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I know I’m not the only one who’s mother has done things like this. My blue-pilled self would have thought that he is being insensitive and cruel. Now I see that not only is the mother emotionally manipulating him, “squeezing” him from the inside out, but also that the whole thing seems like a s~~~ test. Think about it, the mother goes from a state of denial, to anger, to negotiation, to sadness, to playing the “victim”, all to get her son out the car. This entire situation happened because the mother didn’t get what she want, her son to leave the car, and rather than accepting it and trying to remain calm, she not only tries to emotionally perturb the child, by making him feel like he is hurting her and being “spoiled”(god I hate the word), but also trying to get the officers to sympathize with her, and when that doesn’t work wants to pull him out by force. My mother would use those same tactics when I would stand my ground about certain beliefs she didn’t agree with; being agnostic, weightlifting, hell even going to a college in a different country. And to those things I say “F~~~ THAT”, hell It’ll be a cold day in hell before I take that sort of s~~~ again. sorry for the rant, just have to vent out a bit. anyway I don’t know if this video has already been posted somewhere, but I believe it shows the basic process and stages of the “S~~~ Test”. cheers
My god…
The father did the smartest thing he could have by recording the event in it’s entirety, and keeping his mouth shut as much as he did. I have to admit I didn’t watch the entire 72 minutes, but I watched a fair amount and the entire police scene (which by the way, starts around 50:00 I think). I was very impressed by the way the police handled it and would be surprised if this man didn’t get custody of his son with this recording as character evidence.
This woman emotionally abused her child, repetitively on camera. And then works up a good tear when the police arrive and barely speaks a calm word the entire time the police are there. And then threatening to press charges (1:05:00) for her son rolling the window up to prevent her from unlocking the door and catching her arm in the process. The look on the police officer’s face was priceless, “You want to press assault charges on your son for rolling up the window?”
In addition to berating and “squeezing” her 14 year old son to get out of the car, she attacks the father’s character repetitively; after each time she would say to her son “Oh, I’m sorry, I shouldn’t be talking about this in front of you.” She states many times that the father is a bad influence on the son and insults his political views, choice of employment, choice in living accommodations. She brings a completely adult and personal discussion between the father and mother of the child on the table in front of her son, in an effort to belittle the boy’s father in front of him. She never refers to the boy’s father as “your father”, yet calls the step father “your daddy”. It’s appalling that she would insult the boy’s father in front of the child.
I despise my son’s mother, always will. But I will not speak ill of her in front of my child, and have demanded family members refrain from doing it either. Adult concerns, and personal dramas are not the domain of children. My son’s mother doesn’t contribute financially to his upbringing, I don’t tell my son she don’t love him enough to buy clothes for him; or that she’d rather buy pot then help pay for sports. I just shut my mouth and let my son love his mother. For now at least, she and I have a cease-fire and DO NOT fight or discuss our issues with one another. At the age of 3, my son has even told me “You and mommy are friends because you both love me” on the way to her house for the weekend.
Belittling her child and defaming the father, this woman committed the pure definition of emotional abuse on her 14 year old son. One line in the first ten minutes was just sickening. “By not coming home you’re telling your siblings you don’t love them”. What a cruel tactic to play on a boy. “If you don’t do this, you don’t love me”
Finally I have to say that step-dad shouldn’t have said a f~~~ing word. When he started adding his two-cents, I’m not sure if I could have fought the urge to step out of my truck with a tire-iron in my hand (we don’t have many guns, legally, here in Canada).
Utmost respect to the father for his composure and to the 14 year old boy who only raised his voice to be heard over his mother’s wailings.
At the age of 3, my son has even told me “You and mommy are friends because you both love me” on the way to her house for the weekend.
I did have the correct my son though,
“Your mommy and I are friendly because we love you”
F~~~ing worthless mother c~~~s. They are the ones initiating most of the divorces because they know the courts will give them the big payout. And some scumbag lawyer will tell them exactly how to play the game, rigged in their favor. In fact it has nothing to do with the interests of the children, because they become pawns for the c~~~s to manipulate. Worthless bitches are more concerned about aborting fetuses than actually raising children in the best interests of the child. Because apparently now, acting in the interests of the child is the patriarchy oppressing c~~~s.
