Lurking here for over a year, finally an intro

[MurineesParticipant 704]

I moved to the US in 1999, my wife soon joined me a couple months later. We were thrilled to start a completely new life in a new country. Within 5 years, we have 2 kids. We were not rich but we were happy. To me the family is everything. As my career progress, we moved to CO and my wife went back to school preparing to work later. Several years later, she changed, becoming “americanized”. She got a boob job and started to work out. She would go out late weekly for the lady’s night with some friends. She would have secret phone call/text. Then, she said she want to move out and be independent, to have more space. Of course, I found out from her emails that she has been seeing different guys for 2 years. And the most recent one was a good catch, a wealthy guy, that bought her a house and a BMW. So, she divorced me. Fortunately, I have joint custody for the kids. And she did not ask for alimony, just child support. The first year of divorce was really hurting. I tried to find replacement in other women but deep down I knew it wasn’t the answer. Then I saw a guy (Cully Schmetterling) message in some random blog/forum:

“Increasing number of men are doing a cost/risk/benefit calculation and coming to a rational decision that modern women are too toxic for any form of interaction with them to be of benefit. Go MGTOW.”

I googled what MGTOW is, and I came here.

Some say women in other ethnicities may be better, but my case showed that AWALT once they are brought into the western culture. They all shared the hive mindset.

MGHOW is the only way. I have much to learn to walk this path but I am at peace to know it is the right one.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Murinees wrote:

Some say women in other ethnicities may be better, but my case showed that AWALT once they are brought into the western culture. They all shared the hive mindset.

I doubt you’ll much of an argument against that statement here. Welcome.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 6]

Welcome brother.

[joetechParticipant]

You have joint custody, she has a rich boyfriend and she needs child support from you? Welcome to America and the American way, my friend. You’ll find American women are gluttonous when it comes to money and things. Welcome to the forum.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome,

I think you got lucky to escape relatively unscathed. Thank you for telling us your story. I hope you will feel better being here.

Murinees wrote:

MGHOW is the only way. I have much to learn to walk this path but I am at peace to know it is the right one.

Well said. I too have much to learn, but have found much peace from my MGTOW brothers.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

AWALT regardless of culture and ethnicity.

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Welcome Murinees. Lurking for a year? It’s great that you finally decided to speak out now. Sorry to hear about your situation but you must know, studying the forums for a year, that you’re better off now.

May you continue on, straight as an arrow, down your MGHOW road.

[JimBoLeaParticipant 1891]

WELCOME TO THE FOLD BROTHER. MGTOW A PATH NOT WELL TRODDEN BUT A PATH NONE THE LESS.

LILITH IS THE HEAD SUCCUBUS AND SHE LIVES ON THE DARK SIDE OF THE MOON

[MurineesParticipant 704]

joetech wrote:

You have joint custody, she has a rich boyfriend and she needs child support from you? Welcome to America and the American way, my friend. You’ll find American women are gluttonous when it comes to money and things. Welcome to the forum.

Yes, I know she trolled me. She has way more money than I do but she hid it during the court proceeding. I just did not want to get too ugly in the separation and back then I was too depressed to fight (alone, having literally no one on my side).

Thanks for all the replies, brothers. Yes, I am much better off now with the MGTOW mindset. Life is getting simpler and joyful.

[Y_Participant 4591]

Welcome and you are doing the right thing. There is no willing this game.

I am not sorry for the loss of your ex-wife. It was bound to happen. I’m glad about the joint custody. That’s the important bit.

Females everywhere are exactly the same. Take comfort from the fact that your ex will get dumped somewhere sometime. You on the other hand have a real future.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Murinees
Beer’s in the fridge

[bladeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Welcome home, Murinees
Beer’s in the fridge

m52 won’t offer us a beer because we can get rowdy . Lol .

Good you found this place and alot of good guys here bro .

Welcome to the brother hood

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome to MGTOW road Murinees!

The road less traveled is the road to peace.

The only other road is a highway to hell!

You chose wisely…

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Great intro! Non-Western women do indeed tend to be more feminine…until they become Westernized c~~~s! Too many manginas in our society who let them get away with murder.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[amb6zParticipant 19]

Are you a biochemist? Your avatar looks like a protein.

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome Murinees, your ex-wife acted just like nature and society told her to do, by the way if you do not mind I have a question:
Was it your idea to move to the US, or was she suggesting it in any way?

[I left it all behind meParticipant 68]

Asian Women are where it is at! Had 2 American wives divorced the last one after a visit here to Thailand and sold everything there and moved here. Not that difficult. My brothers, get a r/t ticket Kayak.com ($1,200) and check it out. Hotel $45/nt. Step off the plane and zero political correctness, zero feminism, and the American culture I only read about dis-appears also. It is a Kingdom here and the culture & people are the happiest & kindest people in the world. I read that you moved “to the states” from where? The girls/women here are very traditional.And it so refreshing. Been here 20 years. There are several hundred thousand Western men (mgtows) with all the similar stories shared here, except the stories are behind! them and have started new lives.Asian women can be quite shy, at first, but, Western men are prized over here. It is so wonderful to be appreciated and it takes so little to make people smile. As mentioned twice married US women, here I have never been head tripped, or nagged,or you name it.
I live here on $1,500/mo from social security on a beach & travel up to the mountains when I want. The Land of Smiles is the highest on the Happy People list worldwide (yes there is a happiness index). Its great being around happy, simple, peaceful people. Thailand is a mono-cultural and the people live in harmony here. There is zero ( 0 ) conflicts about anything here. The tv shows crop reports, no scary world news. You can look for the scary US news on line. But, why? Anyway, come on over and meet some Asian women. You’ll never go back!!

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome brother. For the most part, I dislike BMW drivers (sorry if I stepped on anyones toes in here). They typically have a f~~~ed up attitude.

[MurineesParticipant 704]

Sorry for my late replies. I came from China (Hong Kong to be precise). It was my idea to come to the US, mostly for career and yes I am a biomedical scientist. The avatar is the 3D structure of the green fluorescent protein. Back in Hong Kong, most people are conservative in marriage. Divorce seems to be the game of the riches and celebrities there, not so much for the common folks. Importantly, there we don’t have no fault divorce. I think this no fault thing really contribute to the breakdown of marriage in US.

[Anonymous 22]

Murinees wrote:

Sorry for my late replies. I came from China (Hong Kong to be precise). It was my idea to come to the US, mostly for career and yes I am a biomedical scientist. The avatar is the 3D structure of the green fluorescent protein. Back in Hong Kong, most people are conservative in marriage. Divorce seems to be the game of the riches and celebrities there, not so much for the common folks. Importantly, there we don’t have no fault divorce. I think this no fault thing really contribute to the breakdown of marriage in US.

You might want to rethink that. That f~~~ing country is a s~~~hole and it sucks. But if you really want to go there, I wish you luck. You’re gonna need it. Whatever you do, I wish you all the best!

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