Maybe "not being good enough" is a blessing?

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

All my life I have been told by women (not necessarily in words but it was pretty obvious) that I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH for them. The reason? I never was a big money maker. To this day I work a job that really doesn’t pay all that well. Call me a slacker, whatever. It’s just the way I am. I have never been the “corporate ladder climber.” It’s just not for me.

So technically I am not good enough. For ANY woman.

But maybe this isn’t a bad thing. Maybe I don’t want them anyway.

If I had “game” and was a good liar, I would get a lot of pussy. But I am not an actor nor a liar. It’s just too much work and not my nature.

In other words, it just ain’t worth the effort (for me).

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

My ex used to lament that I imply that she is not good enough. I believe that this was projection on her part. I was a soldier with a decent income and put the work in around the house.

I WASN’T GOOD ENOUGH. I believe that this to be true because I refused to take on the identity of the mindless worker drone that served the queen bee.

The part they never get is that we (men) aren’t designed to be worker drones. We are designed to be innovaters, craftsmen, leaders, and pioneers. Sometimes we are just guys that want to get through our day with a minimum of bulls~~~.

Aside from war, women have been the single biggest cause of strife and heartache in the lives of men.

That sir, is definitely NOT good enough.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

“Good Enough” is unnatainable. If you reach it they will either forget and find something else to complain about or raise the bar higher.

I remember when I was much younger, and dumber, I treated this girl like a godess. Her birthday – rose pedals all over the bed, chilled champagne, chocolate covered strawberries, pre heated baby oil for a massage, all over soothing music (The Basics – Loui Armstrong and other romantic, classy music). No fine detail was unattended by me. No cost spared. And Im not even going to feel shame or sorry for doing so, because it showed class and consideration on my part; then you doscover how ungreatful they are.

“Wow, no ones ever done this for me!”

No s~~~, thats why I did it. But bitch couldnt reciprocate by showing the LEAST amount of effort or concern over my minimal requirements.

Good enough is never good enough. And each whipped man who compliments or exhausts his efforts only raises her standard higher.

Resident cynic.

[MotivParticipant 441]

You stick to what is true to you not them. That is what makes you better than the “not good enough”

Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

[Anonymous 12]

I am well off and I can tell you it’s not the money or lack of it that makes you “Not Good Enough”. It is just women in general give them a rich man they will want a poorer working class one, give them a working class one and they will want a rich one. If you are tall they will want you short, if you have a big dick it will be too big, small dick too small, just right then they want it bigger or smaller again. They are seriously f~~~ed up and whenever they get what they want they will immediately start thinking “What else can I get?”.

I have met so many women and despite being successful, well off, ok looking, well spoken, I could see it in their eyes every time “What else can I have” doesn’t matter if you are out of their league either! Older women will still have that same mentality, fat women, average looking women.

I was even on a Sugar Dating site and these women were so brazen they would blow their chances before we even met. They can’t help themselves!

I learned young that it is actually the better looking ones who are generally less like that. So anyway, it’s not you, it is all them. I love the below pic.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I know how you feel. I’ve had low wage jobs for most of my life. The funny thing is: I’ve seen guys with hot girlfriends and they make less money than I do. How’s that for a mind f~~~? There’s other reasons why women don’t like me: I have no charisma, I don’t socialize enough, my conversations are boring, I can’t dance, I don’t give them enough drama and excitement like their asshole ex-boyfriends did. Whatever. They can f~~~ themselves. I’m taking a trip to Thailand.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[RoyDalParticipant]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

All my life I have been told by women (not necessarily in words but it was pretty obvious) that I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH for them.

I have been on jury duty a few times. The first things I noticed about the halls of criminal justice was the model-perfect women in there — model-perfect women on the arms of obvious criminals: men who radiated “scuzz bag” like a BBQ grill gives off smoke and stink. What is it about women that they hop on the professional criminal’s roller coaster?

Have you ever been dumped for a criminal loser? I know I have, and so have most of my men friends. They said, “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.” Venus must be a loser’s & criminal’s paradise.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

I used to have a great job/career until my 20 year marriage got the better of me, (depression), but it was never enough for her. She would often berate me for spending 60-80 hours at work, then complain that I only managed to earn twice her wage.
Now I am early re-tired, earning much less from my pension.
I am happy to ‘not be good enough’,
Keep your hands off my wallet bitch.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

I have a slick job.
Well, that’s the way I want the floors to look after I wax them.
I guess I could say I am a stripper?
Wax off Mr,Miyagi.
I’d rather work a s~~~ pay job that I like (comparatively) , than a high paid job I can’t stand.

