made the mistake

[QuantumOfPeaceParticipant 114]

So I made the mistake of spending a couple days with a woman and getting affected by it afterwards. This is obviously what I’m trying to avoid getting stressed over chicks) but it happened.

So I was at a little gathering with some friends, and there was a woman I was introduced to. We had a lot in common and she gave me her number and we decided to take a road trip and do some trail runs together the next day.

Well we meet and take this cool road trip. Lots of good conversation and shes pretty cool and non-hysterical, we talked about anything and everything, and it flowed very well. She had a lot of attributes I liked and I was feeling pretty positive as she wasn’t a complete bitch like so many I had met previously.

We meet again the next day and also have a good morning and she leaves that afternoon. I sent a text then get this one back…took a nap just got up had a good time.

So I’m feeling things went well and shoot her another message the next day asking how work went. She has a professional job and I know shes busy but expected some kind of reply within a good time frame.

Anyway 36 hours plus and nothing back. She has her phone with her all the time I’m sure, but nothing.

I’m dissapointed for a number of reasons. One, I really liked this person and she had her s~~~ together and was a rare non-feminist non-bitch (which was why I wanted to hang out in the first place). Two, I felt if she didn’t want to communicate anymore she could have responded as such. Three, I’m still getting caught up with this crap and trying to get to where I don’t need it anymore. Four, I really didn’t need to feel this way, its a lot of stress.

I can see more and more why people give up dating completely. I’m not quite there yet I guess. Thing is spending a few hours here and there with this person would have been cool. I did get kind of attached though.

I’m trying to get over this quickly. I really didn’t want to fall for someone, I want to be independence. Its a hard habit to break sometimes but this is working counter to my independence.

So, the mistake I made was letting my feelings go. Its amazing to me that femenazis claim men don’t have feelings and can’t love. I actually believe we have stronger feeligns and more solid love. Women on the other hand seem to be able to turn the s~~~ on and off and lack a lot of sincerity.

I really wish I could not give a crap. I’m working on it. But I still get these feeling of lonliness and still have this deeply ingrained idea that there is a happy partnership out there.

But I’m seeing more and more its a pipe dream.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Classic s~~~ test.

QuantumOfPeace wrote:

I really wish I could not give a crap. I’m working on it. But I still get these feeling of lonliness and still have this deeply ingrained idea that there is a happy partnership out there.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

At least you’re being honest with yourself about how you feel. Intellectually, you’ve discovered the true nature of women yet your emotions have not yet caught up with that reality, and so you let your guard down with this woman.

But don’t be too hard on yourself. You have an entire mythology — the romantic narrative — in your head that has to be completely unlearned, and that’s not going to happen over night.

I wish you the best of luck the next time you’re tested like this.

[Anonymous 42]

You walked into a blue pill low hanging limb, You initiated the contacts one after another, a couple of dates and a woman is easy to spook, you never should have initiated the contacts, either they follow you, or they go their own way.

You did some classic mangina there. I would play women myself but I’m sick and tired of getting their modern rottenness in my spirit, they’ll turn a nice guy into jack the ripper if you let them.

The paradigm is f~~~ed in so many ways to Sunday you’re better off shifting out of blue pill reverse and into MGTOW overdrive.

I’ve reprogrammed my mind and life to live without the nuisance of modern women, they add misery and heartache to any man’s life.

The thoroughbred unicorns died off by the 1950’s, the only living unicorns are in their 70’s and older, we’re witnessing their extinction.

The 4th wave of feminism’s offspring will willingly toss a man into the inferno’s of injustice without remorse or hesitation, they’ll even do it on a fabricated lie! Then actually think it was for the greater good, they’ll destroy a man with glee in their eyes, this is what feminism has trained them to do.

At first they called us Chauvinist pigs, eventually to all men are pigs, they hear this over and over in their feminist girlfriend huddles (F-book, female media, ladies night).

Just look at the open direct slander and disrespect shown toward men! They even have it down to hysterically laughing about a man having his penis severed with a razor sharp knife, then chopped to bits with razor sharp knives in one of our industrial gifts to these evil and monstrous modern women! Ha f~~~ing ha on national f~~~ing TV!

There’s no wonder why my TV has been OFF since 2005. And I used to pirate the signal and watch all channels all the time and still nothing but s~~~!

A s~~~ test is how a woman shows you she’s just another turd in a sea of endless s~~~!

Smoke her! You were s~~~ on! But then again you assumed the position by getting into a blue pill pussy chase.

Expect nothing but endless head games with s~~~ tests and manipulation when dealing with these waves after waves modern feminist indoctrinated women.

