Masterbation has become…nothing

[Anonymous 0]

alright gentlemen here we go

as some of you know im 18 and as most would probably guess i have a pretty high sexdrive.

recently however, ive noticed while i still get the urges i cant orgasm properly..it feels forced and boring(at this point im like wtf is wrong)

perhaps its because ive become a mgtow..

but ive literally went for an hour straight non stop and when i finished i felt absolutely nothing..

im thinking of going nofap anyone have any experience with it?

also if there are any younger dudes who are feeling the same way as I, please share you story since this has never happened to me.. although i suppose i knew it would happen someday

[RyanJamesParticipant 20]

Awesome post. I think you just need some new porn / fantasies (have you tried porn with women being beaten on their pussies?) – have you tried giving it a rest for a few days? (or hours haha)

[Anonymous 0]

bruh i already tried that lol..it doesnt get me hard unfortunately( or fortunately?)

yeah im thinking no fap for a few weeks might peak my intrests again.. perhaps

[fififi89Participant 48]

Hi,

MGTOW movement is not about having some weird sexual drive or weird sexual habits. MGTOW is about putting less importance in the women, is about simply trying to invest the less possible energy, time, money, feelings in them. It’s ok to have sex with them but only if it is a good deal, if they don’t make you pay for the sex too much. Masturbation is not bad, is not evil and has no cost, do it everytime you want.

Moreover masturbation is important for the health of your prostate, so it is better not to start “no-fap”.

[Anonymous 0]

@fififi89 my point wasnt that masterbation is bad

but rather that i no longer “feel” anything during it or afterwards

but i agree with you

[Jim01Participant 6678]

try different porn

eg lesbian seduction – gets me every time!

[Judah EarlParticipant 10]

As others have said, Next time you’re on a porn website, flick through the categories – You may find something that get your juices flowing again.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I would say a school of though with some MGTOWs is to value sex part of human existence far less, and if you get bored of masterbating, so be it.  Think of doing that they way someone who is trying to diet does in regards to eating, in that you do it because you need to, not because you are doing it for indulgence reasons.  I am not going to suggest other kinks to go hunt down, which looks like an addiction impulse of needing a stronger dose, but more of balancing in your life.  Realizing sex is not all that can free yourself up to go and do other things with your life.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Anonymous 0]

I’d say get a high quality sex toy.

Tenga Flipholes start at say 60 Dollars and will last you a good while. Fleshlight is a bit overrated IMO.

[experiencedParticipant]

I got home and my c~~~ had detached itself and emptied out the house. Somehow, it also managed to kidnap my kid, took 143K over half of everything, destroyed the family unit, traumatized my kid, temporarilly screwed my kid’s education, appeared in court and out and out lied seven times, etc.

Wait, c~~~s aren’t capable of that. After my wife did this — she became nothing. DNE…does not exist.

Your own c~~~ may or may not(methinks the latter) become nothing, but it won’t go below the Y axis on you and become Negative, a black hole, and with All of society’s support try to skin you alive to sell your hide as well.   [[[pant  pant  pant effing C, LOL]]]      IOW consider the alternative.

A day without sarcasm is like a day without sunshine

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Go spend a m8nth with married men and betas.

Thats should get you back on track 😆

But really … just lay off a while. Go do some gym, running, a skydive, motorcycle track day.

You’ll soon get the mojo back.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Eat hot sauce.

Cayenne and chili peppers are also good sources of capsaicin.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[TravisParticipant 84]

Are you getting enough sleep? My libido goes to nothing when I haven’t slept well.

Best advice my dad gave me, "Don't get married. Don't have kids."

[TravisParticipant 84]

One more thing…when I’m eating crappy food for days at a time, I’ve noticed an orgasm can be numb.

FYI – One time I was trying the high fat, low carb thing, and orgams were the most intense I’ve ever had.

Best advice my dad gave me, "Don't get married. Don't have kids."

[BDParticipant 1146]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Go spend a m8nth with married men and betas. Thats should get you back on track

Iliveagain, brother I have to make sure I am not eating or drinking anything when I read your posts, laughing myself silly here!!! +1 every time!

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[schizoaffectiveParticipant 35]

Go nofap, bro! Your life will improve. You’ll have more energy and be healthier in general. I wish nofap was around when I was your age. Fapping is what beta monkeys do cuz they can’t get laid. Are you a beta monkey?

Nofap 4 Life

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

If you are jerking off a lot, it gets OLD. What you must do is not jerk off at all……..for about ten days. That ought to do it. Then you can jerk off maybe three times over a 2 day period. Then you gotta stop again for ten full days. Rinse/ repeat.

Also, another commenter here is right, if you eat better, your orgasms are much better. Sugar, white carbs, fried foods all get in the way of a good, healthy dick.

Exercise helps a lot. But I am talking about real exercise like an hour of boxing or something real intense like an hour of spinning.

Let your body be your guide. Do not jerk off just for the hell of it. Only jerk off when you simply can’t take it anymore. You go without it for a good ten days and your body will DEMAND that you jerk off. Don’t jerk off until your body demands you to do it.

 

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[Anonymous 12]

You’re probably doing it way too often. Abstain for a few days and let the horniness build up again.

[ToadParticipant 271]

Do you have a circumcision? because in my experience, after i made it, my sex drive fell a 300% than before. Also when i was young i had a huge hope in females so my sex drive was amazing…but now, several years after, i’m confused because, when i wanted i didn’t have possibilities with girls, and now that some of they approaches me i refuse to have sex because my sex drive don’t works with the “real” womans anymore because of my angry towards them… and much less with condoms…

Maybe it changes in the future but now i am like you but “in the real world” i don’t know what is worst…

If i were you i don’t be worried because i suppose that with 18 years the sex drive will be strong enough to overcome this bad phase

Good luck

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