Man on his own way since birth?

[TheoParticipant 20]

Hello everyone,

my name is Theo and I’m 28 years old.
To date, I have only focused on myself: not only am I not married and single, I’ve never really been in a true relationship. That’s right, I have not had girlfriends and I’m still a virgin.
Now, I’m not here to tell anyone this is the absolute best life. Certainly at times it was very difficult to resist the urge of… finding a female and reproducing, and also I have been missing out on potentially a lot of fun in life, so far.

But it sure puts me in a great position in life, if I may say so. You could say I’m a guy who has always been “on his own way”.
I am completely free and I can do whatever I want. I’m not sure how many people can say that.
I’m not tied into a relationship, I don’t have any loans or debts in general and I don’t even own a house or a car.
Am I poor? Not at all! In fact, I am building wealth: I am limiting/eliminating liabilities as much as possible while creating assets that build more income.
So far my primary income source is my career (IT) but I am also becoming an entrepeneur.

My long term goal is to become truly rich. That is, have all the free time I want so that I can enjoy life to the fullest while money works for me and not the other way around. And maybe somewhere along the road I’ll also meet someone who shares my views.. !

For now, in my “spare” time I workout, enjoy movies and videogames and eat japanese food.

I’m ending my story here to not make this post too long, but if there are any questions I will answer them all 🙂

PS: if there’s one quote that I can say it characterizes me, it’s this: “Smart people learn from their mistakes. But the really sharp ones learn from the mistakes of others.” – Brandon Mull
I never considered myself particularly “sharp”… but I always observed and learned from the mistakes of others!

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to the group. You’re in good company.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[AkanbiParticipant 2120]

Welcome, Theo.

Keep enjoying the freedom. Keep going YOUR Own Way.

My brother make you no follow sheeple o. Look them and Go Your Way.

[MACHOParticipant]

Welcome Theo,

Theo wrote:

I’m ending my story here to not make this post too long, but if there are any questions I will answer them all

What was your worst red 💊 moment.. and your worst painful memory that might have incited you to join mgtow.com ?

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome! Nothing speaks louder than success and it appears you’ve proven that. Staying focused on your goals is a sure way to a fulfilled life. And you need not exclude physical intimacy with a female so long as you never take your eye off the ball. Hope you enjoy the forums!

[TheoParticipant 20]

MACHO wrote:

Welcome Theo,

Theo wrote:

I’m ending my story here to not make this post too long, but if there are any questions I will answer them all

What was your worst red moment.. and your worst painful memory that might have incited you to join mgtow.com ?

Great questions!

I joined MGTOW not because there was some particularly negative experience that pushed me over the edge recently, I just happened to hear about it while watching some YouTube channels of interest to me. A motivational speaker/men’s coach mentioned the manosphere and how MGTOW is a symbol of it. I then checked out mgtow.com, and I soon discovered this community where the general mentality seems to be more or less the one I’ve always had (of course, people here have different opinions on the degree of acceptable involvement with women). You can imagine the excitement in discovering that not only I am not alone in my reasoning, but there is a whole community (and growing!).

Anyway, if there is a “worst memory/moment”, it would have to be my childhood.. let’s say from approx. age 4 to the age of 14. Yes, it’s more than a moment, it’s a collection of many sad memories. I was born in a relatively poor family, and my parents would argue all the time; not to say that my father is a perfect human being, but it was always my mother who started an argument and it was always irrational.
Indeed, it was thanks to my family that I became a “red pill guy” and from a very early age.
I would observe my mother’s behaviour and realize that, sadly, it’s exactly how all “seasoned” men explain here: between my folks it was all fun and love (“love”) up until the point of marriage & children, then it all went downhill (not going to go into details to not make this post too long, but you can imagine the “issues”, it’s the usual).
Of course, one couple can’t exactly be indicative of the entire population; but, unfortunately, as I observed other couples and families that I came into contact with as I grew up, I realized, to my disappointment, how the pattern was repeating in most households.. and so as time went on, I became more and more decided that I do not want to ever marry and have children.

[TheoParticipant 20]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Welcome! Nothing speaks louder than success and it appears you’ve proven that. Staying focused on your goals is a sure way to a fulfilled life. And you need not exclude physical intimacy with a female so long as you never take your eye off the ball. Hope you enjoy the forums!

Thank you!
As I said I haven’t done anything so far, but I have not excluded physical intimacy with a female.
Remind me to elaborate on this later 🙂

[MACHOParticipant]

Theo wrote:

Great questions!
I joined MGTOW not because there was some particularly negative experience that pushed me over the edge recently, I just happened to hear about it while watching some YouTube channels of interest to me. A motivational speaker/men’s coach mentioned the manosphere and how MGTOW is a symbol of it. I then checked out mgtow.com, and I soon discovered this community where the general mentality seems to be more or less the one I’ve always had (of course, people here have different opinions on the degree of acceptable involvement with women). You can imagine the excitement in discovering that not only I am not alone in my reasoning, but there is a whole community (and growing!)

Thank you very much, enjoy the forums 🍺

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome bro

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[TheoParticipant 20]

Thank you bro!

[Anonymous 0]

Hello and welcome chap.
Your intro has me thinking you have read Atlas shrugged shrugged a time it two? If not, give it a look, should but right up your ally.

