MGTOW in NYC

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Men, I’ve recently joined the forum here, but have lurked in a few others for the last year or two. First off, i appreciate everyone’s thoughts, questions, comments & humor.

Second, a brief intro: My path to MGTOW i think is fairly typical – married & divorced within 3 years, paid out way too much blood money & treasure, got to thinking whether or not there’s a better way.

Indeed – there is a better way. It started for me with “No More Mr. Nice Guy” by Dr Glover; in working through that, i stumbled on his article about the “Cake of Life”. In that, i found a framework for my life that makes sense. I did about a year of what TRP calls Monk Mode, and now, i have

– A fulfilling career
– Great friends
– Killer workouts 5 days per week, and
– Time/resources to pursue my passions, like international travel & volunteer work, latin dancing (salsa, bachata, tango), learning foreign languages, discovering new music, men’s style & fashion.

This has led to me being happy & looking forward to damn near every day, to being better, to facing down challenges, to learning, to improving myself.

With respect to women: being a successful, confident & happy guy in his mid-30s, with no attachments, gets a fair amount of attention in New York City. I politely tell women i don’t date. If they press & i want to be socially polite, i tell them it’s because i divorced last year. What they don’t know, what no one outside of a close group of friends knows, is that i’ll never marry – I’ll never give up all that i’ve worked so hard for – happiness, freedom & resources to travel & do as i please, to retire inside 10 years to the coast of Latin America where i can volunteer or consult or work on old cars or surf to my heart’s content.

There’s a whole world out there – for me it gets better every day when I use my natural talents to improve myself at the same time I’m enjoying the world.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I am glad you made it. Glover’s book is new to me, thanks for the tip. http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Symmetric MGTOWParticipant 570]

Welcome home brother!

[RennieParticipant]

Welcome, it sounds like you’ve got it made.

[Little BirdParticipant 40]

Welcome aboard mate

[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Welcome! Glad to hear you are doing so well. Please feel free to share your experiences and knowledge with others here that might need guidance in achieving what you have achieved.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Anonymous 29]

Not everything here is nice but it’s the truth even if ugly, it’s better than female bulls~~~ & lies. Welcome MattNYC.

[stopmockingmanParticipant 441]

You be ok here, with friends that have scars let us say.

[nycmgtowParticipant 30]

Hey MattNYC,

I saw that you sent me a message but I can’t seem to read it…

Try again, I can’t see how to message you.

peace.

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