Marriage means negativity.

[ChurchillParticipant 28]

Every night in this house ends the same. My dad comes home from a hard day’s work, sits down, and has a drink while he watches some TV. Often, my mom will already be sitting on the couch when he enters the family room, drink in hand, and takes a seat in the adjacent armchair. Every night without fail, the first sip he takes is met with a scowl and a bitter attitude from my mom. It usually is not long after this that she storms out of the room. My father does not have anything resembling a drinking problem. He works incredibly hard every day, rising at 4 am and returning at 5 pm so that our family is able to live in a decent place. He deserves to have a drink at night if he wants to.

My mom on the other hand was a stay-at-home mom, and while I am grateful for her support through my childhood, there are times when I resent her attitude towards my dad. She seems to have numerous expectations and standards for him to meet, in spite of her minimal daily responsibilities. My dad has not demonstrated a desire to meet these “bars” to try and gain my mom’s approval. I am proud of him for that.

I distinctly remember one night in the midst of the economic recession. My dad, the most honest man I know, was fighting tooth and nail to keep his business afloat. Later in the evening, after the usual charade, he confided in me a criticism of my mom. It was the first and only time he has ever done this. “I have worked to keep us in this house. She has done nothing. She hasn’t even offered to help,” he told me. I was 17 at the time, and I didn’t know how to respond. That may have been the moment that made me start to question the idea of marriage.

I am 23 now. These exchanges still occur almost nightly. I feel awful for my dad. Need to get the hell out of this house ASAP. Marriage seems miserable.

[experiencedParticipant]

Thank you for sharing this.
It’s to the point and means a lot.
Women can be like a black hole in this regard
among others as well.

When laydeez push for more in the dawn of a relationship I must remind them of how unhappy they will eventually invariably become.
Sparing them that living hell is the only humane option.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 42]

Some of the laziest creatures I’ve seen are women! In the world of productivity it’s like being with a sloth.
Being a Speedy Gonzales is the best way to avoid these sloths…

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Unfortunately it’s a prison he was brainwashed into by society.

Unfortunately he said those vows before witnesses.

Unfortunately he has honour inside his heart.

Fortunately he’s your dad …. and has honour inside his heart.

Go talk with him … man to man … heart to heart.

Go be men together and have his back.

[Anonymous 1]

@churchill – my situation is similar. My dads been successful in the corporate world and my mums been a stay at home, do f~~~ all, lay about. He even does half of the house work.

Last year he got skin cancer, had part of his lip removed and had to take a week off. His lip looked f~~~ing awful, the cut was big and he had a lot of stitches.

A couple days after the op I went round to see him, my mum had him pulling up weeds in the garden whilst barking out orders through the window. I went outside to talk to him for a while, he look awful, beaten down and dejected.

I got in my car and left, fighting back tears.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

Churchhill, you are on to something that your Dad may never get. Please try to always respect him, he’s operating by an old code that he was indoctrinated into. Maybe when all of the kids are gone he’ll just retire to the garage or basement each night instead, but he has done everything he ever committed to do.

He’s given her a good life at home with the kids, the house and the TV. Use your awareness and the fact that he confided in you to do better for yourself. Since you’re young remember that AWALT and never lose sight of what it is that you want to do with your life. I can’t fault your father, he kept his word even if he should have punted her to the curb.

A hard workingman deserves a drink when he wants without the scorn of a woman,and if he can’t have that he deserves to be free of the woman.

Good Post.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

Women who bring nothing financially to the table p~~~ me off. Drop the kids off to school (if the kids don’t take the bus or ride their bikes) and BAM, they have six hours to kill with daytime TV and coffee dates with their other over-entitled girlfriends.

Then they have the audacity to bang-on about how being a mother is the “hardest job in the world”. Give me a break. They should try swinging a pick and shovel for 10 hours a day. Despite their demands for equal rights, I don’t see many women putting their hands up for many of the s~~~ jobs. I don’t know how your dad can bite his toungue.

#ManOut

[RoyDalParticipant]

“All animals are equal, but some animals are more equal than others.” That fits my idea of marriage, here on the plantation.

