Mastering being a MGTOW means you don't have to "settle"

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

So, there is this whole thing in the area of dating, finding a woman, the one, and other yadda yadda yadda, blech… where the talk is about somehow “settling” to get a woman, being told “you are too picky” if you don’t have one, and so on.  In short, the idea is finding “good enough” to marry, because doing that means that you then can get married and have an “ok enough” life to raise kids in and whatever other Blue Pill drone normal is out there, that one is supposed to conform to, in order to be seen respectable by the neighborhood and strangers, and political parties and so on.  And both the man in the woman are supposed to sell their souls on the altar of “compromise” to “get along” and live immensely mediocre lives of settling.

Well, I would saying being MGTOW would require some skill, to deal with things that pop up, mainly inside issues of managing finances, social connections, sex drive, and so on, and having clarity on what to do with free time, to put it to good use.  But, with this comes the one thing.  What it means, it means not to have to settle.  It means you are free of this compromise situation seen in Blue Pill lives, where you have to end up “settling” for things.  Like, she is great in bed, but she is a drug addict, and has other destructive behaviors, but wow, but she masters sex.  Or she is ok, and has the horrible mother who will cause you hell on earth, or a horrible father and so on.  Add the list of all the lest than ideal baggage.

Also, being competent at being MGTOW also means you are free from delusions that somehow, the right woman will come along, as if there is some sort of master plan that preordained you meet THE ONE, and you end up looking at every woman to be the one.

In short, you don’t need to settle.  You do need to work on yourself though, if you have issues coping and dealing.  But you have time for that, right?

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[RoyDalParticipant]

IGMOW (I Go My Own Way) wrote:

Also, being competent at being MGTOW also means you are free from delusions that somehow, the right woman will come along, as if there is some sort of master plan that preordained you meet THE ONE, and you end up looking at every woman to be the one.

It is a good gag for fending off nosy relatives & friends; “I haven’t found Miss Right, yet,” works every time. The mere fact that I’m not looking for Miss R. — neither now or some yet time — is useless information. There’s no need to contribute that to my relatives & friends thinking processes. Facts confuse the type who pokes into my business anyway, so withholding facts is, in fact, an act of kindness.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Miss Right?  You mean that woman who relatives are so desperate to find a man for, that she gets repackaged by them as something wonderful?  She is repackaged as someone wondering for men of the human species overall, that she really isn’t a fit for any man in particular.  That is Miss Right.  Ugh, now I have a flashback to the boring beyond tears personal adds by women.  So you like to dance, go on hikes and so on.  Yawn…  You are so interested in being packaged as Miss Right for all men, you don’t fit any man.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

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