Mangina brother is getting married

[Wandering MGHOWParticipant 551]

My mangina brother has decided to succumb to the pressure of society and has recently gotten engaged. The wedding has been set for later this year and the family wants me to attend. Worst of all they even want me to be the best man…

Now my take on it is this: If mangina want to commit living suicide, then let them. As the saying goes, you can only lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink. It’s his choice, and he WILL learn one day of his mistake, but until then I have to go through with this s~~~.

The MAIN concern that I have however, is this: I f~~~ing HATE pictures. I despise them and it makes me cringe knowing that I will be up on stage like some f~~~ing clown performing for the audience in the crowd, all while having my picture snapped every 3 seconds. I’m sure video will be recorded as well. The worst part about all of this, is that these pictures will undoubtedly end up on all forms of social media and may eventually even lead to appearing on a google search of me. What p~~~es me off is that I went my entire f~~~ing life (even before knowing what MGTOW was) under the radar and tried my best to live a life of complete stealth. I succeeded for the most part, but It was all for nothing. In the end, I will be done in by a f~~~ing mangina, my brother no less…There goes decades worth of stealth out the window…

I have tried to tell people about this and all they do is laugh at me and say “Wow! Sucks for you!” but they don’t seem to understand how serious I take it. I literally get anxiety thinking about it. I feel like I want to pass out and faint at the thought of being up on stage with 1000 manginas and c~~~s in the crowd who I don’t even know all recording my face. That is MY F~~~ING FACE, therefore I own the rights to it. You have no right to own a piece of my body without my permission. Sadly, nobody else sees it this way. I’ve tried to speak up about my concerns about this, but my family are all brainwashed drones. My mother is happy her son is finally getting married and doesn’t give a flying f~~~ about her other son. Its useless trying to tell them.

I would rather walk through the fires of hell than attend this bulls~~~ fest between “Pride & Gloom”. But because I’m directly related to the “gloom”, I sort of have to attend. I sort of have to be the best man. I know that some people might suggest that I don’t “have” to do s~~~, and I could choose to just not show up, but its a bit more complicated than that. PLEASE give me some advice on what to do. This will be one of the worst f~~~ing days of my life and nobody seems to understand. I figured if there is ANYONE on earth who would understand, it would be MGTOW. I f~~~ing hate everybody involved in this day of hell. Please help.

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

But because I’m directly related to the “gloom”, I sort of have to attend. I sort of have to be the best man. I know that some people might suggest that I don’t “have” to do s~~~, and I could choose to just not show up, but its a bit more complicated than that. PLEASE give me some advice on what to do

Take the money you would have spent on suits, drinks, a bachelor party, etc. Call this #1.
Now calculate the time you would spend on the wedding or wedding related tasks. Multiply this by your average post-tax hourly income. Call this #2.

Take the sum of #1 and #2. This is #3. Take 50% of 3 and buy a glossy/expensive-looking gift for the bride and groom, while saying that you can’t do the best man stuff b/c of a serious work-related obligation.

As it is, the wedding is for the bride….they won’t care in 6 months that you didn’t attend.

That way, you maintain good relations, and you also maintain your privacy.

[Anonymous 42]

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

Worst of all they even want me to be the best man…

Get sick for a couple of days? Go someplace far and say the car broke down? Disappear? Get 4.0 drunk, then attend, you’ll get a real good look at all the shinny shoes!
You’re talking to a guy that blew off Christmas for a powder day (it flew like a lead balloon), I liked it so much, years later I blew off Christmas all together, no more Holiday rush, no more stress, it’s just one big commercial blitz.
I do know the meaning of Christmas, I say some prayers, but I will not contribute to the hypocrisy of being nice for a season, then transforming back into a bitter wolf mode like everyone else ( don’t go up and down with the seasons, I try to maintain strait and level).
Back on subject, you can either make your stand, so when your brother’s discarded and suffering, you won’t look like a hypocrite, in fact it’s your duty to object if that’s how you truly feel. Knocking Christmas on it’s ass just happened, I can’t be a hypocrite anymore, marriage, family, the republic, all destroyed by gynocentrism and the monster of feminism, 50 years, that’s a long time. I feel sorry for your similar genetic cartridge (I mean bother) he has no idea about the sadness he going to endure. Princess owns him on that day, it’s not to be celebrated any more, at least no my any “real men”….

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

Simply try to get yourself off the “best man” post, doesn’t your maginabrother have some blue pill friends, who would gladly take that bullet?

This removes yourself from having to plan the stupid bachelor party, having to spend money on some lame as tux, and can instead buy a more casual suit you would use more often, for your own pleasure, and you would save yourself from, having to make a silly speech, or at least from making a long one.

At least through this, you would avoid too much of the attention you seemingly fear of having, and you’ll be able to play along on a less dramatic level.

[RoyDalParticipant]

I like Oneforfreedom’s plan. I always do my best to get out of these things. Good luck.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

Well he’s f~~~ed, nothing else to say.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

I stick with Oneforfreedom in this one too.

