Man Orders Dinner For Date – She Never Shows Up

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

This is why you never date and never, ever, under any circumstances pay for anything for a woman.

Two important magic phrases every man must learn:

: “This isn’t a date.”

and

: “Separate checks, please.”

Then wait for it…

: “You’re not going to pay for my dinner? That’s cheap of you.”
: “It’s not cheap. I respect you as a person. If I have to buy you something for your company, that would mean you’re a whore, and I respect you too much to make a whore of you.”
: “How dare you?! I’m not a whore! It’s traditional for the man to pay for dinner!”
: “Of course it’s traditional. Being a whore is even more traditional. It is the oldest professional after all.”

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

She’s a c~~~, the end.

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I’m not defending this chick at all, she did a pretty s~~~ty thing here, but regardless it seems like the guy is a total idiot…like we’re only getting half the story. He may have just bugged her for weeks for a date, she finally said yes to shut him up, then she no showed and dropped the hammer on him so he’d f~~~ off.

I’ll admit, I’ve been blown off a few times in the past, although nothing this harsh. The thing is if I went back in time with red pill knowledge I wouldn’t have been so surprised or upset when it happened. I guess hind sight is always 20/20 but come on…you don’t just get a text out of the blue saying “I’m standing you up while I’m off f~~~ing other guys” with absolutely zero warning signs things weren’t working out for you before that.

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

Tip for lurkers, if you’re still into “dating.” Only plan a date for an event or activity that you would want to do on your own free time anyway. If she doesn’t show, flush her number and have a good time doing what you enjoy anyway. Dinner dates are already pretty stupid; ordering before she even shows up is off the charts. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Hope this guy learned his lesson.

I agree…like I said already I’ve been blown off a few times in the past, and there were two things about it that bugged me more than actually getting blown off. One was not doing something else fun and wasting a night waiting to hear back from someone with no intentions of going out with you that night, and the other was the times I texted or called them after the fact to figure out what was up.

If you must date, you aren’t dating, you are giving some c~~~ the privilege of joining you while you do something you’d enjoy doing regardless of if she shows or not, and if she blows you off never f~~~ing contact her. One chance, per chick, per lifetime, and she blew hers. I mean come on…even if her parents died in a car crash it would take her about 3 seconds to text you “sorry, family emergency, let’s reschedule,” where as silence is just an intentional gigantic “F~~~ YOU” in the modern day of cell phones where people never leave home without it.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Removed wrote:

This is all women. When in Hawaii, I had a few girls who would cancel dates to be with me. I thought, “how lucky am I,” in my dumb and young years. The lucky ones were those other guys, as they didn’t end up with women bugging the hell out of them when you moved on, constantly wanting gifts and attention. Fortunately, I did not have enough time in those days to make in bigger mistakes, such as marriage, else I definitely would have. I made that mistake later.

I do not want to think about how much money I blew in those years.

Instead, think about how much you DIDN’T blow.

Beer wrote:

I’m not defending this chick at all, she did a pretty s~~~ty thing here, but regardless it seems like the guy is a total idiot…like we’re only getting half the story. He may have just bugged her for weeks for a date, she finally said yes to shut him up, then she no showed and dropped the hammer on him so he’d f~~~ off.

I’ll admit, I’ve been blown off a few times in the past, although nothing this harsh. The thing is if I went back in time with red pill knowledge I wouldn’t have been so surprised or upset when it happened. I guess hind sight is always 20/20 but come on…you don’t just get a text out of the blue saying “I’m standing you up while I’m off f~~~ing other guys” with absolutely zero warning signs things weren’t working out for you before that.

Can’t Stump Trump wrote:

Tip for lurkers, if you’re still into “dating.” Only plan a date for an event or activity that you would want to do on your own free time anyway. If she doesn’t show, flush her number and have a good time doing what you enjoy anyway. Dinner dates are already pretty stupid; ordering before she even shows up is off the charts. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. Hope this guy learned his lesson.

I agree…like I said already I’ve been blown off a few times in the past, and there were two things about it that bugged me more than actually getting blown off. One was not doing something else fun and wasting a night waiting to hear back from someone with no intentions of going out with you that night, and the other was the times I texted or called them after the fact to figure out what was up.

If you must date, you aren’t dating, you are giving some c~~~ the privilege of joining you while you do something you’d enjoy doing regardless of if she shows or not, and if she blows you off never f~~~ing contact her. One chance, per chick, per lifetime, and she blew hers. I mean come on…even if her parents died in a car crash it would take her about 3 seconds to text you “sorry, family emergency, let’s reschedule,” where as silence is just an intentional gigantic “F~~~ YOU” in the modern day of cell phones where people never leave home without it.

They obviously knew each other because he talked about her favorite dish. I’d venture they were friends, he had the hots for her, asked her out, she said yes not to feel bad, and then blew him off for Chad Thunderc~~~.

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

I’m sure this is a fake post, but it’s entertaining and there’s a lesson in there.

[sjt1975Participant 2536]

I know I’ve never dated, but even I wouldn’t be stupid enough to order the woman’s meal for her before she even turned up! He probably got off lightly. It has taught him a valuable lesson about dating/women.

[OldBillParticipant]

While s~~~ like this happens regularly, this time it’s a fake.

Let’s all try being a little more educated about the media we consume.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[CatsPawParticipant 423]

Thoughts? better to find out that way than something worse.

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