Men, women, love.

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

I cannot help but notice after a lifetime of observation that there is a fundamental difference in the loving behaviour between men and women.
It seems to me that women divide their love between others while men multiply their love to cover others.
How often do we hear of a “favourite” child of a woman and yet how uncommon this is among men.
Is this phenomenon due to a greater capacity for love among men?
Evolution designed us to fight to the death in defence of our family and to toil indefatiguably in our family’s interest. Does this mean nature equipped us with a near endless supply of love as a motivator?
If so, in what light should we view the love of a woman?
Life is a never ending education.

Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

[ghostParticipant]

Philandry wrote:

How often do we hear of a “favourite” child of a woman and yet how uncommon this is among men.

I am not sure about this. My mother loves me and all of my siblings the same.

Edit: Keymaster’s flow chart sums it up for me.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Philandry wrote:

If so, in what light should we view the love of a woman?

I once saw it illustrated like this:

MEN >> WOMEN >> CHILDREN >> PUPPIES.
“Love” never works in reverse.

It was an amazing revelation.

Love song lyrics by men:

• “I would die for you”
• “I’ll buy you everything, I’ll buy you any ring”
• “I just died in your arms tonight”
• “Lady in Red. Never seen you looking so lovely as you did tonight.”

Lyrics by women:

• “Better put a ring on it”
• “Pay my telephone bills”
• “Dear future husband, here’s a few (demands) you need to know”
• “Don’t want no short dick man”

Even Celine Dion who’s always singing about “love” is all about RECEIVING it – and what she GETS.
It’s remarkable.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

I freely admit my experience may vary from everybody else’s. Any light that can be shed on the subject .will be gratefully received

Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

[PhilandryParticipant 538]

I expect a considerable amount of anecdotal information will be produced by this thread. It will be interesting to see if any conclusions can be reached

Being a man is incredible good luck. Do not waste it on the unlucky.

[MACHOParticipant]

Men love unconditionally! Women loves until the money runs out! That sums it up nicely ! 😜

Philandry wrote:

I cannot help but notice after a lifetime of observation that there is a fundamental difference in the loving behaviour between men and women

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Philandry wrote:

It seems to me that women divide their love between others

Naw. Women don’t divide their love. They only love themselves.

Look at how many willingly abandon their children in a crisis. Or just because they want to hop back on the carousel. Or because it’s a tuesday.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

sidecar wrote:

Or because it’s a tuesday.

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If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Honestly, I don’t think most women love anything. I don’t think most of them even love their children. I’d say they only love themselves, but I don’t think even that is true. I think that their soul (if you could even say they have one) is basically a huge abyss. It’s like a black hole, no matter how much time, energy, money, and resources they are able to suck in, it is never enough, and they always need more.

That’s their curse. No matter how much they are given, they will NEVER be happy. They just have varying degrees of misery. Eventually when everything else around them is gone and they’ve consumed absolutely everything in their path, the void will turn on them. They will collapse into themselves. If they live to old age, they will learn the true meaning of suffering. That is all the youngest generation of women have to look forward to. And it’s everything they deserve.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

No one loves unconditionally.

I think the difference is since men are the ones that are the seekers, and supposedly finally find and “get the girl” that we believe she is off the market and actually believe the vows “til death do you part”.

They just do not have the loyalty that men do. And they expect her husbank to die for her even as she is driving to file divorce papers.

Loyalty isnt there, plus their inability to empathize with men in general and the guy she “loves” specifically.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Anonymous 18]

Men are sun. Women are moon.

Moon reflects sun’s light. Its a barren place on its own.

Women reflect back the love a man gives her. She is incapable of generating anything authentic for a man.

Women’s best trait is her nurturing capacity for her offspring. But her selfish nature robs the child of a father figure.

Men create. Women destroy.

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Unconditional love can indeed exist… a father’s love for his children.

But that’s it.

And it’s true I love my sons the same. Before my second son was born I was concerned I wouldn’t be able to love him as much because it seemed like my older son ruled the reservoir, but when my younger son was born additional reserves opened up. A man is capable of that kind of love.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

Jack Harper wrote:

Unconditional love can indeed exist… a father’s love for his children.

The condition is his own children.

Women love ‘being loved’ and products.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

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