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I love how feminists are always bitching about “Why is it ok for men to sleep around but if women do, they’re shamed and called sluts? Wwaahhh!”
Well, there’s a huge difference in intent. Men sleep around because we’re horny and want to f~~~. Women sleep around because they want to get things from men and get men to do things for them. Hence they simply use sex to reel us in. That’s why they’re sluts. If women slept around simply because they were horny, no one would care.
I know y’all are probably thinking “Um, duhhh. No s~~~.” But it boggles my mind how so many people have a hard time grasping this very simple thing.
Men sleep around because we’re horny and want to f~~~. Women sleep around because they want to get things from men and get men to do things for them.
There is much more to it than that… and the explanation goes deeper. It’s important to understand why “slut shaming” exists in the first place…. and what makes men “studs”.
In order for a man to enjoy many sexual partners, it requires A LOT of work.
• Many years at the gym + an impressive amount of dedication.
• Patience. For he is more attractive to women as he ages and establishes himself after EARNING his way out of worthlessness.
• Business, professional and financial success.
• “Social proofing”
• Assets and resources
• Social, economic and/or political power
• Fame
• A fancy car or two and his own home
… you get the idea.In order for a woman to enjoy many sexual partners, all that’s required is the willingness – and to not be a land whale. That’s it. Even being slim requires no real effort, compared to a man. She just needs to keep the fork out of her mouth.
Consensual sex only takes place when a WOMAN wants it to.
And all it takes for that to happen, is her consent.
A man cannot simply consent in order to make sex happen, and that is the key difference.An attractive woman can be dumb as a chimpanzee, uneducated, broke, unemployed, have no aspirations, no business success, and not even in terrific physical shape and still enjoy MANY sexual partners — with no more than what god gave her. A man can not.
This is why men are revered for enjoying many sexual partners – and women are “slut shamed” for it. Because he must bring infinitely more to the table. Even more importantly, women CULTIVATE this themselves. The more she expects a man to do (and have) in order to get laid, the MORE he will be revered and respected for enjoying many women. The LESS that is required from her, the less she can be “respected”. Therefore, “slut shaming” can never go away because women PREFER it this way.
When the criteria for sex (and the price of vagina) is as high as it is, and the more women expect for access to their love gates, the more they can expect to be shamed when they cheat on the “boyfriend”….. who is expected to meet all kinds of outrageous criteria, and pay for everything, do all the work, entertaining and jumping through hoops for her affections. Women are simply not required to have six-figure salaries in order to get laid. But countless women on dating sites won’t even consider meeting a man for a coffee unless he meets a laundry list of demands – including a six-figure salary. It takes quite a bit for a man to rake in $100K and she expects this before considering a first meeting? She is personally guaranteeing she will be slut-shamed when she cheats on her man.
So I’m afraid “slut shaming” will always exist. Like it or not. MGTOW or not.
It is not dependent on the male. It is dependent on the female.Women are actually more guilty than men of “slut shaming”. For every girl who gives it away for free is effectively lowering every whore’s “price”. This is why “good girls” who attempt to withhold their affections from a man until he pays the highest possible price (a marriage contract and diamond ring and 1/2 of his net worth) will HATE the woman who enjoys sex openly, often and freely. She will even “slut-shame” that girl herself.
When women bring their expectations down to an acceptable level, only then will you see a reduction in slut shaming. Theoretically, if all sex was free and all women were content with a strictly sex-for-sex exchange, and the only requirement for a man to enjoy may partners is his willingness, “sluts” would cease to exist – and they couldn’t be shamed any more for it.
Women will never allow that to happen.
On the flip side, there is a certain amount of RESPECT to be had for “sluts”.
After all, at least they are not running around pretending they are NOT sluts.The “double standard” exists, because women WANT it to exist.
“A key that opens many locks is a master key.
A lock that opens for many keys…. is just a s~~~ty lock”.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I never thought of it that way, KM. But you’re right. Women practically have it made and yet they still complain and bitch and p~~~ and moan about how they want more.
I’m not sure if keymaster said this first if he got it from someplace else, but…
A key that can open many locks is called a master key. A lock that can be opened by many locks is a s~~~ty lock.
As for grasping the concept, it isn’t difficult. Feminists are not trying to understand reality, they are trying to change reality through manipulation.
