Men don't report domestic abuse for fear of getting arrested

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

I found this article and it states research shows male victims of domestic abuse are failing to report attacks for fear of being arrested themselves. Here’s the article:

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/crime/12061547/How-male-victims-of-domestic-abuse-often-end-up-getting-arrested-themselves.html

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[Anonymous 42]

Absolutely true! I’m not even a victim of domestic abuse and I’m afraid of all the legal snares modern women so naturally create! (f~~~ing porcupines).

They’re worse than a bone stuck on your throat, they’re like swallowing a whole box of fish hooks!

I want nothing to do with the law and women, they’re one in the same, and they both totally suck!

I learned not to involve the police in any aspect of my life, I learned by others example to look the other way and LTMFB!

My only civic duty at this point is to take good care of myself and f~~~ everything else!

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

Exactly! I was juror last year … woman started it but man was on trial for (what turned out to be) defending himself during brouhaha. She claimed to also be bi-polar (don’t they all). He was accused of assault for holding her while she had full blown tantrum .. including throwing cell phone which hit him in head. She also broke a lamp. Of course she had several red bruises on wrists shown in photos .. as he tried to restrain her while she flailed and tore up the place. Neighbor made the call because of noise and guy was charged. We found him – not guilty – of the charges that were brought against him.

[The_YoungParticipant 1073]

F~~~ this s~~~.

Brother, we need to stick together.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

True. Men are automatically assumed guilty if the police show up. Even if he hasn’t raised a hand to the woman, and is covered in bruises, he get’s taken away. So much for male privilege.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

hmskl’d wrote:

He was accused of assault for holding her while she had full blown tantrum .. including throwing cell phone which hit him in head. She also broke a lamp.

Isn’t that what Johnny Depp allegedly did? Threw a phone?

Women throws phone, man gets charged.

Man throws phone, woman gets everything.

Glad justice prevailed in the case you jurored.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Well that is understandable. In any domestic violence case the woman’s word carries more weight than a man’s. Strange that we keep hearing about equality but it never seems like equality.

The bigger picture of this is not just being arrested. It is also the impact your arrest will have on the rest of your life. We are talking about being fired from your job. To compound this as long as that arrest stays on your record you are destined to never be able to hold down a good job or not even get considered for one because of this s~~~ on your record.

Go MGTOW my brothers, no c~~~ is worth destroying your life and freedom over.

[Anonymous 54]

It is a seriously bad risk to be involved with women any more.I hate the silver braclets.

[HitmanParticipant]

Yes, my brother’s. .you are male, you go to jail.
Jail sucks.
Stay away from crazy.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

We all know the answer to this problem …. and it starts with a cycle of left foot then right.

It is the only way out because nobody gives a s~~~.

Our door is always open.

[Anonymous 3]

Thanks for finding the article!

I don’t know from where they get this number of more than 700 000 men. But for sure, in the situation, when a female beats up a man, there are no witnesses, and she just might tell the opposite and that it was self defense, and use pussy pass out-of-the-jail card. It is always an unwinnable situation, and her vs his words, when there is no witness or camera record or whatever. Relationships are typically not full on video.

By the way, if a female holds a big heavy thing like a baseball bat or rolling pin, or a big knife or a gun, that moment it does not really matter who is bigger. AND it may be necessary for self defense to counterattack, and take away the knife. And even if you just run out of the house without touching her, she could tell the opposite.

So, the safest thing is to:
-not let any female into your house, office, car, or any area you somehow control.
-If you really must let them in, have video surveillance WITH audio record of who said what. “Forget” your camera switched on on the shelf, at least, and cover the red light with tape.(preferably something with wide angle lens)
-on the phone, set it to automatic call recording. I’m doing that for years, and it does not need big space, like 100 MB/year for me but I don’t talk much. ( if you get 32 GB SD card into the phone, a whole map of Europe, a lot of music and a few cute porn pictures, lot of photos and a lot of call records are not enough to fill half of it.)

[Anonymous 3]

Anonymous wrote:

I want nothing to do with the law and women,

Anonymous wrote:

I learned not to involve the police in any aspect of my life,

Truth has been spoken!

hmskl’d wrote:

Neighbor made the call because of noise and guy was charged.

