Making ANOTHER intro

[foolsgoldParticipant 5644]

I introduced myself a couple years back but was vague about it. I felt really stupid about how badly I got played. I don’t feel that way anymore so now I will go into detail. It’s all about just one woman that managed to wreck my life for a long time. I will start out by saying how we met and the circumstances.

I came back to the U.S.A. as an inured washed-up 27y.o. professional baseball player back in 1993. My standards were high so woman were almost invisible to me being the ladies I had access to were plenty when I was playing ball. Then SHE showed up. I was playing a pick-up hockey game while she was a competitive figure skater. 5-2, 110lbs. with a 24 inch waist. The rest was t~~~ and ass. When she approached I knew this was the girl I was either going to marry or knock up. Turned out to be both. We dated for a couple of years and were married within 5.

The porn star sex pretty much ended once we walked down the aisle.

We had our son in 2000 and the daughter followed in 2004. I believe she started planning her exit right after my daughter was born. One day I came home and her and the kids were gone along with her clothes. I immediately changed the locks. Two days later I was served with DV and other allegations that magically appeared. I got them thrown out of court so she had to stay in her parents house for 6 months until the divorce was final.

I got thrown out of my house and ended up paying a s~~~ ton of child support. I got roughly 5 years until child support ends. This was the only woman in my life I DIDN’T pump and dump. Man, did I pay for it.

This post is getting long so I will give more info in other posts now that I’m comfortable and not embaressed anymore. Thanks for reading.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE TRIED AND TRUE PATH TO FREEDOM BROTHER WELCOME TO THE FOLD

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[KeymasterKeymaster]

foolsgold wrote:

This post is getting long so I will give more info in other posts now that I’m comfortable and not embaressed anymore. Thanks for reading.

It’s not too long at all.
No need to be embarrassed (“she” has plenty to be embarrassed about though!)
And thank you for posting.

foolsgold wrote:

The porn star sex pretty much ended once we walked down the aisle.

I’ll try and be surprised.

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Welcome back, Sir.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

AND PS….

foolsgold wrote:

Two days later I was served with DV and other allegations that magically appeared. I got them thrown out of court

Can you explain how you did this? More than a little curious. Also about where the allegations came from? Her lawyer coaxed her? Did you end up having to pay for her lawyer?

foolsgold wrote:

so she had to stay in her parents house for 6 months until the divorce was final.

Excellent.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

foolsgold wrote:

The porn star sex pretty much ended once we walked down the aisle.

My wife had long beautiful hair and she showed up to the alter looking like a butch bull dyke. AWALT foolsgold. I think they plan the divorce and the marriage on the same day.
Welcome

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[JVBParticipant]

Welcome brother. No need to feel embarrassed. Happy to hear from you and look forward to hearing more. Your amongst friends.

Peace is > piece.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5644]

KM, she had not learned how to lie yet. Thank God. I was 40 at the time and there was NEVER a call to the police during our marriage. If she knew how to lie than it would have stuck. I would never want to tangle with her now because she has become VERY good at lying. No, I didn’t have to pay for her lawyer. She had never been to any kink of court in her entire life. She wasn’t aware that no matter how bad she lied the system would side with her. THANK GOD. smh

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

Nothing to be embarrassed about. When I was in college I was a 4.0 GPA and honor society etc, then law school and Mensa member…on and on so I have some activity going on between my ears BUT however sharp I was I was stupid enough to make the same mistake as you. (twice) So don’t sweat it. No matter how smart/sharp some one is—women are armed by nature with weapons to undermine and destroy our smarts.

[Anonymous 0]

foolsgold wrote:

I was served with DV and other allegations that magically appeared.

Is the DV divorce or domestic violence?

Also, welcome back.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5644]

Pistol, she was armed alright. She chose me because I was the “Chad” with the biggest wallet. I know that now but didn’t then. I also had the breeding traits she was looking for. I no longer look at women no matter how hot they are. They usually wreck it as soon as they open their mouth. I now see that my ex was just another high-end whore. She just happened to select me as her last client even though she doesn’t have a high c~~~ count that I know of.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

foolsgold wrote:

even though she doesn’t have a high c~~~ count that I know of.

Sorry man–however many she told you—multiply by 10; really. Bitches will hook up for a quickie in an airport washroom, parking lot, behind the shrubs, get f~~~ed and forget about it. They are garbage. You’re lucky to have survived with your sanity intact.

Its hard I know—you want to believe this is the one and only—sweet pure loving sexy kind…and then the world is shattered and your sincerest belief explodes right in your face. Its appalling but once it happens you are never the same again.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5644]

Pistol, she said only one so we will go with 10. She knew that anybody was willing to bang the hot figure skater. She has long hit the wall and she might be a 6 at best and doesn’t have the hot body anymore. There might have been a Chad in the picture towards the end of our marriage but I have not found any evidence to support that theory. Chad may have pumped and dumped her before the divorce was final. Old retired guy it stands for domestic violence. I like to think women didn’t have as many partners back then but I am most likely wrong. smh

[NeverAFGParticipant 20]

foolsgold wrote:

The porn star sex pretty much ended once we walked down the aisle.

FrostByte wrote:

My wife had long beautiful hair and she showed up to the alter looking like a butch bull dyke. AWALT

It never ceases to amaze me how women turn off the sex once they get married and he was a Chad too. I know they have a lower sex drive than men but I can’t believe how cold and calculating they are in using sex to control and manipulate men. Sometimes I wonder if they are born knowing how to do this or is this something they discuss among themselves on how to screw us over.

Women can have their freedom as long as I have mine.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5644]

The sex slowed down after I we got engaged. She then noticed that many other women were interested in taking her place. The sex immediately came back. They know what they are doing. What a c~~~.

[Nexus974Participant 36]

The porn star sex pretty much ended once we walked down the aisle.

Pistol, she said only one so we will go with 10.

Porn star quality sex when she says she only had one previous lover? This is the part that would make me suspicious. You definitely got played brother. Don’t sweat it, we’ve all been there. I’ve committed every blue pill sin in the book including walking the aisle, twice. I look forward to your posts.
Welcome brother!

[Anonymous 1]

FrostByte wrote:

I think they plan the divorce and the marriage on the same day.
Welcome

AHAHAHHASHAHAHHAHSAHS this is so DOPE, this should be in the official MGTOW quotes!

Anyway, welcome bro! I guess that in your case “is better to have loved and lost than never have loved” does not apply.

[foolsgoldParticipant 5644]

The more I look at it I notice tons of red flags that were right in front of me but like a good little blue pill boy I ignored it. I know I got played and it took a long time to face it. Correct MATH. It does not apply. What gets me is after all she has done to me she wants me to play again. She seems to know there is not a chance but still makes feeble and clumsy attempts. smh

[KeymasterKeymaster]

foolsgold wrote:

What gets me is after all she has done to me she wants me to play again.

^ This is the sweet spot for men.

One chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AuctoratusParticipant 52]

Welcome, again…
Wow, that was a s~~~ storm you went through! Ah women, where would we men be without them? Somewhere very far away, in a better place.

My Ex also got some fake police report going for domestic abuse, planning to use it in court. Only I kicked her out instead of marrying her. I probably would have been dead by my own hand if I had married my Ex, so “No wife – Happy Life” is true.

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