Men Need Marriage For Stability and Order

[Anonymous 6]

So i’m in an Educational Psychology class in graduate school and the topic of discussion was human stages of development. And my professor agreed with the subject matter that everyone should get married, so you can have balance, order and stability. Now let me give you a brief history of my professor. His wife, also a teacher, slept with a colleague, a parent and one other outside guy. She frequently dates drug addicts and even had a shoot-out in her home while her son was present. My professor took his son to a 4th of July fireworks show, and his son cried because the fireworks sounded like the gunshots he heard at home. They got a divorce awhile ago, and now she wants full custody of the boy. The boy hates his father. The father has to barricade himself in his room at night due to the fear of the child coming into the room at night. And now the boy accused the man of child abuse.

Long story short, i’m seeing a trend in the class subject matter, and the professor. This man has been emotionally drained and it’s sad how things are. But this is the norm, for a lot of men today. The subject matter stated that humans would feel unaccomplished without being married and would one day regret that they didn’t take the opportunity to get married when they could. The exact phrase was, “You would feel despair and a feeling of not accomplishing a life goal”. Me personally, I don’t want kids. I see them as a burden, and not a good investment. Same with a wife, all the time, money and energy can be well spent elsewhere. Think about the investments you could make, think about the boat you could buy, the golf course you could be at on Sunday afternoon. That new gun you always wanted, or that new truck you wanna buy. But more important than material possession, you can get peace of mind for FREE.

This goes to show that everything that is discussed on this site is absolutely true. Society expects us to get married, have kids, and a house with a picket fence, and a minivan. We had a discussion in class about the ideal school. And the topic of all male schools vs all female schools came up. I advocated for an all male school, sort of like a military academy for discipline purposes. And this one chick said that she wouldn’t want an all female school because they (women) want relationships, and those are the prime years (high school), that a girl would want to interact with a male. Children are there for learning, not relationships. Our job is to teach these students in a manner that would be beneficial and promote a learning environment. We need strict discipline and structure.

The moral of the story is this, why would a man who has seen how devastating a marriage can be, still promote it. He told us a story of a friend of his, who had a long term relationship with a woman, and she cheated on him. From then on, all his relationships with women were strictly sexual, no love, just sex. And i’m thinking to myself, “Man, he found a red pill i see”. And my professor said, that it was wrong to never love again. I don’t know if he’s a simp of just sad, but it’s beyond stupid. My advisor warned me about the mindsets of the teachers in the education program, he told me just nod your head and smile. Let it go in one ear and out the other. Don’t take it too seriously, just get your “A”, and get out. In no other semester was that theory proven true, than this semester right here. What do you guys think??

[Anonymous 54]

Marrage is misrable. Period. Aside from kids,stabilty,or love(haha),dealing with a women day in and day out is just f~~~ing misrable.
Stabilty? Mood swings sound like stabilty?
Changeing the color of her hair sound like stabilty?
Happy wife happy life sound like stability.
PMS sound like stability?

Stability is Man being alone with his own consisant mood,in charge of your own money,makeing his own life desisions.
In trad con days a Man brought stability to a Family. But Men are not allowed to be Men anymore. Hensforth you have unstability. A world full of it.

[Anonymous 16]

First that teacher is in denial. If he accept that marriage is a bad business then he will have to admit he f~~~ed up big time.
He dont have the b~~~~ to do what his philander friend is doing. HE IS A PROUD SLAVE.

I was married. Since i was 10 i didnt wanted kids. But not becouse they are a problem to me. Its becouse i see no future.
Does any of the guys in here with kids want to see his kid as an slave, heart broken, divorce raped, socially as a second class piece of trash?
I cant guarantee a future for my descendants becouse our society if f~~~ed up.
And yes its my duty, becouse is my responsability, i didnt wanted to come to this world, my parents decided to start f~~~ing and bring me here. NO ONE ASKED, OR TOLD ME BEFORE HAND.
I dont want to have a kid, and some years in the future have to listen to him say the same s~~~.

Venom, smile and agree with teacher. Ohh your teacher is a total f~~~ up. and his son… a f~~~ing psycho, but if he admit that it will means he screwed up.

Good luck and hold your guns brother.

[Anonymous 54]

You poor professor is stuck in lala land. Still dreaming of the white picett fence.Mabey hell wake up eventually.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22555]

Men Need Marriage For Stability and Order (of the wife)

You left out that last part.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

Women need marriage (men) for stability and order. That however, is not my concern.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[Lone Wolf83Participant 825]

I have order and stability being on my own.

If it has tits or tires, you know you're going to have problems.

[narwhalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

The moral of the story is this, why would a man who has seen how devastating a marriage can be, still promote it. He told us a story of a friend of his, who had a long term relationship with a woman, and she cheated on him. From then on, all his relationships with women were strictly sexual, no love, just sex. And i’m thinking to myself, “Man, he found a red pill i see”. And my professor said, that it was wrong to never love again.

Why is this wrong? Why does he assume a man who refuse to let a woman betray him is incapable of love?

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 6]

narwhal wrote:

Venom wrote:

The moral of the story is this, why would a man who has seen how devastating a marriage can be, still promote it. He told us a story of a friend of his, who had a long term relationship with a woman, and she cheated on him. From then on, all his relationships with women were strictly sexual, no love, just sex. And i’m thinking to myself, “Man, he found a red pill i see”. And my professor said, that it was wrong to never love again.

