MGTOW and Asperger Syndrome

[High RollerParticipant 157]

Asperger man here.

It was very hard growing up with this, and one of the reasons why is because it can be such an ‘invisible disability’. Everyone around you can pin-point that something’s just a bit different with your social behavior but cannot tell exactly what it is especially if it’s on the mild side. I knew about it since I was a kid but wasn’t diagnosed until 22 years of age. Living with this used to bother me a lot but it doesn’t so much anymore.

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

I’ve known guys with Asperger’s that were brilliant scientists especially in applied mathematics…computer programming.

I worked with a guy on a project that was very complex and he was able to handle it. His interpersonal skills got in the way as he was not available a lot. I think it was because he was socially uncomfortable.

It really slowed down the project.

I don’t have Aspergers, I’m not gonna tell you my diagnosis, but it’s really financial success that leads to the unhappiness of marriage. Women don’t want to know you. Then you have money and they’re all over you.
Then they get bored and figure out the system by which they get free money for years from you if they dump your ass.

I spent about 20 years dealing with the mess of marriage and children.

You guys with Asperger’s count your lucky stars. I would be in a much better situation and have much better relationships, temporary ones, if I had avoided women or they avoided me.

Now I live like I imagine someone with Aspergers would live like because I’ve gone my own way and don’t need another dependent female in my life.

If you go your own way, Aspergers or not, you’ll find peace and happiness in life.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

MIKETOW wrote:

e tend to be naive and lack social skills, they are often rejected and/or manipulated by women. It is also important to note that men are often labeled “creeps” by women for being naive and lacking social skills. That being taken into account, are men with Asperger’s more likely to go their own way than men without Asperger’s?

this makes sense. Once she finds out he has money and income, she can latch onto him and turn him into the ultimate beta bucks

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

I just took an online test just to see what the fuzz was about. Scored 34 out of 0-50, were between 32-50 is a clear indication of this thing. Not sure, as I like to keep to myself and do my stuff, and hate being interrupted. It disturbs me that everything seemingly “not perfectly normal” is diagnosed as a “syndrome”.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[Anonymous 1]

I call bulls~~~ on that Asperger, like socialising was easy, like finding people with whom you can enjoy time was easy. I think that the most important thing is to feel well, meaning no anxiety, no avoiding social interactions due to fear etc. f~~~ having friends, most of the people out there are morons, let them be friends with other morons.
I have had anxiety and avoided people in the past, not due to any desease but because I was fat and felt shame about that, after losing the excessive weight I did not felt like “not fitting”, I was cool and calm. It was due to excessive porn usage aswell(for a period of my life it was almost every day), how that is related to anxiety is still not clear to me, but getting rid of porn gave me an incredible boost of confidence, and that made every interaction way easier. It was due to the trauma of losing my father when I was still 15 aswell.

My past anxiety was so great that I would have avoided writing those things about me here, but now I just accept the truth, and I am proud of what I have achieved. F~~~ who wants to judge me for my past, I now live only by my opinion of myself, not the opinion of other people.

I think that all the problems related to socialising, anxiety etc. are related to things that you can change(dealing with past traumas aswell), instead of saying “hey I got that desease, too bad, gotta make a living anyway”. If you change your life style(starting from the little things, like what you eat and drink), if you understand what are your problems and manage to fix your life, you will most likely feel better and notice that all those psychiatric mental jerkoffs are just people that do not understand what is behind a person.

And I say that because people actually fear speaking about their “private” activities, people fear changing too, because it is more easy to keep living like you do instead of working your ass off. And since people do not open up about their problem and activities it is not easy to understand what the real problem is.

[Fight The Femi-NazisParticipant 12]

I got high functioning aspies too and went through my whole life with it thus far but I got retard strength so I do not worry when I can knock people’s lights out HAHAHA!

[Ice-JiubParticipant 491]

Not having an innate understanding of social situations and having to go and learn it later gave me the ability to see through all the petty bulls~~~.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

I suppose by society’s definition, i’m an undiagnosed aspie, but it’s a bad term thrown on guys in a pathetic attempt to explain why we’re not concerned with meaningless bulls~~~.

Some of the so called “aspie’s” i know, are the most brilliant coders and software developers i’ve ever met. Sadly their skills rarely get noticed, because they can’t stand going to interviews or working around a pack of idiots who think they’re the s~~~ because they spent half their lives in college to learn 1/3rd of what the “aspie” taught himself at home.

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