So if I listen some porn without headphones and the girl is moaning and I accidentally toss something to the ground meanwhile, I could expect the neighbor calling the police due to noise, and I have to explain what happened and prove there are and were no women in the flat at all? What a weird world.

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

I’ve always known that male victims of domestic violence are a lot more common than people think. The other reason why those stories go unreported is because of the embarrassment of the victims.

I mean men are raised being taught that they’re pathetic if they can’t handle their women, so if they get assaulted, who the hell are they gonna tell? People either don’t believe them or they just laugh. Then they go on believing that male victims are not that common.

And when a woman in the States once tried to address the number of male abuse victims at a rally, she just ended up getting booed offstage by a column of feminists in the front row. Go equality!

Remember that movie Monster with Charlize Theron, about serial killer Aileen Wournous? There were many things that that movie didn’t mention. And one of them was that, yes, Aileen had suffered a lot of abuse throughout her life – but she was also briefly married at one stage, a union that was short-lived because she’d taken to hitting her husband with his cane.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[AttonParticipant]

This puts the s~~~ into relations~~~s.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

I had a girl some years back that had serious manic depression with random “breaks” where for no particular reason (or a made up one) she would act out and do something nuts like demand that I stop the car and then walk off into the Utah/New Mexico desert – many many miles from the nearest other person, water, etc.

Anyway, when I finally had enough (remember this was serious blue pill days for me), and told her I was leaving, she immediately called the suicide hotline for advice.

When I started to grab my stuff and go, she grabbed me, slammed me up against the wall and screamed ” YOU’RE. NOT. LEAVING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!” Then she threw some stuff around (possibly at me – don’t recall) and basically left me terrified that there might be a knife or other sharp object within reach.

I had to talk her down like she was a kid (she was in her mid twenties chronologically) and reassure her that I just needed a little breathing room and time to think, etc etc etc whateverthef~~~ I had to to GTFO.

I left and never came back. I didn’t dare call the police, even though by every definition, if it was me behaving the way she did I would be guilty of multiple felonies.

I knew too well from watching her deal with authority figures that she knew how to manipulate and do it well.

I just want to know – where’s my advocacy group? I thought we’re supposed to be equal in all things – isn’t it just as bad a crime when it happens to a man then?

That’s really truly traumatic part – the fact that my government, country, and people have such low regard for my rights that I could actually be charged with a crime for reporting one committed against me.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

This one sort of happening is more than enough reason as to why women are unfit for companionship.

There’s a special place in hell for these type of people.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Biggvs_Dickvs wrote:

I just want to know – where’s my advocacy group? I thought we’re supposed to be equal in all things – isn’t it just as bad a crime when it happens to a man then?

“Where is your advocacy group?” You are looking at it.

“I thought we’re supposed to be equal in all things….” – That is the feel good message of feminism. The reality is nowhere close to the definition of feminism.

“….isn’t it just as bad a crime when it happens to a man then?” – Well it is but society has devalued the life of men and have deemed that women are the sex that needs protection. Kind of strange when you hear all about the “patriarchy” and how they are keeping women down when in reality men are the one’s serving as cannon fodder.

[Anonymous 0]

I can say from my own experience that this is true. I never reported anything because 1.) no one would believe me.
2.) no proof therefore conjecture.
3.) no one gives a s~~~ about men.
4.) law only applies to men and not women.
5.) see first 4 then finger yourself… for once it wont be the system f~~~ing you in the ass.

Yeah laws exist to serve the masters. Us peons arent worth s~~~ in their eyes.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

What happens when c~~~s get their way, complete waste of time.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[BalthazarParticipant 722]

a friend recently told me a story about a mutual acquaintance that fits right in with this narrative. guy has psycho ex girlfriend. psycho ex girlfriend comes over to guys house on a night he has a new lady over. psycho ex girlfriend becomes physically violent. new lady calls cops. cops, upon arrival, immediately assail guy and prepare to haul him off until new lady explains that it was she that called them and it was psycho ex that caused all of the trouble in the first place. at least it worked out that the responsible party was held accountable but not until after the fact of this guy getting his face planted into the floor.

This body holding me is a reminder of my own mortality. Embrace this moment. Remember, we are eternal and all this pain is an illusion.

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