Making a Last Stand – Mom tells me "How Men Think"

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Hey guys.

So, I was having yet another conversation with my mother the other day, and she made some interesting points as far as the female mind thinks about men, or rather, how they have taught themselves to do so.

So we were talking, and inevitably, we have a slight disagreement on something. Mainly, she was talking about how men act, and what she was saying was so outrageous I couldn’t help but correct her, no that is not how men act or think. Now I’m 17. The only reason she was talking about how other men act, is because she wanted me to act the same way. But the only behaviors that she was talking about were behaviors that she herself wanted other men to follow that would benefit her, not what other men actually do.

In this case, because she had an opinion on how, quote on quote, “men acted”, and I, a male, disagreed, she turned to the shaming tactics that this site has already laid out. She followed it almost to the letter, saying that men don’t talk a lot, so I should not either. She also then said, that the thoughts of men are simple and easily understood.

Now whenever I start to disagree on something with her, what she tends to do is repeat her last sentence over and over and over again, getting louder and louder, even if I just disproved what she’s now repeating. So my response to her saying that men don’t talk that much and that it’s unmanly to do so was to say that all of the greatest philosophers of the world are men, the greatest thinkers, the greatest inventors, most public speech seminars are held by men, etc.

I then said that men usually don’t talk a lot of fluffy bulls~~~ that gets no-where (which, as we know women do a lot; but when they do it they are fishing for information). When men talk about things, it is to get to the bottom of an issue, solve a problem, in general, to actually GET SOMEWHERE WITH THE CONVERSATION or get something done. When we have disagreements, we generally talk about them in a calm and rational manner, and even sometimes, we agree to disagree.

Now, of course, I do know that we talk about things for hours that are of mutual interest, but that is not fluffy bulls~~~. I thought about telling her this, but I knew she’d just twist it to fit her argument, even though it has nothing to do with what we are talking about. What she was really saying wasn’t, “Men don’t talk a lot”, she was saying, “Men are not supposed to argue with women, know your role and shut up”. It’s pretty obvious, because she only says that s~~~ when I start disagreeing with her.

I responded to her saying that men are simple by saying that, sure what comes out of our mouths might be simple, easy to understand, but that is only because we make it so. Putting together a V-8 engine might seem complicated, but if you follow the steps, you can have it together in no time. The inner workings of a mans mind can only truly be understood by men. (She REALLY hated me saying that only men can truly undertand men for some reason)

Now I knew she was talking about the aspect of simple in order to imply that men are stupid, which is why, I purposely twisted the conversation back to reality. Now at this point, she is doing that annoying thing where she is repeating the last sentence that she said over and over, “men are simple, men are simple, men are simple”. At this point, I know I’ve got my point across and she can’t think of anything else to say, which is why she has reverted to repeating that sentence over and over, as if repeating it will make it true. Of course, she herself knew that wasn’t true. It would only be true for a suppressed beta blue pill mangina male. Now the blue pill has the same potential, he just does not let it be reached because he is too busy bending to the will of a female who, quite frankly, doesn’t know what the f~~~ she wants.

Now many of you might wonder, why am I explaining any of this to her. The only reason I am engaging in shutting down the stupid bulls~~~ I hear is to make it stop. I am slowly getting in a financial situation as to where I can move out. Until then, this is what I have to deal with, so I’m more or less making a last stand and biding my time. I noticed that I usually don’t hear the same bulls~~~ again once I disprove it. The only reason she’s stopping, is because she knows that I’m not some pussy whipped male that has no backbone, and refuses to hear a WOMAN tell me some screwed up idea of what a man is.

If I didn’t offer any resistance to what I hear her say, she’d shout it in my ear 24/7, which is something I will not have. Now, of course, she hasn’t stopped completly, and I’m pretty sure she never will. She has reverted just to screaming YOU’RE WRONG, YOU’RE WRONG, YOU’RE NOT A REAL MAN, YOU’LL UNDERSTAND WHEN YOU GET THERE, etc.

Once I move out, and she starts that bulls~~~, I’m ending the visit, call, or whatever reason I have to be near her at that particular moment.

 

are you a chia pet in man drag

[BestoftherestParticipant 285]

You’re developing yourself and you’re going the path of not kowtowing to your mother. Her inability to control you gets her upset but in time she will appreciate your independence. Stay focused on the things that will get you out and stay on track.

"Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power."
Abraham Lincoln

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Jackinov wrote:

Now I’m 17.

As soon as you’re 18, you don’t have to listen to her anymore. Start counting the days. And remind her of the same.

Jackinov wrote:

But the only behaviors that she was talking about were behaviors that she herself wanted other men to follow that would benefit her, not what other men actually do.

Extremely common. This is written about exactly in the book “The Manipulated Man”. Make no mistake, it’s a crystal clear manipulation. Whenever a woman uses the term “real man” or describes what’s “manly” ….. it’s ALWAYS about what is beneficial and USEFUL to her. If it’s NOT useful or a benefit to her… the same man is suddenly “not a real man” anymore.

Convenient.

Jackinov wrote:

what she tends to do is repeat her last sentence over and over and over again, getting louder and loude

Another deflection (manipulation) to keep you and the conversation running around in circles. With no desire to be correct or to allow the TRUTH to be the decider of the debate. That’s when the conversation is OVER and you’re going to end it.

Jackinov wrote:

The inner workings of a mans mind can only truly be understood by men. (She REALLY hated me saying that only men can truly undertand men for some reason)

Just because she hates it, doesn’t make it WRONG.

What would she possibly know about being a MAN?????

