Man pleads for help in letter

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  • #372280
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    DogeGHOW
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    This is kinda confidential info so I may not disclose that much. Happened to read a letter from a case at work, a man begging for help that his ex wife is taking advantage of his sons with disability, said that she views them as source of income. She’s getting lots of money from the Swedish government to hire caretakers, about $32/hour of assistance.

    Seems she was granted more/full custody but he’s taking it to court to fight. The man is getting balled around by the government/municipality/agency, they say they’re not responsible and points at each other when he tries to file complaint or report.

    He wrote his son looked malnutritioned and that the caretaker was sorta neglectful and feared for his sons well being that he’s not getting the proper help and training required for a decent life.

    He described his ex as manipulative, throwing blame and utilizing fake tears. Very desperate tone in his letter, very saddening. This is the first time I read/heard something like this that was not from the internet so it is kinda a unique experience to me so I wished to share here.

    Now unbroken one! Such recovery! Wow going my own way! Doge is life.

    #372283
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    RoyDal
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    I wish I could offer wisdom, or even consolation. . . .

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #372285
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    DogeGHOW
    DogeGHOW
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    Yes this was my first thought as well, I could easily get his address and phone number but I’m not sure I should get involved.

    Now unbroken one! Such recovery! Wow going my own way! Doge is life.

    #372291
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    Gargamel
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    Yes, that’s what women are good for:

    They can’t cook, they hate men and boys and so they would never cook for them even if they could cook.

    They spend all money on fur coats, 10 closets full of fashionable clothes and 100 pairs of shoes.

    And nothing goes to the child. Especially if the child is a boy.

    How do I know?

    Been there, survived that…

    My life story, not finished yet..

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #372301
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    Anonymous
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    Yes this was my first thought as well, I could easily get his address and phone number but I’m not sure I should get involved.

    I know that, given my background, it is an obligation to report suspected child neglect/maltreatment, in my opinion, one may find a good story, then find a man at whatever your equivalent of child services agency is, and report it, and when you report it, cc a manager/supervisor, both yours, and the child agency’s (make sure its a manager that supports you).

    That’s what I would do, not advise, just my opinion, as a health care professional.

    #372305
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    Gargamel
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    Yes this was my first thought as well, I could easily get his address and phone number but I’m not sure I should get involved.

    Try to bring him to MGTOW. Here he will have us for sane and unbiased brotherly advice.

    Hell, I know what this boy is going through. I wish I could teach him to steal money without someone noticing it, sneak out and buy some real food…

    And teach him that stealing is not good in life but this exception will keep him healthy.

    Women are so self absorbed in their endless daily bitching and complaining that if they used the time for cooking and cleaning they would have a 5-Star-meal 3 times a day. And the place would look as clean an organized as an expensive hotel resort.

    The boy gets s~~~ on his table, because the c~~~ is busy fumbling around with her smartphone 24/7 and getting “Facebook likes” from her 12 chads…

    Or she watches TV while he gets some “candy” to shut him up when his belly revolts.

    OMG, that wakes memories…

    Unc~~~ your life, or keep it c~~~ free…

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #372310
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    Puffin Stuff
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    It sounds like the US. The US feminists follow the lead of Sweden, feminist central, and so I’m not surprised or unfamiliar with the story.

    It happened to me with my son, now 19. Four years of custody fights because his married rich mom wanted him to move out of state even though we had 50/50 physical custody. I had the school nights because she wouldn’t help him and she had the weekends to play with him.

    My recommendation to you is to do nothing. Lawyers and the courts haven’t helped him. His situation is beyond repair.

    My advice is to the letter writer is to walk away. Let her hit rock bottom with him and begs you to help or he comes around when he is older and done being degraded by your ex. She clearly hates men and will take it out on your son. You can do nothing to stop it.

    You must accept what you cannot change.

    I fought in the courts because I didn’t want my son to think his father just let him go. When he turned 14 his mom bought a house in Hawaii and he promptly moved to his mom’s house.

    At 19, him out of his mom’s house at college, we have a great relationship and I’ll be hosting him for 3 weeks at Christmas.

    Bow out and be patient. Let your son know you love him. Call and send gifts. But don’t fight for custody, you’ll lose and it will hurt your son.

    #icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

    #372322
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    That’s what I would do, not advise, just my opinion, as a health care professional.

    That’s good advice. Try to find someone in that stubborn hierarchy of the “child protective service” that is willing to support you and is willing to investigate the matter.

    He wrote his son looked malnutritioned and that the caretaker was sorta neglectful and feared for his sons well being that he’s not getting the proper help and training required for a decent life.

    If that’s the case it could be a good idea to involve the school or the kindergarten he goes to. They will see his malnutrition problem and then “have to act”.
    Sometimes they don’t act upon suspicion because the mother tells them all kinds of lies and false stories and they don’t want that mother as an enemy. But if strangers from the outside world file a complaint, then it should have an effect.

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #372334
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    Gargamel
    Gargamel
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    29101

    My advice is to the letter writer is to walk away. Let her hit rock bottom with him and begs you to help or he comes around when he is older and done being degraded by your ex. She clearly hates men and will take it out on your son. You can do nothing to stop it.

    You must accept what you cannot change.

    Yes, the officials don’t help that boy. Because we are all “c~~~ domiated” by smart c~~~s that are too stupid to realize that early age malnutrition will harm the child for life and then the MOTHER will have the burden of having that retarded – unable to work – son around her.

    And here comes the bummmer: Some women want that. They are afraid of dying alone and so they turn their son into a loser that will never leave home. And malnutrition is a first rate weapon to cut someone down.

    These women don’t need cats, because they have their sick and powerless son around, both living in “misery loves company” mode.

    I may go on on the long term effects of malnutrition, but that is beyond this forum. The child needs help or he will be broken for life. To name a few: Underdevelped organs, loss of IQ, loss of bone matter, loss of muscle mass, defective aching and unflexible joints…

    As an immediate soloution, that man can only try to see his son as often as he can and then feed him well… Even make a food reservoir for him in some secret place. There are plenty of things you can do to not have c~~~s get their lunatic ways…

    And one day the boy will burst out. “My mother starves me”…“I can’t function in school with an empty stomach” and that’s what will trigger CPS to act…

    In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

    #372400
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    Anonymous
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    My brothers kids were taken by his wife who was screwing around with five other guys behind his back .the only reason my brother got custody in the first place was because she sexualymolested them along with her boyfriend molesting my niece and nephew the evil things she did made me never to have a piece of s~~~ like her.then his girlfriend locked them up in their rooms all day and when he came home played like she cared pure evil I learned from her example that there g just pieces of s~~~.

    #372445
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    Big Boss
    Big Boss
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    Honestly the best way is if the letter goes public to draw public attention which ruins the confidentiality part. But if I was him, I wouldn’t f~~~ing care.

    #372515
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    Anonymous
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    He described his ex as manipulative, throwing blame and utilizing fake tears.

    Women use these tactics, because they are highly effective. They are like chum for White Knights and Save-a-Ho types.

    I’m more inclined towards HRP’s insights. The less said the better. It’s hopeless currently so use long term strategies.

    #372564
    Atton
    Atton
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    Only advice I could give is that he should put everything on the table. Secure control over the situation by any means necessary.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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