man realises in what kind of s~~~ty deal he's got into it and snap

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  • #251967
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    Wolf redpillman
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    after 20 year of marriages after talking to attorney this man snap, this is for all that blue pill men’s out there,, http://www.star-telegram.com/news/local/community/northeast-tarrant/article81198997.html

    #251968
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    Wolf redpillman
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    most of us as mgtow and redpill men’s knows what probably happen there to make this man snap, that attorney probably said you gonna have to pay her alimony for life and give her half of all your assets, and bang this fool snap, marriages its a s~~~ty deal for men’s when are this fools gonna learn???????

    #251974
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    Anonymous
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    Allways remeber that liveing well is the best revenge.Even if she gets your assets,you can decide to enjoy life anyway. She will be more angry at that than you are about the alimony.

    #251978
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    Faust For Science
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    I wonder how many lives of greedy misandry women whom MGTOW has saved by MGTOW helping men, whom are victims of these women, get over their red pill rage?

    #252022
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    Experienced
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    She didn’t think that’d be part of the settlement.
    This might make THE LAYDEEZ think twice vs. assuming that harvesting the man is always an option.
    “You go girl, woo hoo”
    “Of course it’s fair, screw him for every nickel you can”

    Lead diggers

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

    #252023
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    most of us as mgtow and redpill men’s knows what probably happen there to make this man snap, that attorney probably said you gonna have to pay her alimony for life and give her half of all your assets, and bang this fool snap, marriages its a s~~~ty deal for men’s when are this fools gonna learn???????

    You bet. I have been that angry before, and the scary about getting that angry is:

    1. You don’t even know you’re capable of it.
    So I didn’t even know my own limit.

    2. You don’t CARE anymore.

    The worst thing anyone can do is bring a man to the point of not caring. As soon as he doesn’t care anymore, the rules are out the window.

    So one meeting with a divorce attorney after my wife of 20 years said something like THIS???

    VERY openly and honestly, I don’t know angry I could possibly be at a c~~~ like that….. but I can guarantee you, I would not care anymore. And there would be NO LIMITS to what I would do to make sure she didn’t get away with it.

    Thank you for this post.
    And have a nice day.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #252029
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    CPT Obvious
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    I blame the courts for letting women divorce rape men.
    He felt his life was over, a slave and killed his future enslaver.
    This has happened before and will again unless they change laws.

    Absolutely true.

    I did some digging into other articles and read comments of posters who were familiar with situation. Can’t say if everything is true but it does paint a familiar picture.

    She had an affair, and he found out and moved out. The Chad boyfriend, Jason Hitt, was spending a lot of time at the house after he left.

    She was a single mom before they married and brought two kids into the relationship that he helped raise. One of the kids had 2 kids, and they were helping with the grandkids.

    She filed first but, Dee-Dah-Dee, filed in the wrong county so it was dismissed. He filed shortly after and she countered-claimed and hit him with an order of protection. (Surprise, surprise).

    The rest I am assuming. She now had access to all his assets and the Chad is living with her. He can’t access house or see kids because of restraining order. She likely cleaned out all joint accounts and was selling off all his stuff.

    He realized after talking to the lawyer that this cheating, lying c~~~ was about to clean him out while riding a new c~~~ at his house, and he was going to be on the hook for child support for kids that were not his own.

    He would have also been hit with her outrageous alimony demands and was told that his life savings was about to be cut in half to give her a payout, then his half would be cut in half again to pay for both parties attorneys and to pay off all their debt.

    He sees her for who she really is, can’t believe how stupid he was, and gets overwhelmed by the financial ruin and slavery in front of him.

    Then, as OP says, he snaps. No claims or reports of DV in the past. But in despair, rage, and helplessness he strikes out violently against the women he supported for 20 years and thought loved him back.

    This crucible of divorce rape and consequential rage is brought to you by our legal system. If the courts truly wanted to prevent this type of thing from happening, they would change some of these outrageously biased laws.

    One of the most simple changes would be to not allow a restraining order/order of protection to be granted in conjunction with a divorce filing.

    If an order of protection is in force before a divorce, papers can not be filed for divorce until after the hearing for the order to see whether it will upheld or quashed.

    This is necessary to prevent women from using these orders to automatically kick a man out of his house, alienate him, financially weaken him and gain leverage during the divorce. In every case I have seen (including my own), these orders are thrown out when finally heard by a judge, but the damage is already done.

    "You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."
    #252031
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    CPT Obvious
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    I have been that angry before, and the scary about getting that angry is:
    1. You don’t even know you’re capable of it.
    So I didn’t even know my own limit.
    2. You don’t CARE anymore.

    And THAT is the problem with a divorce system that is deeply biased and uses restraining orders as leverage. The order actually facilitates the supposed violence it is supposed to prevent.

    I never physically harmed my ex wife. She had an affair, the relationship was broken, so I moved out. It was amicable and I was going by the house regularly.

    So when I got hit with a restraining order and thick divorce packet with all kinds of false accusations and how she feared for her and the kids life, it sparked a rage in me I did not know existed.

