Marriage Forum: Guy Finds Unicorn Thread (Spoiler Alert: She Has Affair)

[Anonymous 6]

http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/370602-wife-choosing-other-man.html

Hey guys, read the story below. It’s from talkaboutmarriage.com. Dude found a real life unicorn, then guess what? She cheated on him. Yep a future MGTOW.com member. That site is like the bizzaro MGTOW. It’s actually hilarious. This poor guy could really use a good few weeks here at our little place in the world. Remember that there is still work to be done!

I found this board and thought I would start a thread to see if I can get thoughts from others. My Wife is probably too far gone.

Little background on marriage. My Wife and I had a great Marriage and wonderful life. We met when she was 23 and I was 32. Wife is an old soul who likes to sew and cook and comes from a great family where church and family are the focus. She was a late bloomer and really didn’t become attractive until college. She is the youngest of 3 daughters. Wife was sweet, loving, loyal and very attractive – perfect wife material. Wife and I were married in 2010 after dating for 3 years. Wife dated one guy all through college before breaking up with him and then meeting me. From the beginning, she was obsessed with me and would not even go out with her friends unless I came too.

We spent all our time together and genuinely loved being with each other. Without a doubt, we were each other’s best friends. Wife was definitely co-dependent on me and I was with her to some extent. I am an attorney and Wife works in insurance and we have no kids so we traveled extensively and generally lived a fun life. My wife complained about very little and never voiced any problems in our marriage. Wife always seemed happy and we almost never fought.

In April 2016, I started a new law firm which began taking up a lot of my time. Wife also started a new job that required her to travel. We seemed to be acclimating fine to this different/stressful time in our lives. I was working particularly long hours in September and October.

In November 2016, I come home from work to find Wife crying on our couch. Wife says she met a male co-worker and they had an affair during 3 week-long business trips (which happened during the period of my birthday and our anniversary). Apparently they really connected and had great passion. Wife says she was lonely and didn’t know she was unhappy until she met OM. OM is 35 years old and married with three small children and lives in another state 1000 miles away. I was devastated and never suspected A. Wife tells me she loves me and chooses me over the OM. Wife has deep feelings for OM. Wife sends a no contact text to OM the next day and shows it to me. Wife seemed genuinely remorseful. Wife’s two sisters tell me they too had no idea she was in trouble despite talking to her almost everyday. Her entire family is saddened by Wife’s actions.

Two weeks later we are boarding a plane for a previously scheduled trip. I look over and see Wife texting OM and I almost have a panic attack. OM has told his wife of the affair but can’t stop thinking of my wife. My wife says OM reached out to her the night before and said “thinking of you”. Wife apologizes and I take her phone and text OM to never contact my wife or I will tell their employer about what is going on. We then start couples counseling. Wife tells counselor she wants to make our Marriage work.

Another two weeks later though, my wife gives me the ILYBNILWY line. I’m stunned. When I challenge her that she barely knows OM she says she’s known him “101 days” like a teenager. I’m really concerned I’m losing her. But over the remainder of December, things are actually pretty good as we work on us. On New Year’s Eve, we are at a party and Wife says she is thinking of OM. I lose it and tell her I’m done with the marriage.

The next day, Wife is sobbing and tells me she can’t live without me, she wishes A never happened and she will quit her job if it means she keeps me. In late January 2017, we go out of town and one night Wife breaks down crying and says she can’t get over OM. My heart is broken.

Once back home, Wife tells me she wants to separate so she can have time to think. I tell Wife we can do in-home separation on one condition: that she not contact OM. Wife refuses and I make her leave our home. Two days later Wife contacts OM and finds out he has been kicked out of his house by his wife and lives with his brother now. OM is interested in continuing the A. On February 12, I meet WW and she tells me she is choosing OM over me. Wife says she missed me at first but when she found out OM wasn’t with his wife, the separation was easier. I kick Wife out of our house and immediately filed for D. I won’t be plan b option.

Since then, I have gone no contact (I also gave up pursuing several weeks earlier). Wife comes by every Sunday to get clothes for work week and to talk about finances/divorce and while she is home she asks how my week has been, etc like nothing is wrong. I can’t believe this is the same wife who would eagerly wait for me to come home every day just 6-8 months ago.

Wife wants to move where OM lives even though she has never been to that state, knows no one but OM there, has never lived outside our city, might lose her job and would be leaving all friends and family.

Wife’s entire family is against her decision and has helped me through this. They think my Wife is lost and didn’t give our M a chance. I did not ask for their help but they desperately want our M to work. Personal friends have called asking if she has a brain tumor because this is not the person they know. This A has almost zero chance of working and there is literally no one encouraging Wife to leave other than OM. Yet here we are. Everyone I tell is stunned that Wife would have an A. It was so out of character for her. She is so distant and uncaring now. We have been together over 9 years and it’s like it meant nothing. For someone so obsessed with me, I can’t believe our lack of communication doesn’t bother her at some level.

Looking back, I can’t believe I have put up with all this over the past 3 months. I foresee my Wife returning in the future but I don’t know if I would even want her back. Filing for divorce did not snap her out of it. I have lost 20 lbs and am in the best shape I’ve been in 15 years. Anything else I should be doing? Any words of encouragement? I’d be lying if I said I don’t miss her everyday still.

[Branched offParticipant 10920]

It looks like she just wanted to have her cake and eat it. Fairly typical female behaviour.

