Men Are Insecure & Jealous

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I want to give as brief of a synopsis, as to what turns me off to women in todays society, and I would like to hear others replies.

We  are all our aware of three basic principles in our current society:

1. Women dress like whores.

2. Women sleep around and are ENCOURAGED to do so.

3. It is MUCH, MUCH easier for women to have sex than men. Men are VISUALLY stimulated, women are not so much. As such THEY have more control over their libido.

My point is this: given the conditions of todays society,

I dont trust women,

They have been given carte blanche every opportunity to sleep around, cheat, move up in the dating scheme all because it is now acceptable to dress and act like a whore.

Here is the kicker:

If a man acts and responds LOGICALLY to this, you are considered JEALOUS and PSYCHO. Which makes a man feel “insecure”. Which by societies standards is the LOWEST place a man can feel.

I know Im preaching to the choir here, but DAMN it is so true. Its SUCH BS when you recognize it for what it is. Why would I want to invest in ANY girl who dresses like a whore (todays standard of “cute”) all the while knowing shes flaunting her sexuality, getting prompted by multiple men daily. If I have a concern about it Im “jealous” or “insecure” and not WORTHY of a relarionship with her.

I DONT WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL THAT DRESSES LIKE A WHORE…

QUESTION: doesnt that bother you guys? Why is it ok for her to dress like a whore, commanding every mans sexual appetite, if she is in a relationship with me? And if I notice, than Im some jealous prick. As though they dont know what their doing.

This is the s~~~ that makes me not even want to deal with relationships

 

 

Resident cynic.

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Ive been told by every girl i had a relationship with that im Jealous and insecure and dont trust them..all the blame on me.

They all had loads of male “friends” that they hung out with and chatted with. Attention whores the bunch of them. As a man im not ok with them hanging out with a bunch of dudes. I was of course right, the worst whore i dated double teamed two of her male friends after a party.

F~~~ that s~~~.

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5640]

They want us to feel “insecure and jealous”. That’s how they gain control. They hate it when you make it clear that you don’t give a f~~~ one way or the other. I stopped dating for many reasons. All of them have been listed in this forum. They use all their childish tactics for one reason- CONTROL. Don’t even give them the satisfaction. It’s a rigged game that I refuse to play. We all should know that by now.

 

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

It’s a rigged game that I refuse to play. We all should know that by now.

Entirely agree. Im a couple glasses deep in red vino now, so Im waxing philosophical and passionate.

Notwithstanding, if I had to pin point ONE culprit as to why I dont want a relationship with a girl today, THAT IS IT, namely:

act upon the one aspect you know a man is the most helpless (visual stimulation via dressing 90% naked) THEN act as though your some innocent school girl, and the guy who cares about you is some psycho, insecure, jealous freak.

There have been many threads on this site regarding why men turned agaisnt traditional views.

THIS. IS. MINE.

This is one of my biggest reasons. You cant dress like a whore, play the choir girl, then call me a jealous freak.

Footnote: Im not CURRENTLY going through this. Just expressing one of my most significant concerns.

OF COURSE I DONT TRUST YOU. YOURE DRESSED HALF NAKED. MEN ARE VISUALLY STIMULATED. DONT TELL ME IM JEALOUS AND INSECURE.

YOU LIKE ME?

Then.

Dont.

Dress.

Like.

A

Slut.

Resident cynic.

[Anonymous 11]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Why is it ok for her to dress like a whore, commanding every mans sexual appetite, if she is in a relationship with me?

We know what it means. She’s either trolling for our replacement or attention whoring either of which is disrespectful. I would never treat someone I supposedly care about in such a manner.

As for myself, I am not the jealous type. I figure if they are going to f~~~ another dude they will. Nothing I say or do will stop it. I’m gone with the wind if she does as I’m no cuckold. I’ve also gotten in trouble when they try to make me act jealous to prove my devotion. WTF hamster crap???

I’m very secure in myself. I own my house free and clear. I have a few assets here and there. I irregularly make decent amounts of money which I manage until the next financial monsoon. I’m even in great physical shape for a 48 year old man. In fact, I have a younger wild and crazy bar acquaintance who just turned 21 two days after I flipped over to 48 ask me my age last night. She always thought I was in my mid-thirties.

I will never feel secure in any relationship with a woman. All it takes is:

1) The old flame Ex- Check
2) Trade up to rich guy – Check
3) Move on to a violent abuser – Check
4) Felon – Has not happened to me yet
5) Go carpet muncher – Has not happened to me yet
6) Bat s~~~ crazy – Check

A rational man cannot ever feel secure with any modern woman.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

We know what it means. She’s either trolling for our replacement or attention whoring either of which is disrespectful.

Thanks for the reply CP, I read the entire post, but with respect to the above:

Thats precisely my point:

ALL girls/women dress like complete whores now days. So a simple trip to the grocery store, becomes a c~~~ fest convention because the way girls dress SCREAMS sex today.

