MEN LONELY??

[OgreParticipant 5863]

nick123 wrote:

“sounds lonely”

It sounds like your friends fell for the social programming that tells men that a woman will complete them, and keep them from being lonely.

@uchibenkei nailed it above. Unless you feel loss or NEED companionship then it’s perfectly normal to not have anybody else around. Maybe in the caveman days a group was necessary, so that the men could hunt and the women could raise children and forage for other food in case the hunt failed.

Unless YOU put value on the in person companionship of others you never have to be lonely. It sounds like your friends made it through a considerable portion of their adult lives and then settled for used up single mothers that somebody else had already turned out or lost to her dick hopping (inconsistent) ways.

Regardless, if you are happy and this site fulfills your need for interaction then it’s enough.

Some men will suffer in silence and recommend the same chains that they wear,just so that they don’t feel so “lonely” in their exasperation.

I’d love the Robin Williams quote, “I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It’s not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone.”, but I have to disagree on a point. I think that even worse than that is to never be left alone, in silence, when that’s really the only thing that you want. Your friends have chosen to give up freedom for the chatter of women and children that aren’t theirs, just to fill an empty space they recognized due to societal programming of how men should be and what they should do.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[WarratahParticipant 895]

Lonely? Ha! Try being married to a BPD/NPD…
Before you realise, you find yourself alienated from family, friends, church, neighbours and even your children are turned against you and are being used as spies to report your every move to their mother.
You want to know what loneliness is? Loneliness is having a house full of children, a woman you think you love yet telling your troubles to a horse because there is no one else to talk to.
And when your eyes do eventually open and you realise where you are, that’s when hate and anger erupt.
Anger is good, it’s a flame that burns the dross away and leaves you ready to start afresh.
I can well understand loneliness and anger. If they don’t destroy you, eventually they pass.

...And in our own despair, against our will, Comes wisdom to us by the awful grace of God. - Agamemnon; by Aeschylus

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

nick123 wrote:

These 2 guys have both married divorced mothers, one with 3 kids and the other with 1 unruly child. One of these women is a landwhale and the other is plump.

And, just what don’t you find attractive about these situations ? Are you maybe jealous of your mates ?

nick123 wrote:

f~~~ing landwhale with an unruly 13 year old boy who im not allowed to discipline for fear of hurting his character rubbish, the mother is a counselor lol, additionally she creates unnecessary drama and seems to not respect my mate.

And, why can’t you picture yourself with such a loving “soul mate” ?

nick123 wrote:

its a struggle trying to shed that mindset but i just take a look around me at the all the dysfunctional

Just ask yourself the above questions when you start reverting to your blue pill ways.

Yes, the Red Pill is seeping into your being, but its not an automatic fix. Society has MANipulated and brainwashed you for many, many years. So, it will take some time and effort on your part, but the transformation from blue to red is done all day every day here.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 43]

Horse is far better company than woman. Horse will keep your secrets. Horse knows the hand who feeds it.

[nick123Participant 137]

blade wrote:

Sorry dude for thinking you where tuna.

no problem. not sure what you mean by tuna though lol?

[nick123Participant 137]

@awakened. mate there is nothing i find attractive about my mates situation, they are lumbered with raising a strangers kids that they can not disipline, women who are fat and one of the women is a true landwhale and has an attitude to boot….and she is a counsellor, f~~~ me! jealous? hmmm what do you think?

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Lonely?

I took up climbing to get the f~~~ away from people.

There are no people up there. No cell phones. No office demands. Up there it’s just you and the mountain.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

nick123 wrote:

@awakened. mate there is nothing i find attractive about my mates situation, they are lumbered with raising a strangers kids that they can not disipline, women who are fat and one of the women is a true landwhale and has an attitude to boot….and she is a counsellor, f~~~ me! jealous? hmmm what do you think?

@nikko11 My intention is not what you perceived it to be.

I was being sarcastic. Also, I was trying to make the point that you are not missing out on anything. Use your friends lives as a frame of reference when “you’re trying to shed the mindset”. I assumed you were referring to shed the blue pill mindset etc.

Awakened wrote:

Just ask yourself the above questions when you start reverting to your blue pill ways.

When you ask yourself if you’re jealous etc. Obviously you’ll answer them with the conclusion that your life is much better then that of your mates. This should help break your blue pill mind set. Get it, Got it, Good….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[nick123Participant 137]

Awakened wrote:

nickko11 wrote:

@awakened. mate there is nothing i find attractive about my mates situation, they are lumbered with raising a strangers kids that they can not disipline, women who are fat and one of the women is a true landwhale and has an attitude to boot….and she is a counsellor, f~~~ me! jealous? hmmm what do you think?

@nikko11 My intention is not what you perceived it to be.

I was being sarcastic. Also, I was trying to make the point that you are not missing out on anything. Use your friends lives as a frame of reference when “you’re trying to shed the mindset”. I assumed you were referring to shed the blue pill mindset etc.

Awakened wrote:

Just ask yourself the above questions when you start reverting to your blue pill ways.

When you ask yourself if you’re jealous etc. Obviously you’ll answer them with the conclusion that your life is much better then that of your mates. This should help break your blue pill mind set. Get it, Got it, Good….

Yes youre right. That is what i do. I look at my friend and his second marriage and smile inside.whats the saying?? One marriage…a mistake…..second marriage…an addiction..3rd marriage..????

[KimmurielParticipant 480]

“Misery loves company” and solitude is a coat best worn by men.

"You meet a few exceedingly forsaken, Sit around the cooler refusing domestication" Aesop Rock

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

nick123 wrote:

3rd marriage..????

I would have to say 3rd marriage is mental retardation, but I think that will work for 2nd marriage as well !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

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