He did the right thing filing for divorce but sadly that may be only the beginning of his suffering.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[nonameParticipant 746]

This is how one start to GHOW, slut is one c~~~ away to ruining mans life.
Constant reminder of deception, woman has not changed from garden of Eden to today.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. - Aristotle
Warrior asked Fear, “How can I defeat you?” Fear replied, “If you don’t do what I say, I have no power.”

[VerusParticipant 965]

noname wrote:

This is how one start to GHOW, slut is one c~~~ away to ruining mans life.
Constant reminder of deception, woman has not changed from garden of Eden to today.

When I read this I had a sudden realization – the snake in the Garden of Eden was a trouser snake. Even with only one man on Earth, eve was looking for his replacement.

[Jim01Participant 6678]

She WILL be back at some point and unfortunately I suspect that bloke will take her back. Of course the cycle will repeat again so if he does then he is a mug

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

AWALT = NAWALT + time.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

LOL…I hope someone directs him here…Its for his sanity and to reclaim his manhood…Its also to prevent him making another mistake while his life is turned upside down at the moment…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

He is still blue-pill and probably will remain so at least until his bride finally destroys him.

So far, he’s getting off pretty easily.

If she gets ahold of a lawyer, and she will, the DV abuse accusations will appear, turning friends, family and the law against him.

He will have to be ostracized and shunned by everyone in his life before he sees women for what they really are.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Anonymous wrote:

Two weeks later we are boarding a plane for a previously scheduled trip. I look over and see Wife texting OM and I almost have a panic attack

She did that in front of him! How f~~~ing disrespectful can one be? He needs to dump that bitch as soon as he can.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Some of the deadliest snakes are the most beautiful. Now that hes been bitten, hopefully he will not make the same mistake again.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

What a s~~~ situation yet typical.

It reminds of little red flags that occurred when I thought I found my unicorn. When with my socalled woman I naturally didnt feel the need and out of respect didnt look at eye candy / flirt with other hot women that approached me.

Did she reciprocate? heck no. I remember 2 instances where she gazed at other good looking guys in my presence – Its disrespectful – yet she was telling me constantly how much she was madly in love with me. I noticed these little aspects indicating her lack of self control (previous girlfriends never ‘looked’ at other guys in my presence). I dumped her soon after for many reasons – lesson for lurkers – little red flags are important .

In todays society women have been conditioned to feel entitled to monkey branch and cheat and to satisfy their whims EVEN when they have a good husband. CRAZY STUFF – LURKERS – AVOID TODAYS WOMEN.

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

A few key points stand out to me.

He vetted her family. Like that would mean s~~~. He misinterpreted everything. The mother seems nice and sweet and loving but has probably had 10 c~~~s run up her over the last 30 years just like her loving “we have rarely had fights” sweetheart.

She kept stringing him along until OM could get his s~~~ together and leave his wife. She’s shrewed and calculating.

He’s an absolute idiot not to change the locks.

One day, just before she leaves, she will make that call and all his s~~~ will be at risk at court.

That’s how sweet girls f~~~ you with a pineapple.

My first was a fiery Italian, at least I knew where I stood. The second was a placid American who I had to ferret out the secrets that she was leaving me. It was supposed to be a surprise.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Another Unicorn with a mouthful of another Man’s Cum…..

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[BoarParticipant]

As these stories become more apparent, as the notch-count of destroyed men grows, I truly hope that more men will wake up and realize that associating with whiymn is the most dangerous thing they can do. Take up skydiving with an anvil, it will be more thrilling and less painful. And gravity doesn’t lie.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

“From the beginning, she was obsessed with me and would not even go out with her friends unless I came too.”

First BIG red flag, and not the signs of a unicorn.

Women are like children, they can have the best toy in the world, cannot get any better, and yet they NEED to try one or more of those other toys over there. The ONLY thing that kept them in place throughout history is FEAR. Fear of her husband beating her cheating ass down, fear of being outcast with no way to support themselves, and fear of ridicule by society. All safeguards are now absent in today’s society, therefore it is stupidity to think that women will make logical, rational choices instead of ahmygawd feeelzz.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Painful to read so deep into the blue pill it’s sad I found it hard to read he genuinely loved his wife. That story could be anyone of my friends. Fuking c~~~asaurus herd doing c~~~asaurus things.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

That whole site is cancer my god run by tradcon fukery

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

~BS wrote:

Fear of her husband beating her

There is ample proof that men were never allowed to beat their wives throughout history. There are plenty of references and rites for men beat by their woman. One is that a man with a “strong, independent” bitch of a wife. That couldn’t control her. That were hopelessly henpecked were ridden around the town square saddled backward on a donkey.

Men where never allowed to beat men. It’s as if 50 shades of grey being discovered by an archeologist 300 years from now and interpreting it as a sex manual. It is fake history.

Women abusing men is well documented.

Riding the donkey backwards: Men as the unacceptable victims of marital violence

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[ChristopherParticipant 2478]

~BS wrote:

Women are like children, they can have the best toy in the world, cannot get any better, and yet they NEED to try one or more of those other toys over there. The ONLY thing that kept them in place throughout history is FEAR. Fear of her husband beating her cheating ass down, fear of being outcast with no way to support themselves, and fear of ridicule by society. All safeguards are now absent in today’s society, therefore it is stupidity to think that women will make logical, rational choices instead of ahmygawd feeelzz.

THIS ^^^^ thats the whole situation in a nutshell.

Feminism was funded by bankers/politicians to create more taxpayers. MGTOW IS FREEDOM https://archive.org/details/mgtowisfreedomblurayready

[Anonymous 11]

She will truly love you until she doesn’t.

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