I’m totally sold on remaining single all the days of my life. By the time I’m too old to take care of myself, they’ll have a robot to do my chores. Besides, a wife won’t take care of me at any age, if she’s typical.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[VarunParticipant 2981]

This is the vivid illustrations of milions of middle-class homes worldwide; this is a disease that has plagued the traditional hard-working man… all and all due to rise of feminist ideologies.

“You can do so much more. You can be the best. You don’t have to listen to anybody. You can do what you want, girl. And that includes disrespecting that very soul who was responsible for saving your ass from starvation.”

What can a man do in this situation, where nobody finds any injustice taking place for him to fight against? He can continue to live on in misery, or he could just lay it all down and walk away.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[experiencedParticipant]

In these cases it’s not a drinking problem;
it’s a drinking solution – to her attitude.

“Rrirr rrirr, rrirr rrirr, rrirr rrirr rrirr.”

sip

“Rrirr rrirr, rrirr rrirr, rrirr rrirr rrirr.”

sip

[“But even preemptive sips?” “You’re darn right.”]

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 42]

RoyDal wrote:

Besides, a wife won’t take care of me at any age

RD, I’ve seen marriage after marriage fail at all ages, some annulled, others after 20 30 and recently 35 years. Most the people I ever knew from my generation onward are divorced. Family-less children have become the norm. Step mom, Step dad, step step step, everyone’s walking allover everyone else, but the women take all in this disgusting process. MGTOW are the only ones putting an end to this utter bulls~~~!

Brittan, Australia, Canada, Germany, Sweden, Iceland, Denmark, Holland, Ireland, France, plus here in the USA (and their satellite of weirdness Hollywood) it’s all the same! Life with any woman from any of these countries is a life spent in the brainwash of gynocentric hell.

We put an end to gynocentric worship! A man’s life isn’t supposed to be spent walking barefoot through fields of gynocentric broken glass. MGTOW is a rugged thick rubber sole pair of boots for kicking all the broken glass out of your way! It’s their broken glass. I say let them lay in the piles you kick out of the way.
Sounds cruel I know, but look how rotten women and the law have treated men.
I’m not living my life on a pile of Snowflake’s double edged razor blades! I’m all done with bleeding and I don’t give a f~~~…

[AttonParticipant]

That man has done everything that can be expected of him, he provided for you and for the mother of his child. He did so despite overwhelming odds.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 54]

Women are simply not capable of gratitude.No matter how much you give,work,sacrifice,in there minds they deserve more.It is a bottomless pit to the abyss.Plus they dont want you to be happy. Plus there will be no sex. So why in the f~~~ would you ever get married? Oh yea..your little snow flake is different.Yea right…

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Full respect to your Father what a great Man, for him to tell you what he did when you were 17 took courage.

Marriage is negativity for men, not for women they can bale out with a nice lottery win after a few years , they will have married up.

As has been said , perhaps if you talk to him about how you see what its about , many many men suffer in silence , what they know is better than unknown. Just as Old Brooks was in Shawshank, one thing is for sure he will be very happy for you seeing this and ensuring you avoid it.

There is nothing but bad news for men in marriage.

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

I remember my dad being scolded in the same way too.
Ironically my mother is an alcoholic and she scolded him for drinking 1 beer whilst drinking a whole bottle of wine.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I’m 40 something and I don’t know any man that is happily married (of those who are still married).

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[FearlessMGHOWParticipant 1928]

I’m in the same situation. I have to listen to my mom nag and bitch at my dad constantly. My dad was a full on PUA in his younger years and marriage has turned him into a complete mangina. He won’t even stand up for himself against her constant nagging and bitching because he’s too insecure and worships vagina too much.

The only reason he got married is because he was brainwashed into doing so and wanted to impress his older family members because they’re big on marriage.

Men like your dad are better than that in my eyes because they actually have a backbone and can tell when they’re being f~~~ed over. I just hope he eventually wakes up and gets a divorce.

Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk. "One hundred women are not worth a single testicle." -Confucius

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