MGTOW at 21 years old

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

What’s happening yall?

I’m 21.

I’ve been browsing this website for a few months now. I came across it after breaking up with a woman child I was dating. I let myself date her because she gave me more validation that any girl I’ve dated. Little did I know, that was part of her ploy. She would constantly text and call me with random questions like “How big is your house?” and “How much money do you make?” I felt validated because she seemed so interested in me. She also told me that she was interested in having sex with me. She always made me promise to do things for her before physically taking things a step further. I remember this one time we were sitting on her bed in her dorm room. I was holding her and kissing her neck. She was super into it. She took off my shirt. Then I tried to take hers off. Her persona did a f~~~ing 180. She got mad at me and said that she felt uncomfortable. Next she said something that made me lose all hope in her. “We should get engaged first.” That was enough s~~~ cake for me. I left her place pretty soonthereafter feeling frustrated. I worked on her for an entire month and it lead to this? F~~~! Later that night she sent me a link to the victoria secret website. It was an image of a matching pink bra and underwear. Underneath the url in her text it said “Buy it for me?” So conflicting and confusing.

I didn’t respond to that message. In fact, I never talked to her again. I found this website the next day after someone mentioned it in the comments section on a youtube video. I never turned back.

Ever since, I’ve become increasingly more paranoid and cautious around women. I think it has played to my benefit. I’ve allowed women (Including my own mother) to manipulate me for way too f~~~ing long guys. They have f~~~ed up my head, but not beyond repair…not beyond repair.

It feels good to finally join the revolution.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[MecklotParticipant 608]

Good to have you on board, brother.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Good for you, System. I’m sorry you got played, but it happens to most of us. Don’t dwell on it, pal. Just keep moving forward. Dating should be a casual experience for you. Any immature young lady who gives you a hard time is not worth your time & money. When I was in my 20s, I was clueless. I absolutely had to have a girlfriend at any cost. I was really desperate, and my hormones were raging. I’m sure you know the deal. It’s hard to think logically when you’re constantly lusting after sexy women. Women know they have the upper hand when it comes to dating, that’s why many of them don’t develop a sense of humility, responsibility, or other character traits that would make them worthy of marriage. I’m glad this website is helping you. You’re going to be one step ahead of your peers. Lucky for you!

The best advice I can give you:

1) Always wear a condom. It’s your responsibility to avoid making a baby and paying some entitled woman child support.
2) Start a retirement fund as soon as you can. The advantage is: your money will be tax-deferred.
3) Think about the kind of life that’s best for you, and create a plan to live that way.
4) Do not let a woman distract you from your education and career goals (I made that mistake when I was in my 20s).
You might date a woman who feels its her duty to tell you what you should do with your life so she can be happy. It’s a trap. Don’t fall into it!
5) Read Think and Grow Rich. This book has some great advice—not just for making money, but for your life! I keep a copy of this book on my coffee table. I flip through it now and then. It keeps me in line when my mind goes astray.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

Welcome- part of the reality is knowing that the worlds oldest profession takes on many forms.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Swen August wrote:

Welcome- part of the reality is knowing that the worlds oldest profession takes on many forms.

Welcome, and ditto the above!!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Welcome Brother, at least you only wasted a month on her – us older mgtow’s wasted much much longer, don’t be a blue pill ? chump as we were, learn from us, and younger mgtow of course.
Enjoy the liberty of this site, and enjoy YOUR life.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Wow, she didn’t even try to hide her intentions.

Lesson learned my young Padawan. But don’t worry, Not All Women Are Like That. Lol!

Question for 100 points, a lady that swaps sex for material gain is called a ……..?

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[Sovereign SoulParticipant 47]

“I never turned back.”

Well we all started somewhere! So shall we review this scenario we have here? YOU should be ashamed for wanting sex! YOU should learn to control yourself! YOU should know that there’s more to a woman than her vagina! You lecherous pervert! You scumbag! You…you…CREEPER!

Meanwhile, this little little angel should not, according to her/prevalent social thought, feel bad about trying to extract resources from you. That’s how a woman is supposed to know if a man ‘cares’, right? Dangling the possibility of sex in front of you isn’t dishonest, those are the innate roles of the two sexes, right? Asking about your house size isn’t shallow, she was just probably curious! Right? WRONG. WRONG. WRONG.

I guess the difficult thing about finding the backbone to tell women to f~~~ off is that it feels wrong. All our lives we are told what? “You don’t be mean to women! You must revere the beautiful creatures! Carry their stuff for them! Do what they ask!” And when you do lay the smack down, the response from her…..will not be kind. She may even cry. And be prepared for 90-95% of people (male and female) to take her side. But the truth is the truth, even if people don’t want to hear it. And you know what else? She’ll f~~~ing respect you for it.

If you woke up tomorrow and started talking to all women the way that you talk to men, there would be a lag. There would be a period of time where you are not receiving the puppy-dog/beta-male attention, nor will you be receiving the honest/attracted response from women that an Alpha does. It will seem like you are screwing up big time. Just focus on bettering yourself. Confidence goes up. Savings goes up. Ability to handle difficult social/romantic situations goes up. You cannot immediately abandon your strategy, you must stay the course! And at some point (weeks or months?), the returns will start rolling in. And just about the first time a woman says to you “You’re a real asshole” and smiles, you’ll realize…I’ve done it.

[ArkonParticipant 12]

007 (Reborn) wrote:

matching pink bra and underwear

Been there, too. Black/red lingerie. 60€. Got a blowjob, but no happy end. Didn’t see that 60€ ever again.

So you made a good decision. 🙂

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

NioZen wrote:

Wow, she didn’t even try to hide her intentions.
<img src= But don’t worry, Not All Women Are Like That. Lol!

Are there really women out there that aren’t like that? Or were you being sarcastic? I have about 50 women in my life right now and all of them have daunting manipulative qualities.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Sounds good, welcome man ! I hope you will find some helpful Info here. There are many different life experiences shared on this forum and mistakes to be learned from aswell. Cheers !

007 (Reborn) wrote:

I didn’t respond to that message. In fact, I never talked to her again. I found this website the next day after someone mentioned it in the comments section on a youtube video. I never turned back.

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