That is the best way to avoid that. Either way, you will win.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Sounds like your brother is someone who needs to learn his lessons the hard way. You are not going to be able to change that.

Wandering MGHOW wrote:

The wedding has been set for later this year and the family wants me to attend.

Is it going to have an open bar? That’s really the only thing that matters.

Worst of all they even want me to be the best man…

Then you have an opportunity to lay down some truth in your best man toast. Why not take advantage of that?

It’s the Best Man’s traditional duty to make sure the groom chump gets to the venue on time and presentable. Or to help him bail out if he comes to his senses in time. How you choose to perform that duty is up to you.

At the very least you’ll be able to tell him: “I told you so,” five years from now when she divorces him and takes half his stuff.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Great responses.
Don’t get shamed or obligated to do something you are not comfortable doing.
Tell your family you pass on the best man position. You can attend while maintaining a low profile. A nice gift will help. You might toast the happy couple (not) if you feel up to it.
I feel sorry for your brother. Some of us (myself included) have to learn the hard way.
Don’t make the same mistake

[robotronParticipant 40]

I was asked to do it for my bro a while back. I absolutely dreaded it. I just bit the bullet and did it. My bro was there for me in the past and this was important to him whatever I thought about it. I took it all for what it was, a big act and just played the part. I made a challenge out of it. I spent months going to a public speaking group and nailed the speech. Everything fell into place around that.

[Anonymous 5]

You have two choices.

1. Tell them you are not going/don’t go. Who gives a s~~~ if your family is p~~~ed off? They will forgive you eventually or they don’t…so f~~~ em! You don’t need them.

YOUR mental health is number 1. YOU are number 1. You have to take care of yourself. If they can’t understand how damaging this is too you, then f~~~ em.

OR

2. You go and you f~~~en ruin the wedding. Let them see your anger. When it comes to the speech, tell them exactly what will happen. She will cheat on him, divorce him and take half his s~~~.

When the priest guy asks if anyone has “any reason why these two should not marry”, you stand up, pull out a giant list and start screaming them out loud 1 by 1. If you have to suffer, then everyone else is going to suffer.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Tell your brother outright “I don’t want to do it, I’m not doing it, Get someone else”

I told my daughter that if she invited my mother to her wedding I wasn’t going to attend. She said she wouldn’t take sides and invited both me and my mother.

When she handed me the invitation I immediately confirmed that I would not be attending. She knew it was coming. I confirmed that I would not be walking her down the isle or giving her away. She stood her ground and I stood mine. I was totally relieved that I didn’t have to go. And that is the way it was. Period.

[OldBillParticipant]

Honesty is the best policy. Tell them in no uncertain terms that you don’t want to be the best man. You don’t need to explain why. All you need to do is hold firm.

Remember, your idiot brother’s fiance, your mother, and all the other women involved are going to try and browbeat you into changing their mind. Keep telling them no and keep your reasons to yourself. They’re going to want to get on planning the “big day” and they don’t want to spend too much time on such a small item when they’d rather cream their panties over pigeons, silverware, canapes, dresses, and all the other worthless s~~~ c~~~s swaddle marriage-rape in. If you hold firm, they’ll soon give up and pin the job on some other poor bastard.

I’ve two younger sisters and got tapped early on to walk both down the aisle. I said no, stuck to my guns, and they eventually moved on. I didn’t explain why, I didn’t need to explain why. It was my f~~~ing choice, that’s all they needed to know.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

Is there anything you can do to make yourself look drastically different on the wedding day? For instance, if you are clean shaven, you can grow a big beard between now and then. Or you can shave your head. Or you can grow your hair real long.

I don’t know. That’s all I got.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[Swen AugustParticipant 373]

you are faced with a decision – perhaps several. you should always make your own decisions and they should be based on facts and truth. Do some research – search your heart. Do you love your bro enough to endure the potential joy or travesty. Truth like everything else comes from within. Do what is right for you, talk to your bro, what does he want, what does his bride want – what do you want. That and bridesmaids get really horny at weddings, but if the bride wants to………..sound the alarm.

scream and shout-jump up and down-run around in circles!

[Anonymous 2]

Wear a clown mask.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Go to Amazon.com and buy him some books on prenuptial agreements.

Book time with a lawyer and take him there unbenounced to him.

The lawyer will make him realize he is about to….

ENTER INTO A LIFETIME LEGALLY BINDING CONTRACT THAT WILL FINANCIALLY ENSLAVE HIM TO HER FOREVER.

This is why women are sll happy about hooking a man……their new slave.

He is pussy whipped now.

Later his wife will “Go Toad”…

Here comes the bride.. all fat ‘n wide!

This is EXCELLENT ADVICE!!! I wish a friend had dragged my butt to an attorney before my marriage from hell. And rest assured- the lady WILL put on a different face post nuptials once she has him by the b~~~~. Ladies love to brag about “hooking a man”.

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