Marriage Just Doesn't Make Sense To Me!!

[Anonymous 6]

So let me get this straight, I’m supposed to sign a legally binding contract signed by me, the spouse, and the state. After I sign that contract, I give up all my rights and say so during the marriage.

Happy Wife, Happy Life
The Wife Is Always Right
Just Do What She Says
She Wins!!

Does any of this sound familiar? Well to me it sounds like a bunch of weak men who were defeated. This sounds like men who have had every bit of manhood zapped out of them. The women argue these men into submission. The men don’t give in because they agree with what the woman is saying, they’re giving in because they want the woman to leave them alone about it. So right there, the woman knows that if she wants something, all she has to do is nag and argue long enough, and the man will eventually break down and give her what she wants. And when that doesn’t work, she gives him sex, and THEN gets what she wants.

But let’s continue, if she is unhappy for too long, she gets to break the contract that we signed and make off with half of my stuff!! And if I make more money than her, and I will because…(Wage Gap), I get the honor of paying her alimony so she can continue the life she had while we were married. And if we have kids, I have to pay her child support for each child. But that doesn’t make sense, shouldn’t the child go to the parent who doesn’t need any financial assistance??

Women, since they were children have had this dream of their fairy tale wedding. Don’t believe me, turn on Disney Channel. Fairy Tales, Princesses, Prince Charming, Happily Ever After, all kinds of nonsense.They grow up believing that they deserve to have the wedding they’ve always dreamed about, and look to their new found beau to provide them this. Remember fellas, It’s her day, you were just invited. Hell, most women just want the wedding and not the marriage. And also don’t forget that three month salary rule. Oh, whats’ that you say? Well, that is the rule where a man must save up three months of his monthly salary and spend it on a wedding ring that is priced to equal the amount he saved up. Stupid? Yep, I know.

Are men nowadays so stupid that they don’t realize that women use sex as a bargaining chip to get what they want??

Women will hold out on sex until they get what they want, and when they get it, the man is then rewarded for his good work, like the good dog he is. So wait a minute, the one thing that a woman can use to bargain with, is also the one thing that EVERY other woman on the planet has?? So why would I fall victim to that trap, when I can get what I want elsewhere. The old saying is, “Why Buy The Cow, When You Can Get The Milk For Free”. The minute you figure out how they use sex, you take away their power over you.

If the woman leaves you, you have to separate all property. That means the house, the land, the furniture, that good chair that you always fell asleep in, the bedroom set, the TV’s, and all other assets that were gained in the marriage. I’m sorry, but I’m not about to work my ass off, to have my hard earned work taken from me by some woman who decided it was in her best interest to break the terms of a legally binding contract, with NO Repercussions for doing so!!!

I just don’t get it, why would I sign a contract that puts me at a disadvantage?? And the argument against me is, “Your Only Thinking Of Yourself, Your Selfish”. Well hold on, let me get this straight.

Me thinking about how this decision will negatively affect me at the beginning, is selfish?? But the woman benefitting positively from my submission, isn’t selfish??

Ohhh I know, I’m a guy!! I’m not supposed to be thinking this clearly, I’m not supposed to be asking questions like this. I was looking at loft apartments for when I graduate college, something cool, somewhere safe and looks great. The rent is $1,000 per month. I would be able to swing that pretty easily. Then I’m asked, what about a girlfriend. In addition to living expenses, I now have to factor in a girlfriend into my monthly budget?? Sorry, not happening. Now they are free to come over, just don’t wake the neighbors. They just can’t stay!!

The goals that I have, the things that I want to do, the things that God has put on my heart for me to get done, I can get done far quicker without a wife.

What do you guys think, I just felt like ranting today.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

Great post. You have your head on strait.

Get a vasectomy.

[The Batman 2020Participant 2112]

You nailed it bro

Your 20's are for learning, your 30's are for earning.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Are men nowadays so stupid that they don’t realize that women use sex as a bargaining chip to get what they want??

The bigger question is: “Why are guys still getting married”?

I know a guy who has been married four times, was financially castrated in the last divorce, and is talking about getting married again!

These are questions that just don’t have an answer I would understand…

[Duke TogoParticipant 2664]

Marriage doesn’t make sense, but fools will be fools.

[WallyParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

I just don’t get it, why would I sign a contract that puts me at a disadvantage?? And the argument against me is, “Your Only Thinking Of Yourself, Your Selfish”. Well hold on, let me get this straight.

Me thinking about how this decision will negatively affect me at the beginning, is selfish?? But the woman benefitting positively from my submission, isn’t selfish??

Excellent post Venom you are spot on, women can only see a resource getting away and try the shaming language, it no longer works. Focusing on the things you find important in life is not selfish, it’s simply being focused. A woman trying to control your life to do what she wants, that’s selfish.

Autolite wrote:

Venom wrote:

Are men nowadays so stupid that they don’t realize that women use sex as a bargaining chip to get what they want??

The bigger question is: “Why are guys still getting married”?

I know a guy who has been married four times, was financially castrated in the last divorce, and is talking about getting married again!

These are questions that just don’t have an answer I would understand…

Why indeed, The marriage contract is insane. Hope you can talk your friend out of it.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Autolite wrote:

The bigger question is: “Why are guys still getting married”?

They believe (as they’ve been taught every second of their lives since birth) that the overwhelming majority of women are unicorns and they just had bad luck.