Although honestly, I don’t agree with your reasoning. I actually care if a woman was sleeping around just because she was horny. I would be less interested in her. I don’t think motivation for sleeping around is all that important. You still end up with a master key and a s~~~ty lock.
edit: looks like I was late on this one…
Ok. Then do it.
I never thought of it that way
VERY few people think of it that way – especially women who keep screaming “why is it that girls are sluts but men are studs???”. They simply can’t afford to accept the reality of it.
Tell what I said above to a man who never thought about it like that, and he says “S~~~! that’s true! “…… and the reason he never thought about it, is because he’s been socialized to ignore it. All we ever hear on this is the FEMALE dialogue.
But explain this to a woman, and she doesn’t like it. ONE BIT. Because now her question has an absolute explanation. There is really nothing she can do about it. She doesn’t even WANT to change it.
In order for women to change “men are studs & women are sluts” for having many sexual partners, they would have to LOWER their demands and expectations. If it was “no big deal” for you or me to get laid. and we could have all the blowjobs we want for free just by being lazy and saying “yes”……. we couldn’t be “studs” anymore.
We would be in exactly the same position as the typical modern female.
We would be Luke Slutwalker.I’m not sure if keymaster said this first if he got it from someplace else
No I didn’t write the bottom line on that. That “lock and key” analogy has been around memes for ages.
I only explained how “the double standard” is actually perpetuated by WOMEN.
They are not “victims” of it, like they pretend to be.
They are the CREATORS of it. And they will never change it.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I think it goes a step beyond that concept as well. If you figure out the average number of partners men and women have…it mathematically has to be the same…but I think if you took a large sample you would probably find most goes have a relatively low number and a few have really, really high numbers that pulls the average up, while for women most of them just have a high number.
So yeah…maybe your average person has 10 partners…but if you take 10 guys 9 probably have 3 or less partners and one has 70 partners, where as if you take 10 women they’d all be closer to 10 partners. I’d fully expect 9 out of 10 of those guys to think the average woman is a slut, and the tenth guy to just not care.
Most guys aren’t sleeping around…they’re just looking for a good woman, but women just want to point at the minority and act like all men do that. Its just an excuse. Its like when you are a little kid and you say to your parents “But Kyle’s parents let him do that.” and they look at you and say “We aren’t Kyle’s parents.” If women are so worried about being slut shamed(which they obviously don’t care until they are post wall and no decent guy wants a beat up snatch) more of them should hold themselves to a higher standard rather than set the bar low and act like they aren’t a slut just because someone else is more of a slut.
Oh it’s a fact that women have more sexual partners than men.
They call it a “shocking new study”. but it doesn’t shock me at all!
Just look at the requirements for women compared to men – in order for sex to take place.
Anyone who ever thought “men are just cheating dogs” is living under a rock.I don’t need a “study” to tell me women are more promiscuous .
Anyone with any sense can ascertain that blindfolded!Most guys aren’t sleeping around
No s~~~. The “men are dogs” bulls~~~ is a great big LIE. Always has been.
It doesn’t even make sense to pretend “men cheat more”.A man CAN’T just decide to “cheat more”.
Only women can.It’s only a “shocking new study” to people who believe the crap women have been duping the world with for the last (god knows how many) centuries. Once you squeegee the “women are good men are bad” slush off the windshield of life….. it all becomes clear.
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CONSIDER THIS:
What is the FIRST thing / reaction when a man catches a woman in bed with another man? His first reaction is to vilify, demonize, and go after the man. But why? It never would have take place if she didn’t want it to.
Everyone reacts that way. “What a PIG”.
No.
What a SLUTT. She is 100% responsible.
It would never have taken place if she didn’t want it to take place.The only thing “shocking” is the general social attitude that “men are at fault” for this. It’s a bunch of crap. No matter how much you want to bang a married woman, it won’t happen. She does it ALL.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I don’t get that referenced study. First off, it was done by a magazine, which means it’s likely very inaccurate. Second, if sex takes both a woman and man to happen, how, on average, can 1 gender, be sleeping around more then the other?
It cannot be average. I can understand if the median is much different. Say there few Chad’s out there having all the sex, with most men maintaining a relatively low count. Where as women may consistently have a higher counts, with fewer exceptions. That makes sense.
Stats on cheating can be lopsided, as only 1 has to cheat for the sex to happen.
