MEET fellow MGTOWs – This Saturday October 14th Dallas Texas

[X11Spectator 4520]

Having trouble following the thread. Why not meet gravel?

What is the anxiety?

If a meet is a closed event then it should be pm’ed not posted in the public section.

Everyone is a stranger until you meet them.

[GregB0Participant]

Gravel Pit wrote:

GregB0 wrote:

Texas is an open carry state

Why would you even say something like that…jeez dude. Its a men’s group, not a drug deal.
Quit perpetuating the covert fantasy trip where its some big secret and there is something to be afraid of. There is nothing even remotely threatening about mgtow men arranging public meets. The absolute worst that could happen is a bulldike trying to argue with you about the wage gap or some nonsense. Whatever, just leave.
It’s a public place that is frequented by runners and bicyclists. There is nothing dangerous about that location. Its safe, anonymous, easy to find, easy to leave in any direction and there is plenty of parking and enough people to feel safe but not too many to feel crowded.

You are one member, a member who has been not participating actively on the site, who suddenly wants to meet MGTOW members.

I can and did say this because we have had many examples of what people can do to others recently.

The Who, What,Why, Where and When have yet to be discussed with you. Showing caution with someone who had presented themselves as you have is a given now.

The comment about Texas is a word of warning until proved otherwise. I have eaten crow before in my life but I have also walked into ambushes before.

I know three of the members who “might” be meeting tonight.
I do not know you.

Neither do they and they have everything to loose, where we do not know if you have any cards in the game.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 14]

GregB0 wrote:

GravelPit wrote:

GregB0 wrote:

Texas is an open carry state

Why would you even say something like that…jeez dude. Its a men’s group, not a drug deal.
Quit perpetuating the covert fantasy trip where its some big secret and there is something to be afraid of. There is nothing even remotely threatening about mgtow men arranging public meets. The absolute worst that could happen is a bulldike trying to argue with you about the wage gap or some nonsense. Whatever, just leave.
It’s a public place that is frequented by runners and bicyclists. There is nothing dangerous about that location. Its safe, anonymous, easy to find, easy to leave in any direction and there is plenty of parking and enough people to feel safe but not too many to feel crowded.

You are one member, a member who has been not participating actively on the site, who suddenly wants to meet MGTOW members.

I can and did say this because we have had many examples of what people can do to others recently.

The Who, What,Why, Where and When have yet to be discussed with you. Showing caution with someone who had presented themselves as you have is a given now.

The comment about Texas is a word of warning until proved otherwise. I have eaten crow before in my life but I have also walked into ambushes before.

I know three of the members who “might” be meeting tonight.
I do not know you.

Neither do they and they have everything to loose, where we do not know if you have any cards in the game.

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[MarketWatcherParticipant]

GregB0 wrote:

I do not know you.

Nuff said.

This is why Zoom is by invitation only.

[BuckFitchesParticipant 993]

X11 wrote:

Having trouble following the thread. Why not meet gravel?

What is the anxiety?

If a meet is a closed event then it should be pm’ed not posted in the public section.

Everyone is a stranger until you meet them.

You’re right.

I didn’t even know about Zoom when I made this post so now I realize the next time I schedule a meet up I will just PM people about it. I’ll probably just spread the word through Zoom next time.

This wasn’t well thought out, but it was a good learning experience.

Also the anxiety about GravelPit is the intensity of his character and immediacy of his decision to create an account. Idk it gave me goosebumps but it did haha.

However, I haven’t given up on GravelPit as I’ve only “known” him for two days.

"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches

[X11Spectator 4520]

I haven’t seen enough of gravel to exclude or include him in anything.

I am a pretty open guy and try to see the best in everyone until proven otherwise.

Not everyone is a good mixer, I am possibly the worst hence I feel empathy for any guy that thru no fault of their own sends the wrong signals because they may lack the required social cues.

I also don’t like the piling on mentality, its weak as f~~~.

Of course I could be complete wrong.

All men are bros to me until I got good reason to see otherwise…even then they still a bro.

[BeachBumParticipant 813]

X11 wrote:

I haven’t seen enough of gravel to exclude or include him in anything.

I am a pretty open guy and try to see the best in everyone until proven otherwise.

Not everyone is a good mixer, I am possibly the worst hence I feel empathy for any guy that thru no fault of their own sends the wrong signals because they may lack the required social cues.

I also don’t like the piling on mentality, its weak as f~~~.

Of course I could be complete wrong.

All men are bros to me until I got good reason to see otherwise…even then they still a bro.

I hope you’re right X11…

GP got very defensive and accusatory mighty fast.

If he can post more and be better at presenting himself as a standup dude, then he will win my vote..

He came on way too strong and backed a few of us into a corner..,

GP- work through your frustrations better instead of socially venting that we are all a bunch of A-holes.

