Made it through

[StealthParticipant 5375]

Big news!

Last year I started a timer to quantify how much of my life was stolen in my divorce rape. That timer ran out today, totaling sixteen months.

To recap: I had a handful of extreme work years several years ago where I was making six figures in a constant sprint of sometimes 100 hour work weeks. I was doing it for the sake of survival, working towards a savings goal that would secure our position of basic financial independence, would pull me ahead as the breadwinner (which I felt I owed my wife since she made more than I did the first couple of years), and would allow me to return to academia, which was my original chosen career. It was a big deal since we started at poverty level.

The moment we hit that goal––and before the final check arrived––my wife informed me she was leaving and coming after the money, and I had better talk to a lawyer.

I had brought in about twice as much as she (66% of marital assets) and zero debt. In the divorce, assets were split on paper 50%. The mathematical difference which she didn’t work for but was “awarded” came out to just over one hundred thousand dollars––and which I necessarily see in terms of pounds of my flesh––although in addition, I donated a handful of thousands of dollars to her via our lawyers just as a measure of cordiality, after which she refused to make good on some joint tax liabilities we still owed. So damages were really, what, 120k? For the sake of calculations, I’ve used the 100k figure.

I’ve had to go back to sprinting ever since, but in the last few years business has been slower, a more average pace. I also took a side job in a warehouse at $11.50/hour for a year and a half to fill extra time, and bought and fixed up a couple of house on the side to rent out. In the midst of all this, I decided to start a timer as a random average sample of how much of my life was stolen from me by the one who vowed to be with me forever– measured by how long it would take to increase my total savings by one hundred thousand dollars. Every dime, every injury, every hour of missed sleep, goes to her 100%. Every minute under this timer has been a moment of total slavery.

The timer started in May 2018. It ended today, for a total of sixteen months.

With all my work combined, it has taken sixteen months with everything going 100% to her.
(I calculated that my unskilled side labor job alone would have been 8 years and 8 months of forced labor).

I’m surprised I made it; it has partly to do with having thrown some money into stocks, as today’s rise in markets is what hit the target. I’m aware it will likely drop in value before likely increasing again, but this type of market volatility is factored in to the experiment. After all, market demand in my industry got me there in the first place, and gambling on marriage is what resulted in a windfall loss.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[StealthParticipant 5375]

It seems the next step is to clear my head of the thought that I am still paying her off. Everything forward is money I’m making for me, and any debt to her – whether by religious vow, etc has been paid off.

Basic for some, but for this religious person who takes his vows seriously, this is a big milestone.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[HermitParticipant]

Congratulations. Does this mean you now have sort of a “clean slate” as though that marriage had never existed? Must give you some much deserved satisfaction.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[MATRIXParticipant 2368]

Good news, Bro!

Now go and have a great cuuunt free life.

There is NO wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it. - http://mengtow.freeforums.net/

[Daryll55Participant 2956]

Congrats!
16 months isn’t a bad lot of time to endure the hardship of divorce, the $$$ can be replaced, but the opportunity cost of life with someone who “pulls the plug,” can’t be replaced.
Time to put it all BEHIND YOU, and MOVE ON !

Marry again, Hell NO ! ( Even JESUS was hung on a cross just once)

[AwakenedParticipant 35204]

Daryll55 wrote:

ut the opportunity cost of life with someone who “pulls the plug,” can’t be replaced.

So, True!!

We were Young and Dumb BELIEVING the Non-Stop Lies and False Promises to the point where we not only invested Everything (IE: Time, Energy, Cash, Future, Mental and Emotional Health etc.) we had, but Everything that we would have throughout what should have been the “Best Years of Our Lives” only to have it all stolen from us.

THEY Truly are your average man’s BIGGEST and Most Dangerous Enemy.

Unfortunately, Most Men will NEVER Learn this and continue to go back for MORE and MORE til they draw their last breath.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3787]

Good job, man.

I gotta say it: what a piece of sh.it human you married.

[StealthParticipant 5375]

SpiderHerder wrote:

Good job, man.
I gotta say it: what a piece of sh.it human you married.