When women ask ‘What do you do for a living?’
Right there I know I am toast!
Maybe I can hang on for a bit if I tell her I would rather have you appreciate me for me and not what I do.
But we know how they go for that, ‘me’ …Ha!

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Soldier-Medic wrote:

Aside from war, women have been the single biggest cause of strife and heartache in the lives of men.

So true. So very true.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Anonymous wrote:

I am well off and I can tell you it’s not the money or lack of it that makes you “Not Good Enough”.

Excellent reply Morlock! You really summed it up nicely. I feel better when I read something like you just said. Because it makes me realize that there is nothing all that wrong with me.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[RennieParticipant]

I know it saved me from getting trapped by girls who weren’t as good as they appeared to be. I’m thankful for it every single day.

[HitmanParticipant]

Yep,bitches be crazy ! NOTHING IS GOOD ENOUGH! ..great thread !

[TaxGuyParticipant]

I think Andrew Dice Clay said it best: “Some guys play hard to get. Me, I play impossible to like.”

I’ve gone out to drinks with female friends from work. They told me I give off a vibe at the bar where they would never approach me if they didn’t know me. I just told them that I wished I knew how I was doing it so that I could make sure it NEVER GOES AWAY!!

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 11]

I see the misery of my friends who are “good enough” and have come to cherish my not being good enough. I know it has saved my ass from those skanks.

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

20: “Not good enough.”

25: “Not good enough, right now.”

30: “Where’s all the good men at?”

35: “Where’s my cats?”

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

megatoad69 wrote:

When women ask ‘What do you do for a living?’

That’s s~~~ test #1, making you prove that you have (financial) worth/value.
Turn it right around on her by asking “What did you cook for supper last night?”
99% of the time she’ll have some bulls~~~ excuses/reasons why she doesn’t cook (ever).
Say “I’m not interested in a woman that can’t cook for me.”, and walk away.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

A woman runs the “You aren’t good enough” line? Well, I can extend that and ask them: “If I am not good enough, what do you bring to the table to make me good enough? In short, why the hell do I need you? If I was good enough alone, why would you be in my life, unless you are a parasite who only lives to find someone “good enough”?”

I operate under this delusions that a relationship is supposed to be a partnership where both parties together do more than they can alone. I take a MGTOW as a man who doesn’t need the partner, because he can do it alone.

How many women actually THINK this? I can see, maybe at best, that a woman sees a guy has one easily fixable flaw in a man she can fix and she would get a big payday from fixing it. So, the idea is that she goes along for a ride and offers a guy sex as a fee to get everything else from a guy?

If a man is “good enough” without the help of a woman to meet her approval, he is good enough without her, period. And I take that, as a core point of MGTOW. It is one reason why I am never married. I can’t say I found a single woman who can get me to anolher level. And I don’t own a pet, nor do I want to own a pet either.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[megatoad69Participant 449]

That’s a good one! There is something wrong with a woman who’s culinary skills are limited to boiling water for Mr. Noodles.

Look on the bright side you poor ass MO-FU’s, we are keeping the gold diggers away, those shallow skanks!

(Funny thing is, my first POF date never asked, I’m the one that brought it up, she was a nice girl, my living environment wasn’t neat enough)

You can't reason with unreasonable, there; women, figured out, there is nothing to reason.

[ToadParticipant 271]

Don’t worry: i make a pretty huge amount of money, i will make more during the years, i have a house, i have a car, y make a lot of sports, i am fit, i’m intelligent, sociable, funny, clever, good person, fair, and a trust human being…

and i was never good enough to any woman, EVER… now that i have a little success…when i go out, wich is very rarely… the women who fall in love with me are, either because i lie about a mysterious life, with imaginary children and a broken marriage, and stuff like that, or because i ignore them while they are talking to me and they think that i am mysterious…

never appreciate any of my other features… ever…so…the good things that i thought that belongs to women…are a f~~~ing lie… So if you are “not enough” for a woman: you are f~~~ing really good… This way to measure the value of a real men are infallible… They don’t like you?:= you are doing just right…

plain and simple

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