You never see the abuse of children appear in domestic abuse stats, because with the the divorce rate and number of single parent, and c~~~ mothers raising the kids, they are the often the ones beating the s~~~ out of the kids and getting a free pass from CFS and the courts. To say nothing of the long term impact of children growing up without a stable father figure in the house. I guess we end up with the f~~~ up feminized society we have now.
Sorry for the profanity but it is quite a despicable situation.
I wish I had the b~~~~ at 14 that this kid showed.
I can’t wait to get out of the house my 18th birthday is January 13th, and i’m extremely eager in getting my Marine Corps enlistment process started immediately after !!! Once I leave home I will never look back, and I have already told my mother and Mangina father that they both will rarely see me (a few times yearly).
Wowwwwwwwwwwwww.
I watched the ENTIRE video…I was literally in Tears for Lil Guy. Yep…A Ninja can Cry. Especially for a Lil Dude who’s trapped with a manipulative Mom and Step-Mangina.
This is another Reminder for me:
(1) NEVA Get Married.
(2) NEVA have kids biologically with ANYONE. Adoption OR Neva having Kids are the Only Options. Even Surrogacy is Legally risky.
This is a terrific example. Watched the whole thing months ago. That f~~~ing air-of-supreriority “do as I say” s~~~….. and then turning around and balling when she doesn’t get her way. It’s really the feminist M.O. exposed. All it takes for it to fail is a simple refusal to subscribe to it – beginning with “no”. Just “no”. The how and the why is irrelevant, its the “no” a woman just doesn’t know what to do with.
Sometimes I see women and their kids and think they had children just to boss them around.
Has she ever tried being a nice person? Or being a Mom so good her son might WANT To get out of the car and be with her? Just like a woman to bark orders “do this”, “do that”, and if you don’t propose by Christmas, you’re gonna die alone. What a way to make a man want to come home. Threaten and scare tactics.
Then you say “no. I don’t want anything to do with you” and the whole pretense falls apart.
Good for him for standing up to her.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Just…wow. I usually wouldn’t have sat down and watched a video of this length, but after about the 5 minute mark it became like a car accident. I couldn’t look away. Hell, I actually made notes of points I wanted to bring up.
-The mother was clearly gaslighting the kid “You did do that, you just probably forgot.” Trying to get him to question his own memories. Despicable.
-She talks s~~~ about her husband for running an “industrial engine business”. All I could think was “So?” Who cares what the guy does for a living, be it a doctor, and industrial engine technician or a garbage man. He’s working hard to provide for himself, his son and probably to get child support for her. So long as he isn’t forcing his son to work there, who cares? Later she says that he lives at his shop, and all I could think was “Gee, that house you’re living in looks pretty nice. I wonder if you paid for that with the alimony and child support? I also wonder if those same payments are the reason why he has to live in his machine shop?”
-One thing the dad (and to a lesser extent the kid, although he did get upset and emotional later on, and rightfully so) did amazingly was just keeping quiet. This is an invaluable tool in an argument, especially with women. By staying silent, they tend to talk to fill the air. And when you couple that with the fact he’s recording everything she says, you have a double whammy.
-She keeps bringing up his age in response to legitimate questions. Every time he asks or says something that challenges her, she dismisses it with “You’re 14, you don’t understand, you’re a minor.” You don’t have to be an adult to recognize emotional manipulation or differentiate right from wrong.
-“You’re in turmoil every time you come back from a weekend with your dad.” To me this screams denial. She is absolutely convinced that it’s something the dad has been doing to make him this upset every time he comes back. In her mind, there’s no possible way the reason he’s upset is because he doesn’t want to live with her.
-“Your backpack/all your things are in there.” That sounds pretty benign at first, but a red flag shot up when I heard it. That sounds like blackmail. “If you don’t come in, I’ll get rid of all your stuff,” is a manipulation tactic that’s been used against me dozens of times. This proves true at the end when he goes in to get his schoolbooks and clothes and she tries to physically prevent him from leaving.
