Men – Being with a woman is Loneliness more than anything

[freedomParticipant 5129]

I hear it constantly, people telling me “it’s not better for a man to be alone” really?!

when you become a psychiatrist of a woman, like most men are, you feel the most lonely person alive, she eats your time with friends and love ones, to whine about her stupid s~~~.
You loose your identity and independence, you can no longer talk in a certain way, you can’t like certain things, you are just not a part of anything anymore.

You tell me this is not loneliness, Damn it is, I have a friend as young as I am, he is 32 and he looks 50 after divorce and child support, he also acts old because he is probably half dead. You tell me this is not loneliness?!

[foolsgoldParticipant 5655]

You are even more alone when she takes out her smart phone while she is with you. Relationships are dead. Mgtow is the cure. Not only is it the right answer. It’s the ONLY answer.

[StealthParticipant 5347]

Also, society treats you differently when you are married. I found it more difficult to make friends in my 20’s as a married male.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 43]

I couldn’t talk to the c~~~ about politics, economics, chess, bike racing, stained glass windows, cars, lego, landscaping, pool chemistry, painting, art, classic literature, science, philosophy, language, writing, or general house maintenance, aircraft, boats, video games, attributes of good marriages, tool usage, car maintenance, religious differences, film noir, spaghetti westerns, firearms, house design or architecture, history or societal changes over time, the advantages of a 4.11:1 vs 3.73:1 rear diff ratios

umm about she could talk about was what a f~~~ up I was that day for doing laundry first, then dishes or how she thought I was cheating on her, or spending her money inefficiently. or maybe I was supposed to vacuum first. no vacuum while the washing machine and dishwasher were both running at the same time. and fold towels a certain way…all the minute details of her sister’s friends sordid lives. oh the bachelor tv show, and the slutty behavior of the contestants. she knew everything about cell phones, cake decorating, excel, and where to get baskets, candles and paper.

[wyrParticipant 591]

This is true. I’ve never felt more alone than when I was in bed, inches away from my first wife.

Self-improvement is my religion. Sovereignty is my god.

[Anonymous 12]

I agree. Any time I have ever opened up to a woman about my feelings or fears or anything else I have regretted it. Better off being alone.

[joetechParticipant]

After 13 years of being shut out of conversations because the subject matter was wrong, I’m enjoying connecting with people once again. Women are poison.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[TwistParticipant]

wyr wrote:

This is true. I’ve never felt more alone than when I was in bed, inches away from my first wife.

The old “edge clinger”?

Nothing like that to warm the soul.

[bladeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

how she thought I was cheating on her,

I can translate that

Her … I am about to f~~~ around on you and this justifies it .

Its an oldy but a goody .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

The first time I came here, to mgtow.com, was when I was ‘searching for answers online’.

The search results included “Comments From Married Men”, on this site.

Crickey!……I’ve never laughed so much, it was THAT thread, that made me investigate mgtow.com, further.

There was a comment on there, how a man stated that he came to realise that the most lonely people he knew, were MARRIED MEN.

Now that was/is a major red-pill to swallow, and you know what Fellas……it is 100% true.

Get married and prove me wrong, I dare ya!!

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

I concur.

If i want to be lonely, ill find a girlfriend.

Not interested to do so.

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Bigvern wrote:

The first time I came here, to mgtow.com, was when I was ‘searching for answers online’.

The search results included “Comments From Married Men”, on this site.

Crickey!……I’ve never laughed so much, it was THAT thread, that made me investigate mgtow.com, further.

EXACTLY the same for me!

[MagpulParticipant 59]

When I was in my last relations~~~ anytime I would bring up something I wanted to do I was met with resistance and criticism. It was all about her, every damn thing. Anytime I would bring up something of a thought provoking manner she would be overcome with anxiety and withdraw. She could not handle anything that did not fit into her little skewed world bubble.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5106]

Simply put: women are dream killers.

Even if they don’t proactively try to shut down your hobbies and friends, it happens via proxy when they reel you in to the Marriage-> Children-> House-> Debt plantation system… you end up broke and over scheduled.

Sovereignty above all else.

[Anonymous 13]

The final years of my marriage were the most miserable, f~~~ing lonely years of my life.

I never have to have the displeasure of EVER going through that s~~~ again.

F~~~ that noise.

Peace and Well Being now PREVAIL.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I would concur with being married is being lonely.

What I am now is I think I am different than most people, married OR MGTOW. I AM an island. I have no problems spending hours alone in my garden, or hours playing computer games. The world of people seems very remote; I think understand how Bran (as the 3-eyed raven) feels on Game of Thrones. There is no emotional investment since there are no emotions, it is simply abstract – things that need to be done or not to be done.

I think it goes back to not long before the ex left, perhaps February 2016, when I knew her leaving was a certainty. I started training myself to have no emotions. I’ve pretty much succeeded. About the only emotion I have left is a sense of humor. I’ve found that even petty annoyances no longer p~~~ me off.

For example, I was playing a strategy game, and the Chinese used a human wave assault to overwhelm a city I had just conquered and I cursed under my breath, and then I realized that I actually didn’t FEEL annoyed, it was only a previously conditioned response from back when I USED to get annoyed by that sort of thing.

I have a gf who says she loves me, but I actually feel nothing emotionally, even during sex. She had interests prior to meeting me, that intersect with mine, for example science, gardening, hiking and model trains, among others. I don’t have too many guy friends, certainly none that are close, so she is kind of like a guy buddy except one that I can have sex with.

My philosophy is that love is not an emotion, it is a choice. Falling in love is not love, it is just hormones and bulls~~~, and it always goes away.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 42]

It’s always LONELY being the ONLY ONE in a relations~~~!

F~~~ THAT ANCHOR OF ENDLESS MISERY!

I can’t believe how strongly I feel about ^^^^that even after 20 years later spitting that bitter nasty taste from my mouth!

Modern women have a flavor ALL THEIR OWN and it’s NOT GOOD!

I’d rather get beat to death with a baseball bat than ever taste that nasty vile bitter flavor again!

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[John Woods 13Participant 2855]

Dashing Young Dissident wrote:

Bigvern wrote:

The first time I came here, to mgtow.com, was when I was ‘searching for answers online’.

The search results included “Comments From Married Men”, on this site.

Crickey!……I’ve never laughed so much, it was THAT thread, that made me investigate mgtow.com, further.

EXACTLY the same for me!

Me too.

The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

[Remove me!Participant]

This post can’t be more true. I was more alone when I was married. I was isolated and didn’t even have myself. 5 years ago, my divorce last a little more than a year. But now I am physically alone, but my world is so much more rich. I saw a pic of me back right after my divorce. I had lost so much weight, I was pale. Now I’ve got more muscle than I ever have my whole life, and….. Oh wait, tonight is Friday night?
I think I’m gonna plug in MY iPad into MY SPEAKERS into MY OFFICE and blare MY MUSIC as long and late I want to.

I still lost a bit of my soul during the divorce, but who doesn’t lose something in war. What I’ve gained is so much better. Plus I’ve gotten closer to the Lord, something she was pulling me away from. Women change and cannot be trusted 100%. But the Lord has and will always be the same. Plus His demands are nothing near the demands a woman would make on me.
In God We Trust, All Others Pay Cash!

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

wyr wrote:

This is true. I’ve never felt more alone than when I was in bed, inches away from my first wife.

This….+1000

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