Members: Article and QUESTION what is masculinity?

[Tim PattenParticipant 659]

Women in the workplace: My new article: http://www.maledefender.com/men-liberated/

Do you have a good definition of what MASCULINITY IS TO YOU?
I may use it in my next article

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Having the absolute crushing power and intelligence to bring people, countries and nations to their knees.

And yet wanting only to build, create, express, improve, aid, love and care.

Thinking of not what was but could be.

Looking to the stars not millstone or plantation.

We will not fight you …. we will supersede you.

We can rage like a lion but we choose indifference.

We can confront and obstruct like a mountain but instead we walk away.

We were your guards, warriors, mountains, oceans.

We are the air you breath and cool with. We are the water you drink and cleans with and yes, we are the s~~~ extractors for your home.

You will know the pain of the real world when we have gone.

Be happy in your choice for that is all the happiness you will hold.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Masculinity is doing what is Right, because it is Right. It is honor, fidelity, consistency, strength, integrity, and generosity.
Masculinity is a state of being that women, throughout history, have longed to understand. They are attracted to it. They can attempt to emulate it, they can try to conceptualize or describe it, but, in the end, they will fail miserably.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Tim PattenParticipant 659]

GREAT RESPONSES!

The Good Men Project might publish this story on MASCULINITY

Thank you!

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Masculinity is both a strength and a weakness. By the way, so is being feminine. Neither is necessarily better than the other until you know what you are applying it to.

But to be masculine there is a physical strength as well as an emotional strength. More accurately, an ability to control your emotions so you can utilize your logic. Especially in times of stress. To be more concerned with “getting it right” than “being right”. To understand sacrifice, and to respect the people that have made sacrifices.

I also believe that self-sovereignty is a large part of masculinity. The feeling of knowing that you can carve out your piece of life and survive on your own terms. Get busy living, or get busy dying. The choice is yours.

Masculine built the world. It may not be perfect, but it’s also not done. And, for the record, masculine did a pretty damn good job.

Order the good wine

[TuneoutParticipant]

All good points and to add to this I would say a man’s word is important as well.
Say what you mean and mean what you say,too many men of late are apologizing because they said something that offended the liberal establishment.
Be a real man instead and tell them, well thats my opinion and you don’t have to agree with it,just agree with my right to voice it.
It seems we have freedom of speech as long as it doesn’t contradict the oh so sensitive moral majority.
In this regard I like Donald Trump’s style,he’s not afraid to call a bimbo a bimbo.
I think this kind of independence scares people and the establishment because a truly free man with a will of his own and answering to know one is a dangerous thing for the status quo.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Excellent article, dude.

Most important quote from your article, Tim:

“We are no longer just protectors and providers.”

As a wise man in my country once put it (a few years ago by the way): “We (men) should actually nowadays fight against the obligation to have to have a “solid career”, or to put it even more bluntly we should fight for our right to a career free life.

To me that’s what makes some true form of liberation on our part and yeah too right he was stating that…

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 42]

Masculinity is knowing your place in the natural order of things, exact opposite of where society has misplaced men on the alter of feminism.

Natural Order:

#1. God/deity/spaghetti monster in the sky.

#2. Man

#3. Woman

#4 Children

#5 Government.

Order of Masculinity destroying cultures:

#1. Government.

#2. Woman

#3. Children

#4 Man

#5 God/deity/spaghetti monster in the sky.

The only option for a man to regain his natural position in this world is to erase all of the above; no woman, no children, just man, his dog, and his deity or spaghetti monster in the sky.
And the government? Who gives a f~~~ when it out suites it’s purpose and becomes the abomination we see today?

Feminism dug a deep mine shaft without any foresight to crib it up with timbers. Now the whole thing is caving in on them and they deserve it. The next thing I expect to see as I run for my proverbial life is a massive gas explosion coming from that god forsaken rat hole! I expect to see smoke, flames, and sparks come from that porthole to hell.

The deep dark mine of feminism!

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Spot on as always, MG-Tower.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[KeymasterKeymaster]

While this is a totally acceptable place to discuss it, I would still maintain “masculinity” is a word and definition which is used by OTHER PEOPLE ( who often aren’t even MEN!! ) to posture and pretend like they are an authority on the subject of what’s masculine.

I’m quite serious. A manly man wouldn’t even use the word “masculinity” in a sentence.

IMO, It’s….. WOMANLY to even discuss it.

Ask a woman to describe what’s masculine, and she will just go off in a monologue about whatever s~~~ is USEFUL to her. If the same man refuses to do her heavy lifting, hang a picture, or pay for s~~~…. the same bitch pretends “he’s not a real man”.