-When she talks to the police on the phone, she flat out lies about him being made to stay in the truck. Trying to make it sound like the father is refusing to let him out, when he says multiple times “I won’t make him get out. It’s his choice.” Also, I love how she says “You’re his father. You can make him get out of your truck.” Yeah, because your “I’m your mother, get out of the truck” idea was working so well, right? Also, look at how THE SECOND she takes the phone she turns on the tears.
-“You only see him 48 days out of the year.” She tries to use this to convince him that he shouldn’t stay with him, but the reason he can only see him so little is YOU MADE IT THAT WAY. You could have easily asked for shared custody or for more time with his father, but no, you opted to strangle him.
-Then she tries to bribe him using a car they apparently got for him. Now, this kid is 14. Unless I’m mistaken, and correct me if I am, you can’t operate a car until you’re 16 in pretty much all states. So she’s trying to coax him out with the promise of something he legally can’t use for two years. Her armor is starting to crack.
-“Calm down.” Love that one. They get hysterical, but the second you match their tone they tell YOU to reign it in.
-When he mentions being hit by her and she says, right on camera “I will hit you again.” She sort of tries to back track and say it was a spanking, but the kid brings up instances of being struck and choked, and near the end she tries to lock him in his room and prevent his escape. Now you see why he doesn’t want to go back.
All in all, that entire video made my heart HURT. To see a kid that young in pain, just makes me angry. At least it sort of had a happy ending; the two policemen (by the way, a couple of straight up smooth operators. Good job boys, you’re more of what we need) allow the kid to leave with his dad. I am friends with a fair few officers and they have stopped things like that from happening. So to repeat that it’s a civil matter and let him leave shows that they see what’s going on, they understand the situation and they see the mom is a psycho. They let him go because they know that while the courts may take him back, every second that kid is away from his mother is a positive place to be for him. Good job again, guys.
@OldAtHeart Here is a video you might be interested in. It was posted this morning.
Terrance Popp — CAN’T CUT THE MUSTARD
There’s talk of lowering the physical standards in order for women to enter frontline combat, so Popp takes a look at the tests from the Center for Military Readiness, conducted by the US Marine Corps.Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
I couldn’t bear to watch that video. I am so glad I don’t have to go through what that boy and his father do.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
Wasn’t planning on watching the entire video, but I basically did, minus the early part where the mom didn’t come out yet. I grew up in a household a little similar to this so I feel like I can understand where this kid is coming from. All the manipulation, shaming, bribes, and attempts to get him to submit by force are just met with a resolute “NO”. This is the best way to stand up for yourself. Can’t stress it enough, most valuable word in your vocabulary. Just say NO, point blank and firmly. The father did his best in the gyno-judicial system but obviously got f~~~ed over. Good on him and the son though. The sons a little older and needs to do this for himself, if the mother wants to cry a river, stomp her feet and cause a disturbance then that’s on footage and will only work against her if they do go back to the courts.
I watched this video in its entirety about eight months ago… oh man did it boil my turnips. Props to the kid for keeping his head on in a very stressful and difficult situation. I know what it means to be desperate to get away from my mother when everyone else thought she was perfect and I was the one with the problems. The dad in this situation was such a man… I only wish my father had 2% of the b~~~~ this guy had. And the cops… I know their power can get away with some of them at times, but to see how patient and un-moved by this crazy female’s hysterics they were, well respect to them too.
Brief story here… I had three mothers. The first was my adopted mother who was a total psycho who threatened to kill me. She literally held a gun to my head. I severed my relationship with her when I was 16. My second mother was a decent woman who married my father… she cooked, cleaned and raised the kids like a proper woman should. She had her moments but she was okay, for the most part. The third mother was my birth mother who I met when I was 43. We had a relationship for about a year at which point she revealed herself to be deeply manipulative and obsessed with money. I no longer speak with her either.
