Man qualities ( advice req )

[Psl47Participant 678]

Hello guys ,
I just want to ask for advice how i can become more manly, masculine ( 28 y.o , grown with single mother and sister )
Living on my own for 2 years now …

So i need an advice , because ive kind of “stopped” where i am now…

So a little bit of activities im doing :
Going gym since 2014 oct … ripped (2-3 time a week )
Not much of a reader but do read books from time to time …
Dont go out much because investing into some project ( until july month i need money for project )
Non drinker non smoker …

And ..
I kind of craving for womans touch …and softnes …
Got the flashlight … taking red pills…

But i am in that weightless state now …
And i feel like if a girl hits on me ,would fall for a pussy …
Oh damn …
What do you say guys ?
Feed me ( lol 😉 )

.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Well…. OK…. the “definition” of a man is basically XY chromosomes. The rest is up to you. And MGTOW are pretty emphatic about that. Not looking to others for social cues etc.

But if you want a nickel’s worth of free advice, don’t give a rats ass if a woman “likes” you or not. Because it’s not important, and doesn’t even have any bearing on whether or not she will have sex with you.

Please don’t take my word for it. Make up your own mind. Look around. REALLY look around, and you’ll notice there are 4 very distinct “manly” qualities that women generally say they DON’T like:

• Unpredictable
• Uncontrollable
• Challenging
• Dominant

Those qualities drive women crazy and infuriate them. But will she still have sex with guys like that? Even if she says he’s the totally wrong guy? Conversely, “males” who possess NONE of those qualities are the “males” she will often say she “likes”! But she is actually less likely to have sex with guys like that. So it really doesn’t MATTER if she says she “likes” you, or not.

Women don’t fully understand their own attraction mechanism. That’s why they say things like “OMG I can’t believe I slept with that total asshole”, and that’s why you don’t listen to women on this topic. It’s bad for you.

Most importantly, never listen to female descriptions of what makes you more “masculine”. You will also notice they will say anything that is useful to her is “manly”.

• A real man opens the door for me.
• Be a real man and carry this for me.
• A real man pays.
• A real man would never say/think/do that.
• A man should _________ insert bulls~~~ female demand here_________.
• You’re the man, you’re supposed to ____X____

Never listen to that garbage. So if it ever feels like your being treated like a “tool”, and you notice anything that turns you into a utility for her benefit or personal gain is described as “more manly”, point and laugh. Because you know better.

Best advice is to realize — >> ALL “advice” on the internet should be regarded as certain to yield long-term negative outcomes. Having said that, may the force be with you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Psl47 wrote:

I just want to ask for advice how i can become more manly, masculine

Check out this blog: http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.com

It’s very informative. Masculinity is a “principle”, a way of life, an ethos. It is not a list of qualities, characteristics, or worse, women’s demands.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Faust For ScienceParticipant 22521]

Keymaster wrote:

• Unpredictable
• Uncontrollable
• Challenging
• Dominant

Those qualities drive women crazy and infuriate them. But will she still have sex with guys like that? Even if she says he’s the totally wrong guy? Conversely, “males” who possess NONE of those qualities are the “males” she will often say she “likes”! But she is actually less likely to have sex with guys like that. So it really doesn’t MATTER if she says she “likes” you, or not.

I guess having all those treats and completely ignoring women would be the ultimate tease towards women.

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

Faust For Science wrote:

I guess having all those treats and completely ignoring women would be the ultimate tease towards women.

I think the “Ultimate Tease” would be:

1. Very Wealthy
2. Famous and Powerful
3. Handsome 6’+ Ken Doll type
4. SINGLE
5. Great Talker

The tease part comes when Ken excites them, and then turns and walks away.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[HitmanParticipant]

forget what you think women want.
YOU define your masculinity.
the less you care,
the more they want you.
.
don’t get anyone pregnant,
and don’t catch any diseases my friend.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Faust For Science wrote:

I guess having all those treats and completely ignoring women would be the ultimate tease towards women.

I guess it depends how old they are. In their 20s, this is a “chad”. In their 40s he’s a douchebag. The OP is 28 and he’s about to figure this out anyway (if he hasn’t already)

Awakened wrote:

I think the “Ultimate Tease” would be:

1. Very Wealthy
2. Famous and Powerful
3. Handsome 6’+ Ken Doll type
4. SINGLE
5. Great Talker

It takes far less than that. If you’re +40 and not a blob, reasonably put-together you can write your own ticket.

I met a woman years ago and I said “Can’t today. Laundry day and errands.”…. and she made such a theatrical production out of it “OMG!!! A MAN WHO ACTUALLY DOES LAUNDRY & PICKS UP AFTER HIMSELF?” What a c~~~. She was so “impressed” with everything….. “YOU ACTUALLY CALLED AHEAD??”… “A MAN WHO ASKS FOR DIRECTIONS??” …. “YOU ACTUALLY OWN A VASE??”. I had to tell her to knock it off and I couldn’t stand being around her.

Of course it depends how old she is. 20s women are impressed by nothing. By 35, every bulls~~~ nice thing you do is like throwing food to the starving.

Women don’t even think men like that EXIST. They know we do, but they are just so brainwashed by the sisterhood, a guy who’s looks reasonably polished is like “what’s wrong with him?”. Laundry is a basic life necessity, but if you have matching socks on and comment on a cute baby in a stroller, you’re like the holy grail. It’s disgusting.

Notice how I am mentioning stereotypically “un-manly” qualities here. The older the women are, the more blown away they are by stupid “nice guy” s~~~. Smile at a woman in a coffee shop when she’s 21, and you’re a “creep”. Offer to help her with something when she’s 40, and she’ll have a heart attack and die.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hitman wrote:

forget what you think women want.
YOU define your masculinity.
the less you care,
the more they want you.
.
don’t get anyone pregnant,
and don’t catch any diseases my friend.

Listen to Hitman. No orgasm is worth 216 monthly payments.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[HitmanParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

No orgasm is worth 216 monthly payments.

truth .
and very very difficult to weasel out of those payments.
like having a crowbar stuck in to your wallet,
courtesy of the state.
.
i’m working on a plan though..
sleepless nights have had the wheels turning fast,
and when i achieve it,
i will post it up as a victory post.
coming to a thread in 2017.
keep your fingers crossed for me,
and say a quick prayer for your friend the hitman.
much appreciated !!!

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

I like this one

http://www.artofmanliness.com/2008/11/13/6-lessons-in-manliness-from-james-bond/

Focus on the know your enemy part, women are not your friend.

Keep you word. Period.

Lots of other good stuff on the artofmanliness.com

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Hitman wrote:

truth .
and very very difficult to weasel out of those payments.

I was thinking that if I were ever caught in that scenario, while pregnant, I’d tell her: “And if you try to collect child support, I’ll resist, resist you to the end. Don’t believe me? Go ask any black woman if it’s easy to collect child support from a man who’s determined not to pay it.”

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[Psl47Participant 678]

Thanks for sharing guys, much appreciations

.

[Author]

Posts