    She was selfishly and maliciously attempting to take everything from me. Thoughts went through my head of retaliation that I never dreamed possible.

    "You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."
    #252033
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
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    This has happened before and will again unless they change laws.

    No. A man should point the finger at exactly where it belongs: at WOMEN.

    A woman / ex-wife / live in girlfriend can single handedly make sure that her husband is not destroyed in a divorce. She can laugh in the judges’ face, and then say “Whatever you award me , I will give back to him. And there is NOTHING you can do about it. You order him to pay me $35 million? He’s getting $30 million back + a house for his birthday.”.

    Then she can turn to her husband and say “I loved you very much. And I’m very sorry it didn’t work out. Whatever they order you to pay, I will give most of it back because I would rather have my husband back.”

    … said no woman in divorce court ever.

    Laws or not, women could single handedly end this s~~~. But they won’t and the legal system KNOWS what greedy , selfish c~~~s they ALL are.

    YES, ALL.

    It doesn’t matter if he has $100K … $1MILLION… or $1BILLION.
    The c~~~ will send a check for $975 million back and say “that’s not enough”.

    Anything to finish him off.
    Even if it kills him.

    It’s a mistake to think he “snapped”. He was perfectly sane at the time and knew EXACTLY what he was doing. Just like his wife… he stopped caring. She was probably not counting on that. She left the courthouse grinning like a cheshire cat, and he permanently wiped that grin off her face.

    Worst thing anyone can do is drive a man not to care. The most dangerous man in the word is the one who has nothing left to loose – and who longer gives a s~~~.

    This is why no man should ever marry a woman who hates him enough to actually let him go through with it. Women treat their husbands WORSE than if she never met him at all.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #252035
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    TaxGuy
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    You bet. I have been that angry before, and the scary about getting that angry is:
    1. You don’t even know you’re capable of it.
    So I didn’t even know my own limit.
    2. You don’t CARE anymore.

    You know why you didn’t know you were capable? Because if a man started trying to p~~~ you off like a woman does, eventually you’d say “either this ends now or we fight.” But when you are pushed to that point where you want to say “enough or we fight” by a woman, then you realize you have no release for that anger. And then she has the f~~~ing audacity to see that and push it further.

    The trust that a woman has that she can push a man past the point of where you would break a guy’s nose but you still won’t touch her is astounding. And the fact that 99.999999% of the time the guy walks away should speak volumes to how strong the blue pill brainwashing is on a man. Just check out the look of surprise on the women’s faces in the those videos where a guy actually does hit them back.

    Order the good wine

    #252040
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    Keymaster
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    The trust that a woman has that she can push a man past the point of where you would break a guy’s nose but you still won’t touch her is astounding….

    That’s what SHE thinks.

    I have actually looked into a woman’s face and had to SAY this to her directly: “If you ever f~~~ing touch me like that again, I will have NO problem spending a couple of nights in jail for the satisfaction of bashing your f~~~ing face in until you are unrecognizable”.

    Because I didn’t care anymore.
    ( She was not counting on that, either.)

    When delivered properly, it packs more than a punch. No violence is ever required. And for the record – and still to this day – I have never hit a woman unless it was hilarious.

    A woman should know better than to try and f~~~ with a man – or f~~~ her own ex husband over. They all say “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. HA HA!!”….. like women all have license to behave in as evil and destructive manner as they wish – without any consequences.

    This is FUNNY to them. It’s their own fault for thinking she can behave like c~~~, but a MAN should just sit there and take it. In what universe did she really expect to enjoy another day.

    Save a male and stop a wedding.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #252045
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    Ronin De Niro
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    Everyone is talking about hitting back and I’m here excited with the possibility to dance around her, dodging and bobbing like Muhammad Ali or Pai Mei.

    #252050
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    Everyone is talking about hitting back and I’m here excited with the possibility to dance around her, dodging and bobbing like Muhammad Ali or Pai Mei.

    OH no no no…. on the contrary, you can hurt a woman much worse by ignoring her completely. Bruises heal, but abandonment issues are forever.

    I don’t “hit back” because I would never permit a woman to think she can hit me in the first place. When she KNOWS you’ll beat the s~~~ out of her, she won’t even think about it.

    You don’t actually have to DO it.
    You just make sure she doesn’t ever think that you won’t.

    We’ve talked bout this many times before: “I could but I won’t”.
    To a woman, it’s “I CAN!!! AND I WILL!!!”.

    That’s how a woman thinks she’s “teaching him a lesson”.

    Stupid.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #252051
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    He made an emotionally-based decision, and emotionally-based decisions are BAD for you.

    • You don’t sign a lease on a dare.
    • You don’t sell a stock just because it dropped 10%
    • You don’t race some asshole, just because he calls you “chicken”.
    • And you definitely don’t sign a f~~~ing marriage contract because it “feels like you’re in love”.