Once you realize that you dug this hole, we can move on to better times, eventually inviting you to Zoom..

I’m dangling the carrot to you to be cool, not harsh…

Remember the saying?- it’s easier to attract flies with honey instead of vinegar..

Would it kill you to extend the olive branch??

[X11Spectator 4520]

I am plating up as we speak for the giant s~~~ you guys are going to have on me if my good intentions are betrayed by this GP member.

On the bright side 100 years from now nobody will give a s~~~ either way.

[Sky-OParticipant 18949]

So,

How did the meeting in Dallas go?

[Anonymous 14]

X11 wrote:

I haven’t seen enough of gravel to exclude or include him in anything.

I am a pretty open guy and try to see the best in everyone until proven otherwise.

Not everyone is a good mixer, I am possibly the worst hence I feel empathy for any guy that thru no fault of their own sends the wrong signals because they may lack the required social cues.

I also don’t like the piling on mentality, its weak as f~~~.

Of course I could be complete wrong.

All men are bros to me until I got good reason to see otherwise…even then they still a bro.

Fair enough X. However, does your statement apply to me as well? We are all here to get along and support each other in times of need.
I have no beef with you other than bullying a friend of mine whom I stood up for. Would you not do the same?

[Gravel PitParticipant]

BuckFitches wrote:

However, I haven’t given up on GravelPit as I’ve only “known” him for two days.

X11 wrote:

if my good intentions are betrayed by this GP member.

It’s all good gentlemen. I’ve been a mghow for a long time. I used to come here back when it first opened up. At the time, Id been mgtow for about a year or two. Then I stayed on YouTube for a couple more years. I was on Mgtow.co briefly.

I’m coming back to mgtow.com for the comradery and for the fact that this is a permanent station for us. YouTube is going down the s~~~ter with censorship and they’re making it hard on our favorite producers who might throw in the towel if they cant make a living. So, since I’m irrevocably mgtow and I aint going back…I have to keep it fresh and come back over here. The place looks even better than before.

Well, nothing happened at Reverchon Park. So apparently, even if you give an 8 hours public notice, mgtow is not soooo eye widening that progressives and crazy people are going to show up. So we’re safe from that for now, at least in the lone star state. As for general safety, I think we have little to worry about unless you’re a teenager trying to meet strangers from the internet….. But I’m confident that most of us are in our late twenties or older and can defend ourselves and have good intentions. I don’t get intimidated easily. That is why I called out a location and I was there for 40 mins. It was a totally tame environment, completely safe, filled with a variety of passer-bys, tree covered enough to block off line of sight to buildings even in winter, but open enough to fly a drone. Its a public park.

Anyway, I wish more people had the courage to meet people.

X11 wrote:

Everyone is a stranger until you meet them

People are way cooler and friendlier when you meet them in person.

As for the other dude who mildly accused me of being bi/gay. That is ridiculous. #1, that is not a ‘gay’ part of town, it’s uptown/oaklawn dallas so it’s more yuppie and upperclass than anything. Yes, there are gay bars near-by, so what? There are gay bars in every major metro area… #2 If I was homo, I would not bother trying to pick up straight men. Thats like trying to turn a lesbian straight. Totally pointless. I’m not some sexually confused teen or twenty something, and definitely not a gay dude.

I live in that area because the property value is increasing and its close to everything. Not to mention, if there is an abundance of gays in your part of town, that is great cover for living a mgtow monk lifestyle…you never have to worry about chicks hitting on you or getting tempted by them because most of them are gay. Its great! For a brief time, I moved away and got a girlfriend and lived with her, that was a huge mistake and led to me finding mgtow back in 2013. The only downside, to living in OakLawn is getting hit on by men occasionally (like maybe once a year), this leads to not having any male friends because if they’re gay….well they will want to be more than friends. This is why I have a VERY quiet life with no friends and no girl friends.

As with any group, you seek like minded peers to become friends with… About 5 years ago, I remember going to an Atheist meet-up. That was also lame because most atheists, especially the ones that want to meet eachother, aren’t interested in atheism at all, but rather identity politics, feminism, liberalism etc…. So I didn’t go back. The same s~~~ happens to many other small social organizations, they’re full of left leaning politics. MGTOW is the only thing I can identify with because its an objective and sound premise that is pertinent to my experiences. I’m just an average 30 year old white guy who actually has decent amount of intelligence. I’m more of a artsy intellectual but you wouldn’t know it to meet me because I look more jockish and have dark eyebrows. I have to make an effort to smile and conversate with people, less my appearance alone will convey an possibly angry person. I can write and converse well, this is why I work in sales and run a business.

Anyway, cheers gentlemen, Ill keep a watch out for more Dallas related posts. Gravel Pit out-

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