I honestly getting the impression that women who read and respond to magazine surveys are likely to have more partners then the average guy. That, I would believe.
Ok. Then do it.
Second, if sex takes both a woman and man to happen, how, on average, can 1 gender, be sleeping around more then the other?
I just explained it with an amendment under “CONSIDER THIS”.
The cheating girlfriend/wife clutches her sheets like a “victim” of the situation. “Please don’t hurt him!” but she’s the perpetrator!
Here’s a chat between Tom Leykis and a “slut” who is so brainwashed about all of this – and behaves like a victim herself!
“I didn’t do anything! It’s just something that happened!!”.
No. Nice try but no. This dialogue is actually floating around out there and nobody gives it a second thought. Women actually believe this s~~~. It doesn’t “take two” like everyone thinks. It really only takes one slut to decide if sex will happen tonight….. just like she is the one who can make it NOT happen.
If she is 100% responsible (and can decide) to make it NOT happen….
Then she is 100% responsible when it does.….. just like a pregnancy.
100% choice… means 100% responsibility.
The situation (and the cheating) is 100% avoidable by HER.( yes the guy can avoid it too… but he can’t MAKE it happen. )
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.It is all so clear now. The women police themselves by slut shaming to keep their (individual and collective) SMV high. It all makes sense now. Economics 101 supply and demand.
How do the slut rallies fit into this?
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Ready for another one?
CONSIDER THIS:
Watch the Maury Povich show? “You are NNNNNOT the father”.
You will never see a slut on that show – who attempted to pin fatherhood on the wrong guy – say “sorry” for trying to get away with it. She runs off and starts CRYING like a victim of the situation. Maury Povich carved an entire career for himself out of cheating sluts.
What does he do? He goes right for the female and coddles her while she’s crying. She should be handcuffed on the spot and fined $250,000 (the cost of raising a child to 18) for attempting to perpetrate the worst imaginable non-violent act against a man.
The FIRST reaction is to let her get away with being a “victim”.
It’s f~~~ing disgusting.••••
She should be BEGGING for forgiveness. Not only is she in the wrong, but she works this “no way I am a slut” LIE and milks it for a couple of years(!!) and still pretends there is no way on Earth she is lying – to the point where she will willingly appear on a talk show in public. And even when she’s busted… she STILL acts like a “victim”.
You have to wonder WTF women are complaining about.
There is nowhere NEAR enough “slut-shaming” in the world.Even when a man is a “cheating dog”, he’s never gonna drag a woman on TV , throw a baby at her and say “here ……. this is yours”.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Wow im so glad i dont have to go through all that ,this is why.mgtow should be Number.one thing to show young boys ,women can.make any.men live.hell on earth
Thanks for the incredible insight on this. .I wish every judge would understand the truth. ..women are 100% responsible for pregnancy ..might change how men get stuck paying so much child support. .
To be fair, it practically physically impossible for a man lie about who the mother of his child is. The child would have to be artificially incriminated, and the Dad would have to have the egg switched out without ‘mama’ knowing. The woman would then also have to make more money then he does in order to claim child support. I would say I’d like to see that happen one day, but I don’t want to wish that kinda crap on a child. And I have no doubt that man who pulled that off would be charged with a crime.
Ok. Then do it.
To be fair, it practically physically impossible for a man lie about who the mother of his child is.
Of course. “To be fair”. But the fact that paternity fraud is LEGAL is “not fair” in itself. This is no time for “fairness”. Fairness would be to acknowledge that women are not interested in fairness. They are interested in you paying for their mistakes and s~~~ty choices.
And I have no doubt that man who pulled that off would be charged with a crime.
Of course we would. And that’s the difference. We KNOW we would and “cheating dogs” will PAY for their own mistakes – just like Arnold Shwarzennegger after he banged his maid and she had his baby.
Men PAY for being “cheating dogs”.
And men ALSO pay for cheating sluts.There are men in prison – right now – for not paying child support for kids even the LEGAL SYSTEM knows are not even theirs.
Where it gets hilarious is when women will be the first pretend “the double standard” …………. “isn’t fair”. They are the creators and the perpetuators of it , and they wouldn’t have it any other way.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.@key. regarding fairness. splitting hairs here. I absolutely believe they are interested in fairness, they just have an extremely warped sense of fairness. They only view fairness from the perspective, as fairness were about meeting their needs at a minimum. The view fairness in terms of what other women are getting. They don’t consider how their own actions can change what is fair. They pick and choose what facts they want to use when determine what they consider to be fair.
