MGTOW from other men? (no homo)

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

This isn’t meant to be homosexual.

You guys may know my previous threads. In a nutshell, my best friend who I lived with kicked me out of the apartment because of his insufferable bitch GF, I was frantic looking for places to live and almost f~~~ed up and moved in with a random female just because she had a dog (but thanks to you guys helping me come back to my senses and realizing that there HAD to be another way, I didn’t), and I found another place LAST MINUTE with 3 other guys (seem very chill and share many of the same interests). I didn’t want to live with so many people, but not only is it a cheaper price, but the room is bigger, we all click and have the same interests, I have people living with me so I’m not alone and depressed, and they have a DOG! I’m so glad that I didn’t choose that other living situation with that girl. I love you guys for helping me out with that even though I knew it was a bad idea….I just kind of gave up and didn’t want to look any further, but I’m glad I did.

Anyway, I have no problem going full MGTOW on women. I use them for sex and once they get too clingy, I’m out….or they reject me, and I’m done with them,. no chasing. no problem. My problem is getting too “connected” with male friends who I find worthy of my companionship. I realize that women will always come and go in my life with the lifestyle that I live (as will friends too though). I get a deep sense of satisfaction from that deep bro bonding and true acceptance of one another, especially when we both share the same passions and are doing them together. I end up even subconsciously setting expectations with these people once that happens and I end up having to take a mental step back to check myself because I’m afraid to be burned again. Part of me wants to develop that same friendship that I had before, but part of me doesn’t want to get hurt like that again…especially knowing that these guys are cool and all but seemingly nowhere NEAR red pill material and a bit younger than me. I honestly don’t want to rob myself of a deep friendship, but don’t want to be disappointed either.

How do I maintain balance? I feel like I will always have to have my own thing going on and not stop doing it or depending on others for absolutely anything (even emotional needs), but that is better said than done.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I think there is a lot of random chance in friendships. We either hit it off or we don’t. You can be friendly with anyone who will allow it, and that is the best start I can think of.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BlackPillParticipant 319]

RoyDal wrote:

I think there is a lot of random chance in friendships. We either hit it off or we don’t. You can be friendly with anyone who will allow it, and that is the best start I can think of.

i can easily make friends, that’s not the problem. The problem is being dropped like a hot potato by your close friends because of this blue pill epidemic.

I’m getting older and I’m at that age where people are settling down and I’m coming to the harsh reality that I may not have any/many true friends, and if I do, I’ll lose them to a female shortly anyway. If not that, then they’ll just be sad pathetic c~~~s who complain about not being able to get women and revolve their life around that….which happened to three of my friends who are too depressed to even return a call from a friend checking in on them, and two other friends who just up and ditched for their GF’s.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

One should not be concerned about appearances. If one articulates one’s point and is genuine, the truth has a way of making itself known.

The derogation of homosexuality is rooted in gynocentrism and has no basis in any sound logic. While saying “no homo” is not derogative per se, distancing one’s self from something often implies disdain.

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

I pretty much gave up on male friendships. I have a few close guy friends from back in the day but I no longer make any effort to hang out with them. No hard feelings… just focused on myself and my journey from here on out.

Hanging out with other dudes just seems kinda homo to me. The rare times I do “hang out” with another dude is when we’re doing something productive together. Working out, roofing a house, building or fixing something. I have no interest in sitting around drinking, playing video games, watching sports, or whatever normal people do to “hang out”…

I guess I’m anti-social. I do like to talk a bit on forums like this one though. It seems that all the intellectually stimulating people are on the net these days. I enjoy solitude and I’m not in the least bit lonely.

I have a very social job so I get a lot of guys trying to befriend me on a day-to-day basis. I have a very positive, happy-go-lucky, got-my-s~~~-together vibe so thats probably why. I have this theory that when a man seeks another male friend, it’s really just him looking for a father figure. This is understandable when your young and in your 20’s…

I’m now finally at this point in my life where I feel like I’ve got it all figured out. I’m not seeking any validation or friendships or really anything “out there”. I know now that anything I can possibly need or want comes from within.

I guess that’s the essence of masculinity. Needing nothing from anyone. 100% independent and self-reliant. Every man is an island. I’m busy clearing trees, harvesting coconuts and making my island as awesome as I can.

Not my property... Not my problem

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I have been asking myself the same question Blackpill.
For now the way i go about my friendships is:
Don’t trust or rely on them,
be a man that can be trusted and relied upon.
In a way they aren’t friends to me
but i’m definitely a friend to them.

P.S avoid chronic manginas

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