Now you’d think after four marriages, they might start catching on, but the brainwashing is too deep.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[MACHOParticipant]

Marriage in 2017 has gotten really old!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[bladeParticipant]

MACHO wrote:

Marriage in 2017 has gotten really old!

Where did ya get that pic . Thats my kids grand mar and her mangina husband

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[MACHOParticipant]

blade wrote:

Where did ya get that pic . Thats my kids grand mar and her mangina husband

Funny 😎 well.. to tell you the truth.. I have watched so many movies, And can recall so many scenes from them that it’s easy to match them with the topics.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[BigvernParticipant 1983]

Well said Venom,……..NEVER GET MARRIED……Personally, I’m still struggling with my own poor decisions regarding women. F~~~.

Going you own way, is unfortunately the only option you younger man have.
Avoid the c~~~s, that us older mgtow got saddled with, good luck in your venture’s.

"What made you think, there'd be a livin' in sheep?, Eat, Work, Eat Work and Sleep" - Mark Knopfler.

[AutoliteParticipant]

Wally wrote:

Hope you can talk your friend out of it.

No can do! Besides, what can I tell him about women and marriage that he doesn’t already know?

I’m thinking that there are people who actually want their life to be miserable. Is that possible? I mean are some people really like that???

[AutoliteParticipant]

MACHO wrote:

blade wrote:

Where did ya get that pic . Thats my kids grand mar and her mangina husband

Funny well.. to tell you the truth.. I have watched so many movies, And can recall so many scenes from them that it’s easy to match them with the topics.

It’s a screen shot from “Beetlejuice” IIRC…

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0094721/?ref_=nv_sr_1

[Anonymous 1]

Autolite wrote:

I’m thinking that there are people who actually want their life to be miserable. Is that possible? I mean are some people really like that???

I think so. I’ve met too many married couples that are endlessly bickering about stupid s~~~. The subtle put downs and passive aggressive nagging show me their hatred. I think the hatred gives them something to live for and they wallow in their blue pill misery. Masochistic personality types for sure. Why else would a man marry four times? I bet he is one sad sack of s~~~, but he wouldn’t have it any other way eh?

[AutoliteParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Autolite wrote:

I’m thinking that there are people who actually want their life to be miserable. Is that possible? I mean are some people really like that???

I think so. I’ve met too many married couples that are endlessly bickering about stupid s~~~. The subtle put downs and passive aggressive nagging show me their hatred. I think the hatred gives them something to live for and they wallow in their blue pill misery. Masochistic personality types for sure. Why else would a man marry four times? I bet he is one sad sack of s~~~, but he wouldn’t have it any other way eh?

It seems that some people actually want to have something to complain about. I’m not sure that I understand why that is but that must be the case…

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Having sex without protection doesn’t make sense either but plenty of guys still fall for the “I’m on the pill” line.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Anonymous wrote:

Happy Wife, Happy Life
The Wife Is Always Right
Just Do What She Says
She Wins!!

The married man’s lament. Anytime a guy tells me any of of these things, I tell him to come back and talk to me when he finally finds his b~~~~.

[wizerSpectator 19]

Anonymous wrote:

But let’s continue, if she is unhappy for too long, she gets to break the contract that we signed and make off with half of my stuff!! And if I make more money than her, and I will because…(Wage Gap), I get the honor of paying her alimony so she can continue the life she had while we were married. And if we have kids, I have to pay her child support for each child. But that doesn’t make sense, shouldn’t the child go to the parent who doesn’t need any financial assistance??

1- You get half of her stuff too.
2- If you marry a woman who makes more than you then you are setting yourself up for misery because as you know marriage is nothing more than a business contract that benefits the one with less money.
3- Yes both parents must support their children, no the parent who makes more money is not necessarily the better parent. In fact it’s often the other way around, the non-breadwinner parent, whether its the mother or the father, is often the primary care giver with better parenting skills and the closer bond with the children. It’s “usually” the woman but not always.

Your post is literally filled with misconceptions and inaccurate generalizations. Thanks for giving me the opportunity to clear things up.

Anonymous wrote:

Are men nowadays so stupid that they don’t realize that women use sex as a bargaining chip to get what they want??Women will hold out on sex until they get what they want, and when they get it, the man is then rewarded for his good work, like the good dog he is.

Only if you allow it to happen. The women I’ve met post divorce are more into sex than I am. If a guy is going to act like Pavlovs dog and beg for it and settle for scraps as a reward for some chore well done, that’s HIS problem.

Anonymous wrote:

If the woman leaves you, you have to separate all property. That means the house, the land, the furniture, that good chair that you always fell asleep in, the bedroom set, the TV’s, and all other assets that were gained in the marriage. I’m sorry, but I’m not about to work my ass off, to have my hard earned work taken from me by some woman who decided it was in her best interest to break the terms of a legally binding contract, with NO Repercussions for doing so!!!

When you get married you are entering a binding contract. Anything obtained during the tenure of that contract belongs to both parties and is split evenly regardless of who breaks the contract. You think all of the property should go to the person who didn’t want the marriage to end? What if that person is abusive, or a drug addict or just a loser?

Anonymous wrote:

I just don’t get it, why would I sign a contract that puts me at a disadvantage??

A sane person who makes more money than their partner and/or has more assets would never get married. But most of us don’t think it through, at least not the first time around. We think it “won’t happen to us” until of course it does. I get it, at least the first time, we all screw up. But people who marry again.. and again? They deserve what they get for their stupidity.

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