Why is this wrong? Why does he assume a man who refuse to let a woman betray him is incapable of love?

Because it defies the human condition. It’s supposed to be human nature to love and love some more. And men need a woman to help balance them out. Atleast that’s what i got from the lecture. It’s confusing i know.

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

Anonymous wrote:

The moral of the story is this, why would a man who has seen how devastating a marriage can be, still promote it

Because not all can accept truth as it is. Changing your views later in life imlies a lot of red pill rage, something most of us here are all too aware. He might be one of those people that are always right, to the f~~~ing blue pill grave.

Was thinking earlier today, since most of mgtow has to be by definition introverts, … this guy could simply be extroverted. Which would then imply that he gets his kicks from social acceptance, something which is boom, … gone, .. the second red pill rage takes over. Mind is a funny thing and to me it looks he will stay blue pill simp.

Anonymous wrote:

You would feel despair and a feeling of not accomplishing a life goal”.

As for sense of accomplishemnt, no way. Sense of accomplishment comes from tangible achievements, not from the goodwill of some random vagina. And woman in your life is anything but stability. If anything in best case scenario you give her stability at the expense of portion of your own peace of mind.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

My thoughts, I have a great career, no debt, own property, a decent income and I need stability? All my friends who are single are in the same boat. Your Professor can’t admit the system is a failure. To quote the bald headed kid in the Matrix (but my way), “Don’t try to get the female to love you that’s impossible. Instead, try to realize the truth. There is no female love. Only opportunistic and Hypergamous wenches. Then you will see they do not love you. You can only love you.”

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

Never trust a naked tailor.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Remember the only person married on Mayberry RFD was Otis, and he was the town drunk.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[TuneoutParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

So i’m in an Educational Psychology class in graduate school and the topic of discussion was human stages of development. And my professor agreed with the subject matter that everyone should get married, so you can have balance, order and stability. Now let me give you a brief history of my professor. His wife, also a teacher, slept with a colleague, a parent and one other outside guy. She frequently dates drug addicts and even had a shoot-out in her home while her son was present. My professor took his son to a 4th of July fireworks show, and his son cried because the fireworks sounded like the gunshots he heard at home. They got a divorce awhile ago, and now she wants full custody of the boy. The boy hates his father. The father has to barricade himself in his room at night due to the fear of the child coming into the room at night. And now the boy accused the man of child abuse.

He sounds like the ultimate cuck-mangina,does he actually confide all this s~~~ to you or is it just
the walls having ears,cause every teach I’ve ever had
was pretty private.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[,Participant 1301]

Anonymous wrote:

So… What do you guys think??

So rewrite this/ Cut some s~~~/ Make consistent conclusions

Turn it in and NEVER attend the class again.

with joy/without hate

[AwakenedParticipant 35203]

Anonymous wrote:

What do you guys think??

I think that you should ignore the “theories” that are being presented to you, but do what you must do to pass the course to move on with your degree. I have studied plenty of content in completing degrees that I knew was a complete waste of time, but I just considered it jumping through yet another hoop. That’s all that this crap is.

Your professor is f~~~ed, and he’s lost in the Matrix. Don’t take him seriously, as you can tell he has nothing beneficial to offer.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 6]

Tuneout wrote:

Venom wrote:

So i’m in an Educational Psychology class in graduate school and the topic of discussion was human stages of development. And my professor agreed with the subject matter that everyone should get married, so you can have balance, order and stability. Now let me give you a brief history of my professor. His wife, also a teacher, slept with a colleague, a parent and one other outside guy. She frequently dates drug addicts and even had a shoot-out in her home while her son was present. My professor took his son to a 4th of July fireworks show, and his son cried because the fireworks sounded like the gunshots he heard at home. They got a divorce awhile ago, and now she wants full custody of the boy. The boy hates his father. The father has to barricade himself in his room at night due to the fear of the child coming into the room at night. And now the boy accused the man of child abuse.

He sounds like the ultimate cuck-mangina,does he actually confide all this s~~~ to you or is it just
the walls having ears,cause every teach I’ve ever had
was pretty private.

He actually told us this stuff on the first day of class. Everything I wrote is directly from his mouth. Crazy s~~~ my brother

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

(Wo)men Need Marriage For Stability and Order

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 54]

Anonymous wrote:

narwhal wrote:

Venom wrote:

The moral of the story is this, why would a man who has seen how devastating a marriage can be, still promote it. He told us a story of a friend of his, who had a long term relationship with a woman, and she cheated on him. From then on, all his relationships with women were strictly sexual, no love, just sex. And i’m thinking to myself, “Man, he found a red pill i see”. And my professor said, that it was wrong to never love again.

Why is this wrong? Why does he assume a man who refuse to let a woman betray him is incapable of love?

Because it defies the human condition. It’s supposed to be human nature to love and love some more. And men need a woman to help balance them out. Atleast that’s what i got from the lecture. It’s confusing i know.

Its not womens nature to love us back, is the part he miscaculated.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Sometimes, I have to shake my head at what some people believe represents stability and order.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/stability
Unless they mean the ability to endure bulls~~~
No irony that my “original condition” was single

In my experiences with marriage, stability and order only meant that the kitchen table didn’t wobble and listening to both ex wives try to bark orders.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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