Memo in alimony / spousal maintenance checks

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

A acquaintance of mine who lives in Cali was talking to me about his ex-wife. He tells me he writes in the memo field:

Payment for prior use of ex-wife’s vagina or
Payment for prior use of ex-wife’s mouth or
Payment for prior use of ex-wife’s butt

I was surprised this was legal, but nonetheless, I thought that was hysterical. Just thought that would be something interesting and worth a share.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

LOL. If I paid alimony, I would do that.

Payment for prior use of ex-wife’s butt: That only occurred twice in 11 years.

Payment for prior use of ex-wife’s mouth: That only occurred 4 times in 11 years.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Ranger One wrote:

LOL. If I paid alimony, I would do that.

Payment for prior use of ex-wife’s butt: That only occurred twice in 11 years.

Payment for prior use of ex-wife’s mouth: That only occurred 4 times in 11 years.

I’d drain the bitch in legal mumble jumble before I’d give her one red cent. No experience with anal. However, I’ve always insisted with oral. 🙂

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

“for sexual services provided” – let the “ex-wife” part out. Indicates to anyone taking a look at her account she is getting a payment for what she is good at. To include “ex-wife” still leaves an impression of an “honorable” woman.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[Anonymous 1]

Okay, I’m going to be the killjoy here, sorry in advance.

Brothers, believe me, I know the pain you’re enduring…I write 3 checks per month, totaling about $2500.

I know there will be arguments that it’s free speech and all that, HOWEVER…

I would avoid the temptation to play around with a court-ordered payment. There are examples where the check jester had to appear before a judge (most cases seem to be for checks written TO THE COURT, for traffic fines, etc.), but I would put any court-ordered check in the same light. You don’t want the ex to get any additional satisfaction by screwing you even more.

I simply write “Court Ordered Spousal Support” on the memo line.
Who knows, you might need to show it to the IRS one day when you try to make the deduction.

[Ronin11Participant 208]

When you write something clever in the memo column, you care about her. Because it took effort to write something other than spousal support. Remember no f~~~s given.

I read an interesting article it said you really can only care for a limited amount of things in your life. Make sure the things you care about are worth it. I find this dovetails nicely with no f~~~s given.

There are no good women only degrees of bad.

[CombatRollParticipant 2594]

I overheard some women talking about one of their own and giggling that one of them’s Ex wrote things in the Memo – “cheating bitch” “Lying slut”, etc.

She had to get her lawyer involved to get him to stop.

All the bees were laughing about it.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Anonymous wrote:

Okay, I’m going to be the killjoy here, sorry in advance.

Brothers, believe me, I know the pain you’re enduring…I write 3 checks per month, totaling about $2500.

I know there will be arguments that it’s free speech and all that, HOWEVER…

I would avoid the temptation to play around with a court-ordered payment. There are examples where the check jester had to appear before a judge (most cases seem to be for checks written TO THE COURT, for traffic fines, etc.), but I would put any court-ordered check in the same light. You don’t want the ex to get any additional satisfaction by screwing you even more.

I simply write “Court Ordered Spousal Support” on the memo line.
Who knows, you might need to show it to the IRS one day when you try to make the deduction.

My thought would be, but your honor, I’m only speaking the truth. One cannot be sanctioned by speaking the truth in a polite and PC manner. LOL.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

CombatRoll wrote:

I overheard some women talking about one of their own and giggling that one of them’s Ex wrote things in the Memo – “cheating bitch” “Lying slut”, etc.

She had to get her lawyer involved to get him to stop.

All the bees were laughing about it.

Prob. should had uploaded the cancelled check to social media and linked it to his former precious peach. Truth hurts.

[MTGMGTOWParticipant 235]

A close friend of my uncle’s has to write four alimony checks. FOUR. Not to mention the child support he paid when his children were young. He is a very successful real estate agent that has sold a lot of high value property in the South over the years. This man should be a multi-millionaire. But he barely has a pot to p~~~ in. His ex-c~~~s have taken him for everything.
My uncle, on the other hand, has been unknowingly living a red-pill life. His pursuit of the NAWALT Unicorn ended after his first divorce in which he miraculously got away before having children and without losing his assets. She wanted him to stop pursuing his career and settle down. If he submitted to her he would not have a modicum of the success he has today. He has a six-figure salary, travels the world for business and owns several pieces of property in a booming tourist town in the South.
This is a prime example of a man who does not learn from his mistakes, and one who does.

Women will NEVER have anything to offer that makes writing that post-divorce-rape check worth it.

I've had to learn lessons the hard way more times than I should. I've been very fortunate to find MGTOW when I did. Swallowing the Red Pill saved my future.

[AttonParticipant]

Alimony is slavery.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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