Mentally ill !!

[StepIntoTomorrowParticipant 25]

Hi there

As you will see from the introduction I posted a couple of weeks ago, I’m currently living in China, and I’m still dating. After ending it with one Chinese girl last year (again, see my intro), I started dating another at the start of this year, much nicer and easy to get along with. We’re both busy in our jobs so we only see each other once a week, which suits me fine, and I’m not really looking to take it further than that.

However, she has recently been asking more and more questions about marriage and kids, and up to now I had just been giving her very vague answers. She’s 35, which is ancient by Chinese standards, and has made it clear she wants to get married and have kids. So we were chatting on the phone last night and the subject comes up again, and this time I was totally frank with her, told her clearly that I’m never getting married, and went into detail as to how and why I have reached this decision.  As you can imagine she wasn’t too pleased  and came to the conclusion that there is something inherently wrong with me, and that I must be mentally ill for thinking like this.

So whatever happens to the relationship goes now, I’m not really bothered either way.

Any of you guys been called ‘mentally ill’ for rejecting marriage?! Would like to hear your thoughts.

 

 

 

 

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

You made her mentally ill when you told her about your red pill philosophy and she used it to shame you. Any man that doesnt fall in line with women thoughts is look down upon like they are crazy. I think you’re being very smart and it makes females mentally ill when they know of any man not willing to work on the plantation. She going to dump you now or monkey branch to some other target that will give her these entitlements. See how quick she falls out of love with you,which means she never was……….

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[Anonymous 0]

StepIntoTomorrow wrote:

Any of you guys been called ‘mentally ill’ for rejecting marriage?! Would like to hear your thoughts.

There’s a term that gets tossed around on the afternoon women’s talk shows: “Emotionally unavailable.” It’s used to describe boyfriends who won’t commit long-term, and it implies that such men are damaged goods. Like they have some kind of disorder that doesn’t allow them to fall in love. Because presumably everyone should want to race to the alter and get hitched and crank out lots of kids. But to me it sounds like another way to say, “He’s just not that into you.”

In a way, it lets the guy off the hook. “Sorry, baby, I think you’re wonderful, but I have one of those ’emotionally unavailable’ disorder things. Nothing I can do about it. No long-term commitments for me.”

I’ll have to try that excuse next time.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Women will say anything, they will call you anything, rather than admit you have some legitimate concerns about the raw deal for men that is marriage. Because they benefit greatly from marriage. Hell most depend upon marriage. Anything that might derail that cash cow for them will always be viciously attacked, logic, reason, and facts be damned.

So don’t worry if some gold digging whore calls you names for disregarding marriage. It just means you’re right.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Mentally I’ll?

☺😊😀😁😂😃😄😅😆

Having your own life, standards, money, focus, frame, house ……

Yup you’re mental.

[RoyDalParticipant]

StepIntoTomorrow wrote:

Any of you guys been called ‘mentally ill’ for rejecting marriage?! Would like to hear your thoughts.

How crazy would it be to get sucked into the marriage-divorce industrial machine? Find another GF and release her into the wild again to continue her hunt.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BufordParticipant 935]

As soon as the ‘M’ word got sidled into a conversation with any girl I was seeing it was instantly over. I never gave a second chance or waited to see if they would forget about it, because I know they just don’t. I just walked. She’s already thinking about the next man dude, because marriage to women is simply how they get their ‘due’.

Never been referred to as mentally ill though. Just some variations on the theme of pathetic.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

When a woman is faced with accepting the reality and  lowering their ego to match, they usually just opt for the easier to swallow “ego boosting”  distorted version of reality.

The reason they CAN do this is because their girlfriends are reinforcing this alternate reality by feeding each other that kind of emotional ice cream b.s. instead of accepting facts.

If men did this, there would probly be a bounty on the heads of all women.

 

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

A shaming tactic from a Chinese woman, no matter what slogans and slurs she throws, is still a shaming tactic.  She is just angry, because as you mention – she is “Ancient” by their standards (we have 3 factories in China).

She must be getting an earful from family, and her peer group of hens.  If you stay with her, be prepared for all the hens to make you the enemy.

Sovereignty above all else.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

StepIntoTomorrow wrote:

I was totally frank with her, told her clearly that I’m never getting married, and went into detail as to how and why I have reached this decision.  As you can imagine she wasn’t too pleased  and came to the conclusion that there is something inherently wrong with me, and that I must be mentally ill for thinking like this.

Knowing this, she won’t end the relationship, but she WILL try (every trick in the book) to get pregnant.

This will be her “power play” to force you into marriage.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Tell her that wanting to bear a child post-35 is “mentally ill”.  If she thinks she is still prime breeding material, she is the one who is “mentally ill”.  If she thinks she can humiliate and name call you, and then not want to break up with her, nevermind spawn with such a hostile woman, then she is the one that is “mentally ill”.

Her Baby Rabies is the definition of Mentally Ill, her brain can not process anything else right now.  When she insults you, she is “projecting” that Ring Watch & Baby Rabies have made her lose objectivity.

Sovereignty above all else.

[FeralParticipant 98]

She was in pain, for sure.
Most likely, she is blue-pill, not necessarely a conscious gold digging whore.
Like in the Matrix movie, you live in a red-pill world and she is probably living in a different world.

“Mentally ill” was probably her way to express such deeply different way of seeing the world.

We are here to remind you that your red-pill-view is shared by the wisest of men.
So when society around you says the opposite, just come home.

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