Thank you, and to everyone else too.
Yes….yes. Although at the time she was the brightest star. The youngest, most innocent, virginal, exotically beautiful, religiously chaste, naîve person ever locked up in a unicorn stable. I still don’t think anyone could do better. AWALT.
My family still puts that human s~~~ on a pedestal.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[SpiderHerderParticipant 3787]

Stealth wrote:

Thank you, and to everyone else too.Yes….yes. Although at the time she was the brightest star. The youngest, most innocent, virginal, exotically beautiful, religiously chaste, naîve person ever locked up in a unicorn stable. I still don’t think anyone could do better. AWALT.My family still puts that human s~~~ on a pedestal.

She hypnotized you well, but now the spell is broken.

Have a great future, man.

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Congrats……Now go stealth on her before she comes after you for more demands…Good luck with freedom…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[MonkParticipant 17042]

Stealth wrote:

My family still puts that human s~~~ on a pedestal.

It will always be ‘your fault’. Not that you give a damn what they think.

And no doubt they still hope that you will find ‘the one’.

[bstoffParticipant 4876]

Congrats.
I’d say you got off much better than a lot of guys who have had to lose their children, spend time in jail, or have died, either by suicide or at the hands of misguided police/boyfriend.

Some women are simply divorcing as a financial decision; for themselves, of course.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Once you learn this old hard truth, why would you ever bother? It sucks man. But the sad part of Equality is that women simply don’t need a partner. They need a Paycheck. It’s strange how Greed has always been a thing that men were credited with.

I don’t think that anymore. I don’t think anyone thinks the same ways anymore.

It’s weird how at one time, I thought I was going to build a life. What I built was a machine that helped to destroy all hope of the idea of happiness.

Men often talk about the money aspect. Simply due to the fact that you can not measure sorrow. And what are women complaining about? Money. The thing man has little use for. The thing he wants can not be bought.

Sad as it is, you wonder why people live in War Zones, and Dangerous places? Oddly enough… Women see the value in Protection. If the Government is there to do it for her, she does not need you or love you period. She loves the state. Good. Let them provide.

When the state starts to offer men the love they so value, then maybe things are going to change. I have a Hunch that what is going to happen will be some Private enterprise that will make this a possibility for men of the future.

It does puzzle me a bit. If you love something you protect it. But in order to protect it, it must be in a constant state of fear. So how does that work with a Relationship?

TFM hit the ball with the thing about Male Scarcity.

So in order to make this work, you either have to artificially make an environment that women need you. Or relationships simply do not work. It’s hard to imagine this. But if you think about every love story. Every tale ever told that caught a woman’s imagination, you see clearly that there is just no other way to accomplish this.

It’s a such a tragic thing in the west. Now, all that strife makes sense in other countries. Imagine that. Those so called oppressive regimes are simply there to make sure you have a successful relationship with women.

Damn. It all makes sense. Even this so called rape culture. Like it or not, if women don’t have something to worry about, they seem to go nuts. It explains a lot of things today. Instead of producing the result that men and women would pair bond, it had the opposite effect.

Here me out. What if this was always known? If this is true, then the social engineering must have went haywire when women took the wheel. In fact, if you wanted to destroy a nation, or weaken an entire world, Bring PEACE and Certainly easy living.

In fact, was not Rome destroyed in this way? Giving women nothing to fret over? If you take this to its logical conclusion, you can understand why so many places refuse to follow the Enlightenment example.

No wonder many people fall into the slump of not caring. Young men today especially. What are you going to offer men if they all know that women are simply not worth it? There is no love women can give you. And there is no value to men of women that are made not to love.

If there is only the idea for wealth and power, and women can get that by plundering your heart, then why bother? What is there for men to earn or achieve in women if there is nothing there of value to a man?

This actually goes double for gay men and women. Some of their bonds were directly tied into the danger and fear. So they had to stick together. In today’s day and age, that is just Simply not possible as it once was. It makes me wonder if that is why Gays were so hated in the past in Religions. In fact, as we know, gay men may be the only types of men to experience mutual love.

I’m sorry, but that is a REAL f~~~ed up Cruel joke.

If anything, If you wish to participate? Don’t have children. There is no amount of compensation of a broken heart but another one in it’s place.

Cruel joke indeed.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

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