Im not sure if my point is falling upon deaf ears here, or if Im not doing a good job of articulating the concept.

The concept is:

Girls dress like complete sluts.

Dude in a relationship gets rightly concerned.

Girl accuses him of being jealous or insecure.

IM NOT COOL WITH THAT.

I cant waste my emotional investment in a girl who is going to play THAT type of game, namely:

“Oh, my t~~~ and ass are hanging out….YOU LOVE ME, AND YOUR CONCERNED?

Whats the problem?”

CP, I know you get this. Its not directed towards you. Just curious if others have thought this.

This is definitely what has p~~~ed me off with girls.

My point is:

Girls today dressing like complete whores, cannot REASONABLY expect the men who care about them to respect and trust them.

Women cant have it BOTH ways:

“Men are visual pigs, and are horny”

AND

“Im half naked, even though I have a bf, because this outfit is CUTE”.

 

No.

Whats worse is them telling their boyfriends they are JEALOUS or INSECURE.

Women cant have it both ways.

 

 

Resident cynic.

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Thank you for putting words on my thoughts man, these bitches want som much attention..how can manage it all? Then they have the f~~~ing attitude that men is the problem?

-Eeee this creep looked at me at the gym!      Suprise bitch! If you dress like a f~~~ing whore at the gym dudes will look at you.

 

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[Anonymous 11]

Your’re dead on target AW.

That one I went out with this past weekend does not dress like that in fact quite the opposite. Would I ever feel secure in a relationship with someone like her? No, witness points 1 through 6 plus whatever/whoever else I don’t know about.

I don’t f~~~ing trust women, because the vast majority are the way you described including my little 21 year old bar buddy. I felt sorry for her boyfriend last night. I don’t know if he knows that she swings both ways, yet. Plus, she was full body hugging and flirting with every guy in there. He was very jealous too as he was giving me the stink eye.

I tried to snap a picture of a scantily clad nasty land whale I saw waddling into my neighborhood as I was leaving, but I couldn’t due to the traffic signal changing. She was dressed like a total street hooker too. I wanted to post it here.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

When my ex wife was dressing up as a slut I didn’t know how to act. So I rationalized it that she craves attention and that’s not a big deal as long as she doesn’t act on it. I told her we should agree on “look but don’t touch” rule where she wouldn’t get jealous at me for looking at porn or other women as long as I don’t put my hands on them, and she would do likewise. It was awkward, but it worked for as long as it did. People were puzzled a little why would we go to a club together but she would dress up like a go-go dancer. But by then I already understood one thing – it doesn’t matter the dress code or other rules you try to impose on her – I have no control regardless. If she wants to cheat – she will, if she wants to upgrade – she will, and there is nothing I could do or say to prevent her from doing that. So the hopelessness of the situation gradually sank in.
I guess I liked the part where every time we would go out, I would bring home this hot chick, that everyone was hitting on, but she went home with me, and f~~~ her brains out, but the slutty attention crave from her part made me feel insecure and hopeless. But I thought this is natural for all women, so it was OK as long as she wouldn’t act on it.

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[Anonymous 1]

Men have never been able to trust women no matter what the conditions

[Anonymous 11]

Anonymous wrote:

Men have never been able to trust women no matter what the conditions

Very true. However, it’s way worse now due to general cultural deterioration. Women have been this way since time began, but when no one woman is held accountable for anything everything swirls down the toilet bowl.

Women born 90 years ago are horrified by the things that are happening today. There were sluts back then, but they were shamed and shunned.

[Anonymous 25]

A woman is free to choose to dress how she wants.

But I am free to choose whether I want to be with someone who dresses like that.

It’s their problem not mine. Same logic applies to any behaviour.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Ancientwisdom wrote:

As though they dont know what their doing.

Yeah totally, like they don’t see it when some dude hits on them.
LMAO.
Then they’ll cheat and call it an “accident”.

Like dicks appear out of thin air.
Joke of the century right there

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[RedDawnParticipant 1391]

It’s all about control and attention. The reality is women are insecure and jealous of men if they as much as bat an eye at another woman. Look at Slutwalk for example, they do what they do because they’re all ugly, so they have to take drastic measures and walk down the street as a scantily dressed mob to get attention.

Courage is the key to life itself - Morgan Freeman

[Anonymous 3]

My problem is less with women and far more with the government and media. Get those two cretins out of my life, and women are easy to handle for any masculine man. But the state is too strong and the media too manipulative for me to possibly overcome on my own.

As such, I opt out, and have essentially said sayonara to both.

[Anonymous 29]

Yes I admit I’m insecure for fear of dropping  my last bottle when I’m s~~~ faced drunk and  jealous  when my dog  liks  his b~~~~ and I cant.

 

 

 

 

S~~~. . . . sorry, didn’t realise it was about women . . . .sort of.

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