Marriage

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Let’s say you’re buying a house. You’re smart and frugal, so you spend years of your life working hard and living out of apartments while saving your money so you can buy one with cash. You shop around for a long time, in different areas, looking at different models and features, until you find one that fits. You make an offer and the seller accepts. You get it inspected. Closing day comes and you buy the house, sign the deed, and transfer the funds.

But then the seller doesn’t give you the house. That’s right. You don’t get the home that you just paid for, even though you paid for it. Why? Just because, that’s why. No real reason.

“This is absurd,” you think. I just bought the f~~~ing house. So you go see your real estate lawyer and he shrugs his shoulders and says “Tough break, the seller whom you just paid doesn’t want to give up the house. Go and find another house to buy instead.” But of course you just spent your entire life’s savings, which maybe you tore your body up earning, so you would have a place to live in the first place.

You review the contract you just signed. You even have the deed in hand. It lays it all out that you are the owner of the home. You go back and point this out. “Yeah, well we play by different rules that say if the seller wants out they can get out even after the contract is signed, and they can keep the money.”

This is marriage.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Nice analogy. However, marriage is a far worse deal than what you just described.

If you get married, YOU WILL LOSE YOUR HOUSE. That is a given. You will pay for a house that you never get to live in.

What you’ll also lose is your family. If you have kids, the evil bitch will take them away from you. That’s far worse than losing a house. That’s why so many divorced men kill themselves.

You’ll also lose the bulk of your income for a number of years. At the very least you will pay alimony and child support if you have kids. They will literally bleed you dry.

On top of that, any pension, investments, or financial assets you have are gone. And to top it all off, you may very well go to prison if you can’t afford all this. We’re talking hundreds of thousands of dollars btw.

I see what you tried to do here and appreciate it, but it doesn’t even come close to the scam of marriage. I can’t think of a single thing more financially irresponsible than getting married, except having kids. If you do these things today, your life is basically over. That’s the reality we face today. You cannot get married or have kids. If you are, you better be willing to put a shotgun in your mouth and pull the trigger. More likely than not, that outcome will be preferrable to the outcome of your marriage.

[MACHOParticipant]

Yep I have experienced this first hand with my one and only wife! She f~~~ed up my life pretty damn good and as far as I know she is still happy about it! Modern Women are indescribably Flaky and Wicked Dangerous! Lurkers you are warned of the dangers of Marriage here!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

And no woman anywhere thinks this is unfair to the man.

But you know if they were the ones getting f~~~ed over, they would demand it be changed immediately and retroactively.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Xanthine, it’s a good analogy because you invest in your home and it is taken away from you. You pay the price, but that’s it.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[Anonymous 6]

I’ve watched as more than a man’s house has been taken from him. His mental health, his children, his financial future, even his business. F~~~ talking about a house and how you can’t have it.

[StealthParticipant 5330]

Anonymous wrote:

I’ve watched as more than a man’s house has been taken from him. His mental health, his children, his financial future, even his business. F~~~ talking about a house and how you can’t have it.

Uh, yeah… so once again, it’s an analogy. A parable, if you will.
Not literally talking about a house.
For people who haven’t married, the situation doesnt make sense. You invest your life into it and it gets stolen from you. Well that’s how it is.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

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