Male Role Models

[Enjoy The DeclineParticipant 1719]

First of all, I would like to introduce myself. When I was young, my dad worked many hours and then he use to also visit his many brothers and sisters from time to time. He then passed away when I turned 23 just after a year after some sh*t happened to me that is sort of personal. My point is that when he was alive, I really was not close to him very much at all. He could of told me how the world worked in his eyes also in more detail but I guess I did not really have the chance because I did my thing in life and he did his. As soon as he passed away when I needed a male role model the most, I than had to figure out a lot of things myself through trial and error, reading books, watching youtube videos, and even try to live in another province for more than one time just to try to find myself. It is only recently that I finally found out what worked for me. All I got to say that we live in a world where there is a big boom of single mothers with no father figure in the children’s lives. I can safely say that if you have no father figure in your life, you are going to most likely become lost. But luckily, with the help of the internet, with ebooks as well and youtube channels and even message boards like this, it can actually be possible to be more prepared for life in this world than your father would ever be prepared when he started life. For all the people who do not have a father due to your mother screwing their fathers over, or your father died when you needed him the most or for whatever reason at all for why you do not have a father, there is just so much out there on the internet to prepare you for this vastly increasing complex world that we have today. Just because you young guys are in this forum learning about how this world works, you are actually putting some effort in bettering your lives in some way, even if you just trying to find a way to make it by in life with out putting as little work as possible(this could be controversial though but who am I to judge). I just wish to get this off my chest for anyone who don’t know what it is like to have a father by your side because through these past few years of trying to find myself, I feel your pain.

"Question everything" - Albert Einstein

[experiencedParticipant]

Years ago, a neighbor, a coach, a distant relative,….

[hillery RESAID, it takes a village, she will scorched earth all villages]
http://www.statenislandacademy.org/media/documents/Karisa2010.pdf

Later, winners at education and follow on education and training….

Later, supervisors, co – workers

Short term role model in gym = Eddy Coan, Bill Kazmier, Avi Rokah, Aleksandyr Karelin,

Joe Satrianni, whose role model WAS TRULY Jimi Hendrix

aka: St. Joseph – for humility.

Bobby Fisher ….(18hours per day for 4 years…= well over twenty six thousand hours)

Tony Iommi = no fingertips? tough s~~~, deal with it = became the father of heavy metal.
http://www.iommi.com/biography/

Django Reinhardt = two burnt off fingers, tough s~~~, father of lead guitarists not to mention what you can do with each effing note.
http://www.biography.com/people/django-reinhardt-9454889

Anthony Hopkins = learning disability? tough s~~~, would read aloud his lines 200 / 200+ times.

“Walk in the company of the wise and become wise for a companion of fools suffers harm.” These could be fools = blue pillers who will lead you back to the guillotine, me.

Choose your friends WISELY.

http://chessrex.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/B-Fischer_Spassky_1972a.jpg

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

I have learned more from my brothers on this website that anywhere else.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

I was born in 1967. My parents were divorced when I was 2. Wrap your mind around that. Divorce wasn’t that common back then. My father was supposed to pay child support , guess what? He didn’t. I was VERY lucky because my mothers parents were oil business wealthy. My grandfather became my role model because I saw him more than I did my real father(but still not that often). When I wanted to start chasing girls as a young man I asked my mother what I should do….”Just be nice to them honey”. Growing up without a father is a VERY tough obstacle to overcome , but it is sink or swim for a young man in the world. There are SO MANY THINGS in life I either found out late or worse , that probably have handicapped me. The world doesn’t care , you MUST figure them out one way or another. I echo the sentiments of Jan , I have learned more from you guys in the last few months than it seems I have in my 49 year life. I am grateful for all of you.

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