’re not a married slave.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

This thread should be added to the TOP GUN section

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anonymous wrote:

How mad is she?

That was spotted on twitter less than 30 minutes ago. From a “typical girl”…. who prefers to get flowers (or a gift) for behaving like a c~~~. And the image below is why you shouldn’t buy her a goddam thing.

How mad is she? Who f~~~ing cares.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

i might buy flowers for her FUNERAL ..
probably not even then though..
think i’ll use that money for some fun stuff for ME !!!
sorry bitch, you LOSE again !

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

Keymaster wrote:

What MGTOW will teach you

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

[WallyParticipant]

My Father pushed me to be MGTOW before I knew what it was, everything here just confirmed he was right. He fought with me on a girl who I thought was a NAWALT and of course he was right. Excellent post and this site saves lives, truly does. Once you take the red pill and have the knowledge there really is no going back.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

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