That is why they consider getting child support to be fair. Because other women are getting child support. Because I’m a woman. Because it’s going to be really hard for me to raise this child without it. They do not consider the fact that they chose to have sex and have a child without first securing the final means to support the child. They do not consider that the father, may not even be the father, and wouldn’t be financial ruined.
So in a woman’s eyes, she’s being absolutely fair. She is the victim if she doesn’t get the child support. She wouldn’t even understand it if you told her she was just being selfish.
When my ex and I divorced, the house we lived in was completely under my name as I had bought it before we were married. She wanted to stay there and I was fine with that. Her fair solution was to stay there, with the house still under my name, till our 4 year old daughter turned 18. She would pay me ‘rent’. Not once did she consider that she would actually be paying me with the child support money I gave her. Not once did she consider that she was asking me to be her landlord, without any of the normal privileges a landlord gets. I wasn’t going to be able to raise rent, get reimbursed for damages, or even change tenants. I took no time in laughing that off. Fair was only about what she wanted and thought she deserved, what she thought other women got, etc. Not once was there a thought from a different perspective.
Nope, ‘fair’ isn’t a good point of contention with a woman. It does mean the same to her. It’s much better to tell her what you’re going to do, and she can take it or leave it. Don’t live it up to her to figure out what’s fair.
Ok. Then do it.
@narwal, can’t argue with that.
Don’t leave it up to her to figure out what’s fair.
Well to whatever degree it is ….. whether it’s one man on the Maury Povich show, or 15 kids from 4 fathers……. and whatever she thinks “she should be entitled to”, they need to be corrected, because it’s a f~~~ing epidemic that women think they can just “do whatever they want” and “someone ELSE needs to pay”.
As a man, the only reason I don’t have kids (although there were 2 VERY close calls) is because I was SO focussed on it and knew that I would pay for it. No matter what.
A woman just doesn’t think like that. Even after she had 15 kids(!!!) and went on TV to say “someone’s got to pay”… she went out and had ANOTHER one.
It can’t even be called “slut shaming” anymore. It’s just F~~~ing. Unbelievable.
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“I WANT ANOTHER BABY!!!! ” after her husband already said NO!!!.
.,…. because she doesn’t think she needs to pay.
That’s her f~~~ing arrogant ass trying to trap a man.SHE: “DO YOU THINK I SHOULD LIE AND NOT TAKE MY PILL?????”
OTHER WOMEN: “YESSSSS!!!!!!! HA HA HA HA!!!!”
When I hear a woman say “the double standard is so not fair!” It takes all my self control to not verbally chew her intensely stupidity.head off. The s~~~ women get away with is so outrageously unbalanced, I can’t even finish this sentence. And they WANT it this way, That’s the terrifying part. No interest in changing it. None. they don’t even think they are doing a anything wrong! That talk-show woman would allow herself to get pregnant and expect her husband to be HAPPY about it!!
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.The “double standard” exists, because women WANT it to exist.
So true. Guys are more than willing to f~~~ sluts, not going to marry them, but we will f~~~ them all the same. I hear more women complaining about it and calling other girls slut behind their back than I hear men calling them that. Women who complain about slut shaming are the same ones that will make fun of a guy for being a virgin. It’s like if I keep setting myself on fire and then come screaming bloody murder at some woman like it’s her fault. She has nothing to do with me lighting myself on fire or shooting myself in the foot, just like men aren’t the ones doing the name calling.
Only in this feminized society can women get away with this s~~~ and still have it heard and addressed like it’s a real issue. Like me shooting myself in the foot and they publicly denounce someone else for it. LOL. the world’s a crazy place, fellas.
Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.
You stupid bitch, you are the one who is accountable, you are the one who is supposed to pay.
15 kids? She has been pregnant for 11.3 years. 11 freaking years!!!
EDIT: Guess what all those kids are going to grow up one day. The girls will do the same thing her mama did. The boys will grow up to be thugs and killers.
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Some guy got his name put on the general theory. Briffault’s Law.
The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. — Robert Briffault, The Mothers, Vol. I, p. 191
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Briffault#Briffault.27s_Law
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