Men settle for women

[Buller100Participant 2189]

I believe men in the west are programmed to ‘settle ‘ for women, back in 70s have a few girlfriends then everyone was marrying so you meet a girl who is ‘nice ‘ and settle down, like going from junior to senior school.

It was better back then as women had less rights so there was a bit of an incentive also divorce was deemed shameful to a degree.

Looking back I settled , for a wife it was what was done.

I guess like the WW1 and WW2 lads not 18 signing on to die,society expected it.

Seems to be a big change in society these days, I feel anyone marrying well a man is not a real person it’s as if the are in a suicide cult , they won’t be happy not a chance.

It will cost them time , massive resource to spend years with a person you grow apart from or you were never close to as the c~~~ was putting on an act.

Never settle , it’s a disaster.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Not to mention being single back then left you open to

speculation about your sexuality,among other things.

At least today we no longer have that stigma.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 18]

Any man with with some form of ownership and possession and need to control over a woman (all things I endorse in a relationship that will keep a man happy) will always settle for a modern woman.

I get put off by a woman who has had more than a couple dicks inside her. Sluts aren’t wife material.

I can’t even f~~~ promiscuous women.

More of a no hymen, no diamon’ kinda guy.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Anonymous wrote:

Any man with with some form of ownership and possession and need to control over a woman (all things I endorse in a relationship that will keep a man happy) will always settle for a modern woman.

I get put off by a woman who has had more than a couple dicks inside her. Sluts aren’t wife material.

I can’t even f~~~ promiscuous women.

More of a no hymen, no diamon’ kinda guy.

Funny I like them as there is now way you will ever get involved, I would never ever live full time with a woman, it’s a terrble thought.

All that bulls~~~ and double cost.

[HitmanParticipant]

sadly, most men have low self esteem and settle for almost any woman who likes them back.
i had a dozen friends do that 30 years ago.
the programming was strong.
date, marry, make children.
it was expected .
failure to do that made you a failure in almost everyone’s eyes.
.
most of those marriages have long since dissolved.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Hitman wrote:

sadly, most men have low self esteem and settle for almost any woman who likes them back.
i had a dozen friends do that 30 years ago.
the programming was strong.
date, marry, make children.
it was expected .
failure to do that made you a failure in almost everyone’s eyes.
.
most of those marriages have long since dissolved.

Yes 30+ it was part of the system, I really feel it’s changing , these days beer swilling women , fat women it’s hard to sell s~~~ as anything else.

[Dirtydog73Participant 232]

Hitman wrote:

sadly, most men have low self esteem and settle for almost any woman who likes them back.
i had a dozen friends do that 30 years ago.
the programming was strong.
date, marry, make children.
it was expected .
failure to do that made you a failure in almost everyone’s eyes.
.
most of those marriages have long since dissolved.

Great point.
Settling for women due to not being confident enough to go out and get the hot ones,the younger ones.
Not spruking the PUA bulls~~~,just do what ya gotta do ,and say f~~~ it if you fail and move onto the next one should you want that.

Dont settle for yourself as you are ,constantly strive to make yourself better in all facets of life .

Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

Don’t settle. It is the only way the next generations of men will ever have a chance. This current crop of females are unacceptable in so many ways it makes no sense to settle. Leave them alone for younger women to learn from.

[SprinterdudeParticipant 103]

Yes Men do settle, I have made this mistake myself and settled for a less attractive larger Woman once who I thought I was safe with…….well she cheated and screwed me over.

There are no safe bets with a Woman.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

xenon wrote:

Don’t settle. It is the only way the next generations of men will ever have a chance. This current crop of females are unacceptable in so many ways it makes no sense to settle. Leave them alone for younger women to learn from.

Bingo…let them see a bunch of disgusting desperate post wall cat women and a bunch of happy single men when they look at those 20-30 years older than them. Even if the women don’t learn from it and voluntarily give up some of their privilege to increase their odds of a long term partner, men will learn from it and continue to reject the traditional male role in favor of a happy single life…especially when they see how easy it is to pump and dump post 30.(if you even want to lol)

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Thanks for the post Buller. It’s crazy how my mind keeps jumping to “Well maybe this one” even after I know she’s AWALT. It’s still so programmed in me that I need the companionship of a woman, yet most of them are incapable of companionship and real friendship. Thanks again though, I needed this dose of reality today after feeling down. It’s all good though, looking forward to a Saturday full of football, beer, and no women talking to me.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2097]

Enjoy them for what they are worth, then move on. I take “settle” to mean moving in,marriage etc – something a MGTOW should NEVER do. It feels to me like similar shades of the same default female in various models, shapes, sizes etc. And however hot she is there’s some guy out there sick of her s~~~! 😉

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Hitman wrote:

sadly, most men have low self esteem and settle for almost any woman who likes them back.
i had a dozen friends do that 30 years ago.
the programming was strong.
date, marry, make children.
it was expected .
failure to do that made you a failure in almost everyone’s eyes.
.
most of those marriages have long since dissolved.

This accurately describes my social conditioning and life experiences as well. At least, it’s beginning to change for many, but I think the “traditional” bulls~~~ is still being pushed in many parts of our country like the bible belt etc. Unfortunately, many of these young men will have to learn the hard way.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

A man is always settling, no matter what woman it is, no matter what she looks like, the man is ALWAYS SETTLING. He will go up in value, she will go down, so no matter how you look at it, the man is getting the s~~~ end of the deal.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

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