Male Renaissance Needed

[XscapistXtremeParticipant 6]

Just thought I would say hello to all MGTOW’S and chime in that I as a married man support MGTOW and feel a strong need to help out as well as financial support for this site, let me explain why I feel this need.  “Because I am affected daily by Liberal Feminists!”.. seem like a sane and valid reason?    Men today cannot turn on most television channels or cable networks without experiencing this vitriol hatred and disrespect that the modern woman is having against the men that have built and held society together and they feel they can do better but haven’t shown the capability in the past as far as written history has been told.

Yes.. I am a married man of 27 years.. “But!” I am old school Anglo Saxon Christian Caucasian and was raised to be that unabated and not affected by those who place all of societies ills on me or those who are under a false assumption I am in some way privileged which couldn’t be further from the truth. Never in my lifetime as a grown man has anyone given me anything free that I couldn’t obtain for myself thru hard work & dedication but I am constantly told you only have what you have because of what you are, not because I persevere and keep a work ethic in high esteem.

I feel connected to the MGTOW community because I have always had an awareness of the great and growing divide in the United States between, firstly the races and by design as they “The Powers” found success in their divide & conquer stratagem they been also succeeding in destroying the American family by attacking the American man’s weakest link.. yes, you got it, their women.  They have feed American women a pipe dream that will end in the destruction of the family structure and leave women old, used up and bitter spinsters that will see an eventual rapidly declining bottom line as men step away and begin to create their own wealth & empires outside of the hands of the woman.

My story is this, back in the late 80’s when my dating game was at its height, I even then noticed the decline of decent, trustworthy women, it seemed every woman I dated, it would end in me catching them cheating because I am the kind of guy that checks in on them when they least expect it.  With disgust I decided to have a change of scenery and culture so I joined the military to see the world, refusing to settle down and be some woman’s piggy bank.  I ended up in Japan for 3 years and experienced a different culture and it had a positive effect on me and I felt I was expanding as a person and growing wiser with my experiences, but one thing was off, I was going right back to Caucasian women that were also in the military and right back into a sewer of untrustworthy and despicable women bent on usury… That was the straw that broke the camels back because up to this point in my 2nd year in country I had not dated any Japanese women and to be honest I felt they were beautiful women but culturally we were diametrically different or so I thought at the time.

A good military friend of mine who was dating a Japanese woman told me he wanted me to meet a very pretty Japanese lady who he also was friends with and he told me she was very sweet warm and caring person who would at least be a good friend and companion since I think he sensed my disgust for the Western females since I had just broken up with one and expressed my misgivings of ever having another relationship with a woman of my race since up to that point they were a nightmare and at this point I am 24 years of age and not getting any younger.    Now I had heard that the Tokyo big city girls were high maintenance version of American women and I voiced my concerns to my American friend that I would not be down for one of those & he assured me she was a country girl who had a stable brain & not like the psychotic childish females I had been dating on the base, so I said what the hell…

To make a long story short & 27 years later I am still happily married to this Japanese woman who, herself is old school Japanese female who is submissive yet firm, when she knows shes in the right and her personality fits me like she was custom made by God himself to fit my needs.  We have raised 2 daughters now in their 20’s who shockingly turned out to be so beautiful in appearance since I myself am an average Joe.  I am very pleased at the way my daughters turned out & they are very reserved females and rarely date while concentrating on their education goals.  I instilled in them a sense of worth by making them work for what they want when they wanted cars they had to work for them and get no freebies from Daddy and I tell them never accept them from society and to set goals and go for them.  They got the best from their Mother and some day will make stable wives for the men they marry.

I guess what I am trying to say is..I was way ahead of the curve back in the day, I realized then that the American woman was toxic in every conceivable way to a stable marriage and refused to get caught up into that mire.  Now what I did back in 88 won’t necessarily work today since even Japan is suffering under the scourge of Feminism but I certainly feel that still in those small towns and cities away from Tokyo are some Japanese women who will make a lucky man a wife that will look out for him and have his back without becoming a self-centered woman-child walking away with everything her man earned but I respect MGTOW men for walking away from Western women because I did the same thing 27 years ago.

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[Lazarus LongParticipant 365]

Welcome XscapistXtreme

I know that you have already done enough looking around to know that the people here are of similar attitudes but I wanted to point it out anyway. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

 

Willfully turning aside from the truth is treason to one's self. -Terry Goodkind

[BurgundyParticipant 1525]

First, Welcome fine gentleman.