    All, bad emotionally-based decisions.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #252059

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    Sad story, the guy was somewhat narcissistic and spoiled to act that way. I blame it on him for not accepting reality and whatever it throws your way. He allowed himself to be conditioned by thinking he has control over her, that somehow the time vested was a purchase on her soul, like he somehow owned her and gave himself the audacious right to collect on the investment. He must have convinced himself that his wrath was the only justice.
    He chose Neanderthal algorithms rather than the intellectual algorithms (always playing mental chess and staying in control, never loosing your cool).

    He has the mental tenacity of a spoiled 5 year old.

    Snapping like that is a choice he made after a life of not practicing self control, he allowed the wrath to overwhelm him from being a mental inviolate and a grown-up spoiled brat.

    That’s what you get for not nipping it in the bud, he was probably ignoring the red flags from the get-go!

    A man owns his own mind, how he takes care of it is entirely up to him. This guy allowed this to happen because he had no mental training in accepting things as they are, he never disciplined himself, he never learned how to regroup while walking away.

    He fed the monsters of vengeance and wrath instead of starving them as a built in mechanized defense, he lost his s~~~ cause he had no self control.

    If he spent a little bit of time rewiring his head for utter self control, this may have never taken place.

    #252081
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    Keymaster
    Keymaster
    Keymaster

    He has the mental tenacity of a spoiled 5 year old. If he spent a little bit of time rewiring his head for utter self control, this may have never taken place.

    This isn’t his problem. I don’t know if you have seen women get provocative, but I can think of a few occasions where I almost lost control. And I’m no the only one. Men don’t climb out of vehicles to shoot a wife of 20 years in an intersection – just because he’s nuts.

    Why is a man always expected to be the one to exercise “self control”, but a woman can just say , do , run rampant, and set out destroy families and property whenever she wants.

    ?

    It’s even embedded in the culture and embraced by music videos that women are justified , but men should exercise self control??

    When men “snap” like this, like that black police officer 2 years ago who went on a shooting spree…. well the system he vowed to protect let him down. And he didn’t care anymore either.

    They say “he snapped” , “he’s crazy” but you could have passed him on the street while holding a gun and he would have walked right past you, because he KNEW EXACTLY who he was after, and what he was doing.

    He exercised self control for 20 years of being married to that c~~~ already.
    And you KNOW she wants to thank him by finishing him off.

    Women will have to learn some self control. Because they (and the legal system) have literally declared “war” on their own husbands.

    And “all is fair and love and war. Right bitch?”
    I wonder if that was his closing line.

    Wouldnt it be cool if the guy did not do that and just vanished to south america.

    Whatever it takes.

    This is not called “snapping” or “losing his control”.
    THE MAN WAS MAD AS HELL. AND HE HAD EVERY REASON TO BE.

    Anger is legitimate emotion in the face of injustice.
    F~~~ any person who says a man shouldn’t be angry here.

    His emotional reaction to the emotion could use a little work. But like I said, when a man doesn’t care anymore, it’s not HE who has a problem now. It’s whoever he’s p~~~ed the f~~~ off at. They weren’t paying attention previously, they didn’t listen or hear him, and now he’s done with the “self control” bulls~~~.

    I’m not saying he’s RIGHT. But I understand.
    Watch what he says at 2:30 and the applause at 3:30.

    If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.
    #252113
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    Stargazer
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    A woman / ex-wife / live in girlfriend can single handedly make sure that her husband is not destroyed in a divorce.

    Can, but won’t… and men, talking amongst ourselves about such issues for probably the first time in history, are figuring this out.

    I was going to post that “but I understand” video… you beat me to it.

    #252134
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    K
    Hitman
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    I was going to post that “but I understand” video… you beat me to it.

    i actually posted that the other day on another thread..
    it works perfectly here …
    we men get the s~~~ end of the stick in every courtroom .
    disposable utilities.
    somewhere along the line the world declared war on us .
    it’s sinister.
    fair ? no, life isn’t fair.
    but this OUTRIGHT biased against men .
    the restraint of force is the greatest power..
    but this guy , after 20 years gets SCREWED OVER so hard..
    he went for the kill.
    i CANNOT condone it , but i really do understand it.
    the anger at the injustice can blind you to other options.
    i was close to it once not long ago..
    thank god for MGTOW.
    sanity lives here.

    #252166
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    Anonymous
    54

    A woman can p~~~ you off like nothing else in life.And KM is righ theres nothing as dangerous as a Man who longer cares.People dont just snap. The pressure has been building for a long time. I would never DARE p~~~ a Man off that badly,but they have no problem with it.It is a bad risk they nieuvely take.I have been to that point,but have great self control.This guy just though,she aint gettin away with it,and i dont give a f~~~ about the consequences.She took a bad risk.All c~~~s should know its a bad risk to push a Man to where he has nothing to loose.

    #252206
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    Experienced
    experienced
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    When everything she did was reflected upon,
    And he resultantly chose what to do…
    Well there you have it, all you laydee lurkers.
    Pull her s~~~, it’ll never happen to you.

    "It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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