[TheoParticipant 20]

Anonymous wrote:

Hello and welcome chap.
Your intro has me thinking you have read Atlas shrugged shrugged a time it two? If not, give it a look, should but right up your ally.

Hello!
No I have not, thanks for the suggestion!

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, brother

Theo wrote:

And maybe somewhere along the road I’ll also meet someone who shares my views.. !

Be careful of what you wish for. Learn from the stories here and you’ll learn that the ‘special somebody’ never exists. It seemed like so in the beginning, and then it crumbles. For now, enjoy what you enjoy and only focus to your own well being, minus the partner thing.

I’m almost the same as you, saw how my own family and how other families around me tend to be ‘not quite fun’. From a very young age I saw married life is not the future I wanted because it doesn’t seem to fulfill anything on the men’s part. Only women tend to enjoy it for many reasons except the selfless ones.

Good luck!

[TheoParticipant 20]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome, brother

Theo wrote:

And maybe somewhere along the road I’ll also meet someone who shares my views.. !

Be careful of what you wish for. Learn from the stories here and you’ll learn that the ‘special somebody’ never exists. It seemed like so in the beginning, and then it crumbles. For now, enjoy what you enjoy and only focus to your own well being, minus the partner thing.

I’m almost the same as you, saw how my own family and how other families around me tend to be ‘not quite fun’. From a very young age I saw married life is not the future I wanted because it doesn’t seem to fulfill anything on the men’s part. Only women tend to enjoy it for many reasons except the selfless ones.

Good luck!

Thanks for the welcome and the additional advice!

Make no mistake: with that sentence I do not mean settling down with someone and living together, let alone marrying and having children (in fact, I will soon get a vasectomy, regardless of what I will ever do with a woman).
I require companionship in life; I may or may not get a dog, but I’m not sure I’ll be able to take care of him properly since I have many other priorities.
If I’ll ever find a woman on the same frequency as me, it will only be a rapport which sees us meeting from time to time, maybe traveling or engaged in other desirable activites, but we will not live together and we will share nothing.
I might also consider hiring professional services, but none of what I just discussed is a priority.

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Theo wrote:

Hello everyone,

my name is Theo and I’m 28 years old.
To date, I have only focused on myself: not only am I not married and single, I’ve never really been in a true relationship. That’s right, I have not had girlfriends and I’m still a virgin.
Now, I’m not here to tell anyone this is the absolute best life. Certainly at times it was very difficult to resist the urge of… finding a female and reproducing, and also I have been missing out on potentially a lot of fun in life, so far.

Welcome Theo.

I am also your age, and have never been in a real relationship, because i saw the cold hard truth about relationships, human nature, and in particular, female nature, from the time i was a boy. At times it can seem to guys like us, like we’ve missed out on “fun times”, but as pretty much every guy here, who’s been married or been in serious relationships, or simply did pump & dumps will tell you, it’s actually a blessing for us that we didn’t go too far down that road.

[TheoParticipant 20]

Antipathy wrote:

Theo wrote:

<p class=””>Hello everyone,

<p class=””>my name is Theo and I’m 28 years old.<br class=””>
To date, I have only focused on myself: not only am I not married and single, I’ve never really been in a true relationship. That’s right, I have not had girlfriends and I’m still a virgin.<br class=””>
Now, I’m not here to tell anyone this is the absolute best life. Certainly at times it was very difficult to resist the urge of… finding a female and reproducing, and also I have been missing out on potentially a lot of fun in life, so far.

<p class=””>Welcome Theo.

<p class=””>I am also your age, and have never been in a real relationship, because i saw the cold hard truth about relationships, human nature, and in particular, female nature, from the time i was a boy. At times it can seem to guys like us, like we’ve missed out on “fun times”, but as pretty much every guy here, who’s been married or been in serious relationships, or simply did pump & dumps will tell you, it’s actually a blessing for us that we didn’t go too far down that road.

Hey Opt Out, we must be a very small minority, even here on MGTOW 🙂
How old are you?

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

I just turned 29 last month Theo. And yes i think even within MGTOW we’re likely a small percentage for now, and i say for now, because i have a feeling a lot of teens, and young adult men, who typically would get involved with girls … are just starting to wake up to the fact the females in the dating pool are in a deep state of psychosis.

For the generation that came before you and i … men at least had the temp illusion that the woman they were falling in love with, might be a “perfect unicorn”, but these women nowadays don’t even offer the illusion, they are bats~~~ insane and completely promiscuous. With MGTOW content available, young men would literally have to be asleep at the wheel to want anything to do with them.

[Anonymous 1]

Theo wrote:

Thanks for the welcome and the additional advice!

Make no mistake: with that sentence I do not mean settling down with someone and living together, let alone marrying and having children (in fact, I will soon get a vasectomy, regardless of what I will ever do with a woman).
I require companionship in life; I may or may not get a dog, but I’m not sure I’ll be able to take care of him properly since I have many other priorities.
If I’ll ever find a woman on the same frequency as me, it will only be a rapport which sees us meeting from time to time, maybe traveling or engaged in other desirable activites, but we will not live together and we will share nothing.
I might also consider hiring professional services, but none of what I just discussed is a priority.

Good then

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