I swear the day I saw those c~~~s laughing hysterically at Jill the ripper was the day any hopes of happiness with a woman immediately evaporated forever!…

[WallyParticipant]

Consider it another step forward not backward, you think she was different at first then she proved AWALT.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[TuneoutParticipant]

A woman changes her mind like the wind,don’t waste your time trying to figure it out.

My TV too is only used for News,Weather,Sports and watching old movies/re-runs of favorite shows.

The rest I just Tuneout!

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[narwhalParticipant]

Hearing guys beat themselves up for having feelings is concerning in a way. Nothing wrong with feelings, just don’t let them take over rational thought. Excitement Disappointment is natural.

Some of the best experiences I’ve had with women is when I treated it more like a roller coaster ride. This was going to be great, but it was going to be over. When it does become over, then I look back fondly on the ride, but don’t lament that the ride didn’t last forever.

Ok. Then do it.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Mr. Man wrote:

At least you’re being honest with yourself about how you feel. Intellectually, you’ve discovered the true nature of women yet your emotions have not yet caught up with that reality, and so you let your guard down with this woman.

xlrsnbrg wrote:

Classic s~~~ test.

narwhal wrote:

Hearing guys beat themselves up for having feelings is concerning in a way. Nothing wrong with feelings, just don’t let them take over rational thought. Excitement Disappointment is natural.

I agree! Oh yes, I agree!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[QuantumOfPeaceParticipant 114]

Thanks for the feedback. Truly awesome words.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

You took a road trip with a woman you just met the previous day? Oh man.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

He likes to live dangerously.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

It’s called One-Itis. And it’s part of the mythology/narrative that most of us have been programmed in to since we were born.

She was giving you some measure of validation that you couldn’t/weren’t getting from yourself. This gives her (and all women, in general) some power over you. It sucks.

If I were in your position I would:
1) Hit the gym
2) Hire an escort so I could get back on an even mental level

Oh. And I’d block her number/Facebook/email/etc. I wouldn’t ever communicate w/her again. I know that when I one-itis over a chick, no contact is the best contact.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

A couple of things spring to mind. Seems like you maybe got friendzoned as she may have been up for some quick casual sex, if she’s so quick to go on a road trip with a complete stranger. It also sounds like a classic bait and switch where they are keen to start with, then make it seem like you’re the chaser. She clearly wasn’t what you thought, probably has a bf or side guys. It’s annoying to deal with these flakes but it’s only that – annoying. Focus on yourself – eventually you’ll become more disinterested towards females and this kind of crap will matter less and less.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[Buller100Participant 2189]

Usual crap.. Whose car ? Who paid.. I would guess free few days for her .. She used you like all women use men.

Smile appear interested … It’s what they do.

[QuantumOfPeaceParticipant 114]

So tonight I went out to a street party that happens here once a year. Met up with the usual network of friends including the one that introduced me to the road trip chick. We end up at this and she tells me that this friend (road trip girl) is coming over. Well she shows up and the spectacle begins where she completely ignores me while talking to my other friend.

I was disturbed by it but not surprised. Went after to talk with my bro. I’m going to cut off both these bitches. The one, before road trip girl came by, was telling me about her problems. She hooked up with this guy who she really liked and f~~~ed him off the bat, and was telling me about all this potential they could have, then how he completely cut her off that night. I told her maybe she should work on herself and not try to pick up a stranger every night. Which she basically ignored.

The funny thing is road trip girl probably did want me to hit it like the poster above mentioned. I didn’t show hardcore interest, I’m not really desperate like that. The whatever happened where she blew me off. Her friend got blown off but she wanted me to listen to all her suffering. But when it came to my story she wasn’t really that concerned, then consoled her friend who was ignoring me.

Well, suffice it to say the whole thing was a great thing for me. There is truly an unlimited well of diahhrea that is this feminist mindset. I saw the anguish in the one girl who f~~~s guys but is so sad she got dumped. I saw the other one who tonight actually looked not so impressive. I saw the whole thing unfold and realized I’d had enough of these females for a while.

So, if I can stick to my guns…

No more chasing, no more mindgames, no more compassion or care. I’m sticking to my bros and myself as these things pay off. The blue pill is what exactly? Matrix, illusion, ‘female-mystique’? Its this illusion that is dying in my mind and tonight I just saw a lot of pathetic animals.

I gotta get on track my brothers. I’m obviously not 100% there yet.

[DanceMyOwnWayParticipant 2096]

The guy the other girl hooked up with couldn’t have cared less about her. That’s the exact attitude you will need to sleep with these kind of girls. Listen to Tom Leykis. Give them a miss for a while or learn not to care and basically use them like they use guys – that seems to be the MGTOW choice in a nutshell. Quite right to put your male friends and your own life FIRST.

If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

[SamsquanchParticipant 4226]

Stay strong brother, you’ll learn to deal with the emotions, they are just temporary anyway.

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