I have no doubt that the mother in this video was actually aggressively physical with her boy. He is obviously a willful, independent male who knows he has options and isn’t going to be pushed around by a female and that kind of female just can’t abide by anything less than 100% submission.
Does anyone know how that story ended up? Did the father get custody?
I have seen this video before, and the Father is pretty well versed in the law. There’s another video out with the Son in tears, because He has to go home with His Mother, and a Male Police Officer gives the Kid some pretty awesome advice. Just by watching it, you could tell the Cop knows deep down who the Kid should be with but can’t outright say it. His Mother displays the true manipulative mother type, Whinny, makes excuses, makes s~~~ up.
What sucks is that I’m sure this bitch promised Her Ex Husband the world, after the first or second kid popped out, she changed her tune and didn’t want to be with Him anymore. Look at Her second Husband, (the boys step father), classic Mangina who pretty much licks His Wife’s boots and agrees with every f~~~ing thing She says or does. Obviously the Kid doesn’t want to go home, therefor there is a problem with the Mother and at Home.
"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb
The sad thing is, from what I heard anyhow, is that two months later the boy was returned to his mothers home. Last thing I heard about it. Truly sad that such an abuse can be carried out unto a boy, and the excecuter of the abuse not only doesn´t recieve any sort of punishment, but gets to keep doing it.
Wow. That lady is protecting her support$$ to finance her new “family”. Funny watching White Knight “daddy” hover near the whole time, snap to mommy whenever she snaps out an order: get my orders, call the police, blah blah blah.. That Gents is a true White Knight!
Anyone know how did this turn out in the end?
Just rolling down the road
What’s crazy is that the Step-Mangina married a woman with 4 kids from a previous relationship. Probably his first Pussy or regular Pussy.
I feel sorry for Lil Dude though.
SamMGTOW
Can’t stress it enough, most valuable word in your vocabulary. Just say NO
Thanks Sam. It can’t be stressed enough. I wish I learned that word 15 years sooner, but it’s not your / our / anyone’s fault. Naturally we want to say yes because it makes us feel good. But when you put it in terms of integers, you can see how bad it is.
When she expects a yes, if you oblige, it’s not a +1.
In her mind, you’re an “asshole” (-1) if you say no.
…. which means “yes” only places you at zero. (0)I’m never saying “yes” again if doing so only keeps me at 0.
It will be acknowledged as a +1 or the answer will be a resounding no.A couple months ago I was getting gas , and this bouncy 19-21 year old girl asked me for something rather insignificant. I just said “no”. It’s irrelevant what it was. I could have just as easily said yes. But she reacted as if my “no” was the same as treating her badly. That’s why it had to be a “no”.
Unfortunately, a kid without a father has to do whatever his mom says.
And boy, do mothers ever milk this and take it as far as they can.If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I have no idea how old this video is, but let’s assume it’s current to this year, and that kid is still 14. That means he has less than 4 years left under that woman’s roof (barring some different circumstance like she abuses him and he’s able to prove it and move in with his dad, etc). This can go one of two ways:
1. Four years under the dictator like lifestyle of this woman and her mangina patsy husband breaks him, and he becomes another white knight/blue pill worker drone momma’s boy.
2. He rockets the f~~~ out of that house the minute the clock hits midnight on his 18th birthday and goes off to greener pastures, never forgetting the awful things women are capable of.
Know what? My money is on #2. This kid has already shown more guts at 14 than most people have at 40. I really hope that sometime, whether be it between now and his 18th birthday or after he’s free from her, he stumbles on this site, or anything manosphere related.
It doesn’t take a thousand men to create a MGTOW. Just one old c~~~.
Confirms what i always thought.
Children are smart and they see trough the s~~~.And i believe that’s why women bulls~~~ will eventually backfire.
A friend of mine had a mother like this.
The poor bastard was in the military, and had important responsibilities.
The wife took off with his money and appartement and went living seaside and buying hermes bags.
The poor husband was left alone in a small appartement with a leg disabled.Well my friend took off and studied hard, became a lawyer.
He got married last year.
His mum got excited and started telling all her friends.
Turns out she wasn’t invited.- AuthorPosts
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