IMO “Masculinity” is a word no man should ever utter or discuss.
He wouldn’t discuss, analyze or describe “Femininity” because it’s not his role to do so.

IT’S HERS.

For all the tripping over themselves these people do to describe what’s “masculine” (or what a MAN is)…. they are totally incapable and unwilling to define themselves.

QUESTION: What is masculinity?

MANSWER: XY Chromosomes. And never getting suckered into a silly conversation about “defining masculinity” with anyone.

Not trying to sound dismissive or rude to the OP and all respect to Tim P. , all that never ending donkey-s~~~ talk about “masculinity” and “neo masculinity” and “a real man” is totally off the table. If anything, I would say Masculine & real men would find discussing this topic……. WOMANLY.

How bored would someone have to be to talk about what makes a dog a dog, or a cow “cowish”?? Is MOO-ing enough? Does it need teets to qualify? What if it’s a gay bull? Can it still be called a “bull”? What if the bull that doesn’t even charge or take part in Rodeos? Is it still called a bull or a bronco? Or is it a more masculine cow?

It’s all a bunch of gull-a-bull.

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You can say honor, integrity and loyalty are more commonly MASCULINE values. But women are equally capable of having them too. They just don’t show or demonstrate those qualities (or insist on them) to the same degree as men do. So you can’t really call them a “masculine” trait, because your value system and code of ethics don’t depend on whether or not you have a penis or a vagina.

Yes they are typically “masculine” qualities and you’re going to find far more female hypocrites than men, but when you try to associate a definition (or set of behaviors) to a particular sex, it just gets silly. I can behave like a sarcastic “bitch” too. It’s easy. I just don’t.

Imagine asking Clint Eastwood, Al Pacino, or Sean Connery how they would define masculinity. I don’t even know them and imagine they would be weirded out by the question. Then ask Vin Diesel. Would his answer count? Because apparently he’s gay, but he’s also one of the most “masculine” characters in film today.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Keymaster wrote:

It’s all a bunch of gull-a-bull.

If not to say it’s bulls~~~e that’s probably what you were meant to say, correct..?

Anyway, I did get your point by and large, sir.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Ned Trent wrote:

If not to say it’s bulls~~~e that’s probably what you were meant to say, correct..?

🙂

“gull-a-bull”…. is a play on the word “gullible”, meaning easily swayed or influenced. And I was actually talking about “bulls” so I made a punny for fun.

(You’re German so I can see why that would confuse)

Es hat mit die Übersetzung etwas verloren.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Ahhh no offense taken, dude.

But I certainly appreciate your clarification there.

After all the whole life is a school… 😉

PS.: in this case you may go masculine in conjunction with the word “Übersetzung” as in: >>Etwas ist dort schief gelaufen mit (or verloren gegangen in) der Übersetzung<<.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[AnthonyParticipant 2281]

Keymaster wrote:

Imagine asking Clint Eastwood, Al Pacino, or Sean Connery how they would define masculinity. I don’t even know them and imagine they would be weirded out by the question.

I’m always weirded out a little bit whenever a topic such as this comes up on any website.

This whole talk about “masculinity” is baffling to me. Especially when other men bring the subject up.

Whenever women bring it up, it’s because of what you said exactly. Their idea of “masculine” means being their slave.

Once you have a Fleshlight real vaginas become worthless.

[Dr. SableParticipant 1064]

Tim Patten wrote:

Do you have a good definition of what MASCULINITY IS TO YOU?
I may use it in my next article

Being a man, is it not enough ?

Zero Tolerance

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Anthony wrote:

This whole talk about “masculinity” is baffling to me.

It’s a new thing in recent years. Everyone just won’t shut the f~~~ up about what a real “man” does, says and thinks. They actually write and publish articles about it. Most of the time, the people discussing “masculinity” aren’t even MEN!

These are the same idiots that write: “For guys. A guide to girl talk”.
http://www.match.com/magazine/article/4670/For-Guys-A-Guide-To-Girl-Talk/

GIRL TALK. If women could have their way, a GUY/MAN should be trained in girl talk. Woman admits women are complete s~~~ at direct & concise communication , and would rather waste 10 sentences explaining that no doesn’t actually mean “no” when a woman says it.

But instead of acknowledging that all methods of effective communication were created by MEN and women should LIFT THEMSELVES UP to the male standard, women actually think “men” should lower themselves to try to understand female stupidity and ineffectiveness instead.

Now If I call bulls~~~ ….. am I “more masculine“?
Am I more “masculine” if I just say NO and mean it?
Am I more masculine if I come across better than any woman?
Am I more masculine because I am better at communicating than any woman?

Or is it just female bulls~~~.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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