Married Twice, Divorced 100 times

[BufordTPisserParticipant 19]

I was introduced to this site by my 16 year old son. he is way smarter than me. he seems to have learned from my mistakes much better than I have.

Divorced my 1st wife after 7 years of marriage, 9 years together. was given majority physical custody of my 4 year old son, but was also forced to pay child support due to very poor legal representation. After 5 years of that, had the child support dropped and was actually awarded child support. was awarded more support than I had to pay, but only accepted the exact same amount I had to pay her. It was for principle, not for the money. And every penny went to my son.

Second marriage lasted 7 years also, 9 years together. worked my ass off during that relationship, 2 jobs, bought a house, dog, white picket fence, the American nightmare. when I found out she was cheating, I confronted her and she said she started cheating because I asked her to put down her 18 year old cat that was extremely arthritic and soiled itself daily. How could I be such a cruel bastard? Luckily no kids with her.

Lots of failed relationships and I had another son to a woman who clearly stated to me that she only got pregnant to force me to marry her. Didn’t work. She had my 2nd son, acted a fool, and left when he was 15 months old. But my son stayed with me. I was awarded full custody. we have been together since.

He has survived a few bad relationships with me, has been my rock, and he has a better grasp on the ways that woman operate than I do. But he has forced me to see the light. he is blunt with me. he tells me the truth. I am very proud of him.

I am hoping to get some very real, very harsh insight from the other members of this site. some men need a push, some men need a shove, some of us need a full blown hit to the head with a 2X4.

Just glad that my son was smart enough to make me see the light.

You don't own me, you can't change me. You need me more than I need you.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6254]

BufordTP~~~er,

Brother, we welcome you. I am glad you found this site via your son’s advice. As you may know by now, MGTOW is an acronym for “Going Your Own Way”. Sandman has an excellent introductory video on this:

On this website, we brothers share our problems with each other without any worries about being ridiculed or made fun of. I have shared my personal problems about anxiety and depression and have got so much support which I will be ever so grateful for. For all of us MGTOW, realising that we have been brought up to be workhorses was a very bitter pill to swallow at the beginning (aka the Red Pill). At first it makes us shocked, then angry after which we begin the healing process. I also highly recommend to watch spetsnaz’s Youtube videos. I believe he is a psychotherapist.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbbeOA5K7Hhc3I2vWG1jZ0w

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Welcome to the forums and good for your and your son. You won’t have to look long to find insight you’re looking for.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome. You’ve heard it takes a village to raise a child right? In your village of two it took a child to raise the village. Congratulations on your new found knowledge. Give your kid a fist bump and a smile from me. Welcome to the forums.

[MACHOParticipant]

Nice to meet you BufordTP~~~er, I read your whole intro!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 25]

welcome

I have visions of this after your son hit you round the head with a 2×4

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Greetings BTP,

Appreciate your Introduction.

BufordTPisser wrote:

……was given majority physical custody of my 4 year old son, but was also forced to pay child support due to very poor legal representation…..

The same thing happened to me and similar legal loop holes that f~~~ed over dozens of men that I worked with.

It is interesting how many legal “mistakes” benefit women. This is similar to the “mistakes” that banks make which always benefits the banks and never the customer. Multiplied by millions of victims, that is a lot of profit.

BufordTPisser wrote:

……After 5 years of that, had the child support dropped and was actually awarded child support. ………. but only accepted the exact same amount I had to pay her. It was for principle, not for the money. And every penny went to my son……

My Ex never had to pay anything, even after I got official custody. The money she got as “Child Support” never went to my son.

BufordTPisser wrote:

some men need a push, some men need a shove, some of us need a full blown hit to the head with a 2X4.

Here is some harsh words that hit me over the head:

Woman are dangerous;

Women destroy lives;

Woman are evil;

AWALT.

BufordTPisser wrote:

…….I am hoping to get some very real, very harsh insight from the other members of this site…..

You have stumbled into a gold mine, Brother!

Keep digging into the Archives and Forums.

And most Red Pills are really funny.

I hope you can learn to laugh at them.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome brother!

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Welcome, bro.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the club. I find it encouraging that your 16 year old sent you here. Kick back and enjoy the fellowship.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome Buford. That foot in your avatar looks p~~~ed. S M W.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 12]

Welcome BufordTP~~~er.
I hope you spend some time here, reading and catching up on the nature of women, and how to avoid the dangers.
And why.
And how to take care of yourself and the ones close to you.

And now on to the real question…
is that Kid a MANber here?
If not we need to get that Son of a Gun a Seat, pronto.
He did good.
Let him know.

[BufordTPisserParticipant 19]

Thank You. I could probably write a book on the nature of woman, but then again they would just change to make the book worthless.

My son is on MGTOW. he lives his life like I should have lived mine. He does have girls in his life, but it is by his rules. I used to think he was being cruel to some of his female friends, but he has made me realize that he is just allowing them into his life on his terms.

He has thanked me for living through bad relationships so that he could learn from my mistakes, and I have thanked him for showing me MGTOW and that I am not the only one out there fed up with woman’s s~~~. What woman don’t or won’t seem to realize is that they are ruining things for all other woman. They themselves have made MGTOW a necessity for both boys and men.

You don't own me, you can't change me. You need me more than I need you.

[BufordTPisserParticipant 19]

He is the only constant in my life that makes me appreciate each and every day. Between him dealing with his addict brother and the 2 woman I have subjected him to, I am surprised he still even talks to me. Everything I now do, I do for him. I will sacrifice everything for him to ensure that he does not have to go through what I have gone through.

I have learned in the past 15 years how to turn feelings on or off like a switch. When any woman in my life becomes a burden, I have an ability to turn off any feelings for them in an instant. I am hoping this forum guides me on how to keep my guard up and how to see the signs before I allow another woman to ever become a burden again.

You don't own me, you can't change me. You need me more than I need you.

[Anonymous 1]

I hope your sons know how lucky they are to have you in their lives.
Welcome brother!

[BufordTPisserParticipant 19]

That’s the foot I broke remodeling one of the houses that she inherited for her to sell. Took $50,000 house, put $30,000 into it and she sold it for $150,000. I got served with papers to vacate her house and not a penny for all my work. Did 2 houses that sold for over $300,000 and all I got was served with papers. She took my time and some money, but believe me, what I took from her, she will never ever get back.

You don't own me, you can't change me. You need me more than I need you.

[Anonymous 42]

BufordTPisser wrote:

I confronted her and she said she started cheating because I asked her to put down her 18 year old cat that was extremely arthritic and soiled itself daily. How could I be such a cruel bastard?

You should have tied a brick around the cat then thrown it in a river leaving the door open and blaming it on the wind! Then your wife wouldn’t have stumbled onto Chad’s c~~~!

You gotta play CRUEL when dealing with such a CRUEL creature!

I would have splashed the cat!

BufordTPisser wrote:

I am hoping to get some very real, very harsh insight from the other members of this site. some men need a push, some men need a shove, some of us need a full blown hit to the head with a 2X4.

Next time splash the cat!

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