Nothing. Zero. Zilch. Nada. Remind her of that too.

YOU’RE WRONG, YOU’RE WRONG, YOU’RE NOT A REAL MAN, YOU’LL UNDERSTAND WHEN YOU GET THERE

“I’ll get there on my 18th birthday…. and starting on that day, you’ll be WRONG WRONG WRONG every day of the rest of your life. I will personally make sure of it. You’re not a real woman. How do you like that.”

That will reduce her to a nice puddle of tears for her arrogance.
Until then, just make sure she doesn’t poison your dinner like she tries to poison your mind.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[BestoftherestParticipant 285]

Keymaster covered an topic, what books are you reading Stargate? Their are a number of books mgtow recommends. These books are outside academic circles so you’ll get a real understanding of modern women.

"Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power."
Abraham Lincoln

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Do you have a basement and a chair?

Shopping list:

1. Strong tape

2. Rope

That should shut her up ?

[Anonymous 5]

I was about to warn you to be careful because you’re still living under her roof till I read further on about you becoming financially independent.

After reading a bit about the current #gamergate situation and the truths it’s made transparent I’ve come to realise why so many guys up to 20 “get it” when it comes to the Matriarchy we live in. No generation of males in modern history have copped it so bad from the cradle, right through to the workplace. (not even including “relations~~~s”)
The marriage mill and divorce financial devastation lessons aren’t needed after a lifetime of discrimination and media man-bashing. These are what our older generation had to endure to come to the realisation that women are brutal dictators and don’t suffer dissent on any levels.

Tools like Youtube, twitter, forums and comment feedback to all net published news articles allow all males to see what other males really think and public media won’t say because Feminism won’t allow it. #gamergate has alerted both government and industry that there is immense male power because of the internet.
Oppressive regimes all around the world have been learning this same lesson. This is why China has such a tight grip on the net.
Social media has allowed women to “out” themselves everywhere. All their narcissistic brainlessness and misandrist mindsets are now constantly on show for all to see. Facebook is literally the largest file of female behaviour in human history.

There’s one little detail women haven’t taken into account.
They’ve always been far better at verbal arguing. They have an arsenal of tactics that men aren’t allowed to use.
There has never been a study that didn’t confirm they use immensely more oral words than men everyday, but when it comes to the mostly uncensored internet, men are far better writers.
All female tactics of shaming, screaming, tears, bullying are next to useless, furthermore, they’re set in bronze for all to see.
Women constantly remove their bullying.shaming tactics on the net after they’ve been shot down. They know it makes them look like bullying simpletons. I’ve had it done to me a number of times on Youtube comments, especially that screaming bitch video when one idiot women tried to defend her. F~~~ I had fun with her.
The net gives us the ultimate advantage, the written word. Also, after seeing how #gamergate has destroyed their opposition, the ultimate weapon that trumps all other female tactics combined, everytime,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,HUMOUR!
Men absolutely and ruthlessly take the p~~~, ridicule, lampoon and destroy feminist arguments and personalities with hilarious ease.
It’s disappointing when women try to use the same tactics, it’s almost always tragic.
Women’s only defence is to remove posts or twist censorship rules to remove feminist “heresy” under some guise of oppression or discrimination. Or to retreat to their own bastions of bulls~~~ and preach to the converted.
Contrary to popular opinion everywhere, I believe their days of modern reign terror are numbered.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

Thanks guy for your support! Keymaster, I did really enjoy the read of ‘The Manipulated Man”. I’ll read again tonight, only one pass can’t gleam everything from that gem XD.

Bestoftherest, I’ve been looking for more and more books similar to TMM, I definitely know if I pick up any mainstream media s~~~, it’ll be, well, s~~~.

Iliveagain, LOL

****, yeah you definitely make a good point. Women are incapable of actually talking like mature adults about problems. The internet removes their ability to bulls~~~.

And oh yeah, the days are numbered.

are you a chia pet in man drag

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Jackinov wrote:

Now I’m 17.

So you have one more year of high school left, right?

USE THIS YEAR. It is time to study your ass off. Your job, your very reason for existence, should be making yourself as appealing to employers and higher education as possible. Your mother has no part in that.

This does two things for you. First it gives you a good reason to ignore your mother. Secondly it maximizes your ability to get the f~~~ out of that house on your own terms when the year is over.

It’s going to be a lot of hard work, but when you look back a year from now you’ll see that it is absolutely worth it.

Good luck.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Previous posts said it all for me; there’s no need for me to expand on them except to agree.

My story: I could not wait to get out of my parent’s house. They sent me to college and paid my basic expenses, or else I would have enlisted in the military.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

every woman, single moms especially, want to raise their son into the perfect husband (servant) they always wanted.  they’re not interested in raising you to be successful in business, athletics, etc.  The majority of moms are useless in preparing a boy for the real world because the majority of them have never had to live in it and certainly never had to compete in it with other men.  Discussing manhood with your mom is a huge waste of time.

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[JackinovParticipant 5229]

uchibenkei, that is so clear. Discussing manhood with her has NEVER been a good idea.

Just an hour ago, I said, “I know how men think because, well, I am one”. She responds by screaming at the top of her lungs, “NO YOU DON’T YOU’RE STUPID”

Then to test her, I asked, “So what makes a good man?”. She says, “SEE!! THE FACT YOU HAVE TO ASK THAT MEANS YOU DON’T KNOW”.

I respond by saying, “Yeah, but thing is, I just said I did know”.

 

She starts screaming bulls~~~ over and over again at that point. Lol.

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