Now my curiosity is stirring, from your story. As now 80% of Japanese men are Herbivores (pretty much mgtow), from a recent poll, and in 2009 it was close to 70%. From what I’ve read, in Japanese households, the women get full control of all income, while the men will be given some sort of allowance(lol), even though they’re working themselves to the bone, how is it in your case? I would guess it’s simply very traditional?

MGTOW, are men going their own ways, I believe there are MRAs among the group, since we got common interests, who are more active in trying to make marriage more equal to men, and pointing out men’s issues, while MGTOW again is about self fulfilment, or at least that’s my thought and aim to it. So maybe I’m missing something but wouldn’t you be more of a guy, who would champion MRA more, then?

 

Again I’m just curious here, I’ve always found Japanese culture to be extremely intriguing, so this raised my eyebrows quite a bit. And welcome, once more. 🙂

[XscapistXtremeParticipant 6]

Valid questions and firstly, I respect MGTOW males and in no way will try to sway them into a marriage because as I have stated Japan is suffering under feminism on a massive scale and spaces once held traditionally by men are now being invaded by women, hence the Japanese mans need to drop out of Traditional marriage racket and in some cases completely staying away from Japanese women altogether so don’t think i will be coming in here to rub a marital success story in any MGTOW’S face, I just felt the need to be honest and tell my story and why I was aware back then and now support a mans right to walk away from women if they so choose, not that you were implying anything related to what I just stated.

To answer your question, yes in Japan it was the role of the wife to take care of finances of the family but no my wife does not handle ours, since she knows I am better at handling money with our current situation being zero credit card debt, cars that are owned and a house that is close to being payed off.   As a matter of fact when we purchase automobiles I make her select online what she wants and I then go by myself to purchase the vehicle since I don’t let car salesmen/women use her emotions to make the buy, which they most certainly do.

I am looking forward to reading the discussion of all the men on this board and am actually quite proud of you guys who have taken a stand, for what its worth, it has been way past the time this needed to be done and I can tell you with certainty If God hadn’t been guiding my life 27 years ago I would be a MGTOW bachelor today, yes, it was that bad even back then.

On a side note does mgtow.com have a donation link and do you know if it accepts paypal?  That is my online preferred method of payment because I know how expensive it is to keep a site going and I have a sneaky suspicion this is about to blow up to even greater proportions necessitating faster and more expensive servers?

Thank you Lazarus & Burgundy for the warm welcome!

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[Ned TrentParticipant 4894]

Welcome XscapistXtreme. It seems you were very lucky indeed to have found kind of like the “very best unicorn there ever was” by the sound of it.

As far as the donation subject is concerned you would initially be advised to first take a look in our FAQ section under the appropriate question there and then maybe get in touch with our admin himself, since ultimately he will have to decide and be the (hopefully best and objective) judge about accepting a donation of yours, as well meant and tempting as it most probably will be, which would then mean that we would go commercial. Whether or not at this point in time that will be a good thing, again that will be our admin’s exclusive call. So much on that issue for now and again welcome.

Ned T.

I'd rather die a natual death with a clear MGTOW conscience somewhere off the grid than one within "modern" civilisation with a big stress mark on my forehead and a couple of dozen tubes plugged into my body. Back to the plantation..? Me..? Hey, literally: I won't ever fucking kid myself...YZERLMNTSIC

[Anonymous 11]

Hi XscapistXtreme, yes those 80’s and 90’s American women made me what I am today, and I want to thank them for it. I’ve checked out of the game myself. Congratulations on finding one and especially for raising your daughters properly.

My friend took his daughter away from his wife’s custody at age 7. She was basically raised around MGTOWs. She is now a fine studious 18 year old with a good head on her shoulder. My friend and I spent a lot of time teaching her to respect men for who they are. It amazes me what women can actually be without the poisons of feminism warping them.

[XscapistXtremeParticipant 6]

Thank you ChauvinistPig I am proud of my daughters remaining chaste and at the moment more interested in furthering their education.  Because of their exotic looks they are approached by men non-stopped, even when I am with them and you should see the looks on guys faces when they are told they are not dating right now.  Today’s American woman have such a repulsive reputation that it confounds the mind how men could ever even consider marrying an American Hoe.

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